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Ive done pretty well for not having my own place or car for long periods of time. I hate having shit tying me down. And personally id rather live with family that i trust than some random fuck i really barely know and haveta get credit checks and background checks and having mother fuckers be able to walk into my place for "maintenance". I know that's different for different situations im just being honest im not trying to work that hard and still be broke after its all paid for every month.

Sidenote back to the rocky mtns. for the summer time


Ahhhhhhhh to be so young and carefree again!!

I grew up was too fast. I bought a house when I was 22 and have been a "responsible adult" ever since. I guess it's not all that bad. I have a good life and I'm pretty successful overall. I have also achieved the peace of mind that I know I can support myself without ever depending on anyone else. That's pretty big for me.

Live it up though, bro. You don't get the time back :)
 
Ahhhhhhhh to be so young and carefree again!!

I grew up was too fast. I bought a house when I was 22 and have been a "responsible adult" ever since. I guess it's not all that bad. I have a good life and I'm pretty successful overall. I have also achieved the peace of mind that I know I can support myself without ever depending on anyone else. That's pretty big for me.

Live it up though, bro. You don't get the time back :)

I mean my situation isn't ideal with all the mistakes ive made in my past but the way i look at it is it could be a lot worse. I see all these people work their whole life's to only be too tired to enjoy retirement, fuck that, im seeing and enjoying the world while im young and can. I can always make money or finish school. The one thing out of all the mistakes ive made with my past i'd change is fucking up my credit really. That shit is checked for everything nowdays. fuck its worse than having a felony
 
I couldn't even imagine buying a house at this point in my life. I wanna live it up now while I'm young, but I also hope to be a homeowner someday and be able to settle down. I don't know what will be the point to start to settle down and stop with the dumb(fun) shit.

I wanna further my education and go back to school, but I feel like it will be hard to get back in the academic swing of things after being out of it for so long.
 
I mean my situation isn't ideal with all the mistakes ive made in my past but the way i look at it is it could be a lot worse. I see all these people work their whole life's to only be too tired to enjoy retirement, fuck that, im seeing and enjoying the world while im young and can. I can always make money or finish school. The one thing out of all the mistakes ive made with my past i'd change is fucking up my credit really. That shit is checked for everything nowdays. fuck its worse than having a felony


Everyone makes mistakes. I have made a million mistakes in my life. The key is to learn from them because they help form who you are.

It's never too late to start rebuilding your credit. Do you owe a shit ton of money or something? Credit card debt has always been something that has scared the shit out of me. I never finance more than I can afford to pay off. I haven't paid interest to a credit card company in years. It's not that hard to create a budget that you can survive on.
 
I couldn't even imagine buying a house at this point in my life. I wanna live it up now while I'm young, but I also hope to be a homeowner someday and be able to settle down. I don't know what will be the point to start to settle down and stop with the dumb(fun) shit.

I wanna further my education and go back to school, but I feel like it will be hard to get back in the academic swing of things after being out of it for so long.


Life doesn't stop being fun because you settle down. I'm going back to Vegas for a music festival in October. I might be going to FL in June. For just a couple examples. Life is what you make of it. I just don't have the luxury of being able to move wherever I want when I want. I do have a job that I love, that's pays me pretty well, and I do a lot of traveling for work too. I really have no regrets because it's formed me into the fabulous person I am today :)

And yes, the longer you are out of school the harder it is to go back.
 
Everyone makes mistakes. I have made a million mistakes in my life. The key is to learn from them because they help form who you are.

It's never too late to start rebuilding your credit. Do you owe a shit ton of money or something? Credit card debt has always been something that has scared the shit out of me. I never finance more than I can afford to pay off. I haven't paid interest to a credit card company in years. It's not that hard to create a budget that you can survive on.

nah i had great credit until i was 21 and broke my back and had 2 carwrecks within 6 months. Medical bills killed me when i left my parents insurance a couple years later. pain management/addiction to oxy i guess is a more accurate statement for my debt. Ive lied to so many creditors trying to get ahold of me for years i dunno if they just give up or what. But either way im not trying to own a home or any of that shit or settle down and family time. I kind of think after the summer of heading out to hawaii and living on the beach in a tent or something. Im all for having responsibilities and all that adult shit but ive never been one to be told i haveta do something cause this tard over here is doing it. I think a lot of my ideas of traveling and not having responsibilities comes from being locked up twice and never wanting to be stuck in one place again.
 
nah i had great credit until i was 21 and broke my back and had 2 carwrecks within 6 months. Medical bills killed me when i left my parents insurance a couple years later. pain management/addiction to oxy i guess is a more accurate statement for my debt. Ive lied to so many creditors trying to get ahold of me for years i dunno if they just give up or what. But either way im not trying to own a home or any of that shit or settle down and family time. I kind of think after the summer of heading out to hawaii and living on the beach in a tent or something. Im all for having responsibilities and all that adult shit but ive never been one to be told i haveta do something cause this tard over here is doing it. I think a lot of my ideas of traveling and not having responsibilities comes from being locked up twice and never wanting to be stuck in one place again.

That's pretty understandable. I think having the capacity to move around freely is pretty cool. I met a woman who had no home of her own, she had a house sitting business and just lived (literally) in other people's houses.

I can relate on some levels. Living with my parents for about a year and a half a few years ago while I sorted some stuff out really motivated me to never let go of my independence again. If I didn't have my house to sell then I think I would have moved to South Carolina already.
 
^ what's not to like? You definitely have better weather. It's 52 down there right now and 34 up here. Plus you got southern cooking too although if you're a seafood fan New England is tough to beat.

Another major benefit that southerners have over us is that your cars last forever given that they are mechanically maintained. It amazes me how many older vehicles there are still driving around and looking nice down there. Up here your car spends half its life covered in salt from the streets which means that the body, frame/unibody, or whatever is going to rot. We had a van at work that was only had 60k miles on it and it ran like a sewing machine but, it was ten years old so I had to keep replacing panels and floorboards but, ultimately the rust won that battle.
 
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I can't deal with many more winters of -25° and snow up to my eye balls. Mostly the cold, can't deal with the cold. I want to ride my motorcycle and walk my pups year round. The summers are hot but I can handle that, I've been down there in the summer before. South Carolina was nothing like Birmingham, AL. That was awful.

The food is pretty good in the south but you won't find the same seafood or really good Italian food to save your life.
 
I work in regulatory compliance and food safety for a company. My group makes sure our company is operating within the regulatory/government guidelines.

I know we agreed to steer clear and I promise I don't mean this in a dickish/insulting way, but the fact that you work in regulatory compliance makes perfect sense.

I can honestly say maybe I understand where your nature as a BL mod came from now.
 
I know we agreed to steer clear and I promise I don't mean this in a dickish/insulting way, but the fact that you work in regulatory compliance makes perfect sense.

I can honestly say maybe I understand where your nature as a BL mod came from now.

No offense taken.

Rules and structure and order are very comfortable to me. Maybe I have some latent (or not so latent) ocd issues. Unfortunately the government, especially at the state level, but also at the fed level, is about as clear as mud, but j appreciate the challenge of working out problems and interpreting the law. It's kind of fun in a really nerdy sort of way. It's kind of an ego thing to know more about a law than an inspector/regulator does. I've laid the smack down on a vendor recently and it was empowering.
 
What kinda car is it?

94 camry. It feels like so many things are falling apart, but it's mostly worrying that I have to fill up my brake fluid weekly or I'd have literally no brakes. Plus the inside driver handle is broken so I have to reach through to unlock the door, real pain in the ass.

And I know what y'all mean about cars dying faster in the cold. The mechanic here saw the underside of my car and asked me where I'd moved from. It's covered in rust. Not that anyone around here keeps their cars around here. I think around where I live most of the cars are leased, and everyone drives like an old Asian lady because they want to protect their shiny cars (and A LOT of them are actually Asian).
 
Everyone makes mistakes. I have made a million mistakes in my life. The key is to learn from them because they help form who you are.

Credit card debt has always been something that has scared the shit out of me. I never finance more than I can afford to pay off. I haven't paid interest to a credit card company in years. It's not that hard to create a budget that you can survive on.

I hate owing money, I may be broke as shit and have nothing to show for myself besides a few shitty cars and bikes and a few guns, but at least I have no credit card debt or student loans. I have one personal debt of about 3 grand (and maybe 10 grand in medical bills that I don't ever pay to pay) that's it, I'm pretty good overall. I have no credit cards and the two times I ever opened up a line of credit to try to help my credit scared the shit out of me until I had it paid fully off. I can't handle having shit like that hanging over my head. If I can't afford something then I don't buy it, what if I can't make payments I don't like the idea of consequences. That is the one thing that bugs me about buying the house in NH, I can't comprehend owing sixty thousand dollars to someone. At least the girl is gonna pay half. Fuck that noise.

I forget what part of NH you live in? PM me if you don't want that to be public knowledge
 
I hate owing money, I may be broke as shit and have nothing to show for myself besides a few shitty cars and bikes and a few guns, but at least I have no credit card debt or student loans. I have one personal debt of about 3 grand (and maybe 10 grand in medical bills that I don't ever pay to pay) that's it, I'm pretty good overall. I have no credit cards and the two times I ever opened up a line of credit to try to help my credit scared the shit out of me until I had it paid fully off. I can't handle having shit like that hanging over my head. If I can't afford something then I don't buy it, what if I can't make payments I don't like the idea of consequences. That is the one thing that bugs me about buying the house in NH, I can't comprehend owing sixty thousand dollars to someone. At least the girl is gonna pay half. Fuck that noise.

I forget what part of NH you live in? PM me if you don't want that to be public knowledge

QFT fuck owing money/getting fronted in any situation in life. I had a 3 different houses put in my name the minute i was 18 from my parents flipping houses they'd put em in my name to boost my credit. Was awesome until multiple hundred thousands of dollars in medical and dr bills over about 4 years. There's no way i could ever fathom paying it off so really fuck em.
 
I couldn't imagine NOT using a credit card. I get cash back on all of my purchases so it's absolutely a no brainer for me. I don't pay the credit card company, they pay me. Who wouldn't want free money? Don't ever charge more than you can pay off in a month, that's the key.
 
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