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Unable to show my emotions

Grigore

Grigore

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I can turn my emotions on and off but I can't show them to others,I can't share them.
I have no sexual inhibitions,I am actually considered a hardcore fucker by some of the bitches that got laid with me.
But,I can't hug or kiss a girl,I would do it in a mechanical way,like a robot,with no feelings,I've tried to feel something but still,I felt nothing.
It's impossible for me to be romantic,girls hang out with me only because they heard that I'm good in bed.

What is my problem?
 
Grigore said:
I can turn my emotions on and off but I can't show them to others,I can't share them.
I have no sexual inhibitions,I am actually considered a hardcore fucker by some of the bitches that got laid with me.
But,I can't hug or kiss a girl,I would do it in a mechanical way,like a robot,with no feelings,I've tried to feel something but still,I felt nothing.
It's impossible for me to be romantic,girls hang out with me only because they heard that I'm good in bed.

What is my problem?
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MDMA helped a lot of my friends open up
 
You say you can switch your emotions on and off - what emotions are you switching off and what triggers you to switch them off? Do you care about how anyone else is feeling (not just romantically) do you care if they are happy or sad?

Do the women you hang with call you a hardcore fucker or is this a title you have given yourself?
 
Grigore said:
I am actually considered a hardcore fucker by some of the bitches that got laid with me.
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3 out of 7 girls told me that I'm like dynamite in bed.
The other 4 were frustrated because,after a long dxm abuse,I am able to have orgasm only after at least 40+ minutes of fucking.
Most of the girls had orgasms before I would get the slightest feeling that I'm coming close to orgasm.
 
Bearlove said:
You say you can switch your emotions on and off - what emotions are you switching off and what triggers you to switch them off? Do you care about how anyone else is feeling (not just romantically) do you care if they are happy or sad?
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I do not care about others and their emotions,I'm dead serious about this.I can only feel something for them when I imagine how I will feel if I am in their place.

The emotions that I can switch on and off are: some kind of empathy,anger,lust and hatred.
 
How you reffered to women as "bitches" perhaps you need to find someone you respect to genuinely open up and be intimate with...

Showing empathy is a natural human instinct. I'm scared for you. It must be lonely not being able to connect with another person on an intimate level.
 
As I've mentioned,those ''bitches'' didn't love me,all they wanted is some rough and wild sex and,from friend to friend,they found out that I'm the right man.
It's not about respect,it's about what they actually are or at least,about the way they treated me.
 
How are you going to feel anything if you are so defensive and closed off? Based on how you've responded to the others, it's clear that you're not even really open to advice. Good luck.
 
It's hard to change an introvert and it's considered impossible to change a person's temper.So,do you think it's my fault that I'm like this?
My problem is that,even if I want to change,I can't because I don't know how.
 
Sorry if I came off too harsh earlier, but ultimately it's pointless to ask for help when you're closed off to it. I think you should probably work on being more open in general before asking for help on trying to open up on a romantic level. Being introverted isn't synonymous with being closed off either. I'm introverted and can be very free flowing with my emotions if I choose to do so. I hate to give generic advice, but therapy might help.
 
Grigore said:
It's hard to change an introvert and it's considered impossible to change a person's temper.So,do you think it's my fault that I'm like this?
My problem is that,even if I want to change,I can't because I don't know how.
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Bull. A person who truly wants to change does so.

That being said, it doesn't sound like you have a problem. Sounds like the perfect personality to me. Emotions are a liability.
 
long DXM abuse has left you unable to connect emotionally with girls? how surprising that being on a dissociative for ages would leave you with intimacy issues. it cant have helped.

i too was like this when i was younger. i can connect as in fall in love but its hard for some people to make connections. i find i just am not that drawn to many people.

also if you are having sex with someone and you dont know them well that could be the problem
 
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