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@Sero and SeverelyE: As a lady, how can I know if I am too loose? ... Never had the situation you describe, quite the opposite- yet still wondering. . .

usually it makes a bit of a queef sound IME. do the guys you funk always cum fast or even at all? Can you be fisted? if they don't cum and/or you can put a fist in there it might be loose but if you can't I wouldn't worry personally. All the girls I've been with that were loose never got me to finish and I frankly never went back for seconds lol.
 
Good measures, thanks for that. Accordingly, I don't think I'm loose. I've had a kid and had sex with an abnormally large number of people, so I guess it depends on how well it's taken care of! Pelvic exercise is good...
 
If I have difficulties cumming then she is generally too loose (or overly wet). Thats pretty much the only issue.
 
^^lmao. Ive had my share of loose vagina. I banged a mother of 4 which was like a hotdog in a hallway (im above average in size so its not my equipment). She was a sexy red head though...
 
Falling in love is so hard, but oh so worth it. My life has just opened up in ways I could never have imagined.

As Aristotle wrote: "love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies"

I'm feeling it <3
 
Ah llama, that's horrible. Have you had a conversation with him about it? I mean, about how he feels about it exactly? Do you know why h's staying in the relationship? :(

Oh yeah, plenty of times. They've broken up and gotten back together so many times. He's stayed at my place multiple times when his bf has abused him, he's stayed at his parents multiple times when his bf has abused him. It's ridiculous. (They live together.) It's so tough, I want to help him out and do more but he simply won't listen. My bf has talked to him, our other mutual friend has talked to him *sigh* I wish I could do more.

I think that people need to learn their own life lessons, but I also think that someone needs to step in when abuse is going on!

Agreed completely.
 
^ I'm sorry to hear about your friend llama. Abusive relationships always make me feel for such people in circumstances.

Always let him know he has options and he doesn't have to keep going back to an abusive partner.
 
I was surprised at how much that old adage "absence makes the heart grow fonder" rang true with me. Maybe I truly love my girl. One thing is for sure, I will be so glad to finally see her tomorrow after 9 days away =D
 
Yay, my baby is coming home. I'm heading to the airport now to meet her and bring her back to this hotel I booked for us. I booked it as a treat for her, plus staying with my parents sucks.
 
Did you bring flowers when you picked her up? Your head over heel for her is adorable.

I'm lightweight disappointed that she's not blonde being Swedish or whatever northern european she is.
 
No, I was going to bring flowers, but I had already got her a plant a few weeks ago, so will leave flowers for another time!

When I saw her she ran up and there was one massive hug that lasted about 10 minutes, with little me giving little kisses on every part of her face :D

She's got parents from Croatia. She is gorgeous. SO happy. I might disappear for a while now. Ciao
 
I wonder if all people are inclined to cheat on their partners as the girls I've been intimate with. Probably 30-40% of any sexual encounter I've had has been w a chick w a partner. Or maybe I'm just a terrible person idk.
 
Reminds me of the time that my "was soon to be fiancé" cheated on me with my best friend since childhood.

Just think twice before you get your root on because you could seriously fuck someone's life up.

(Inb4 well if they wanted to then they did etc etc, any justification? Just no.)
 
I wonder if all people are inclined to cheat on their partners as the girls I've been intimate with. Probably 30-40% of any sexual encounter I've had has been w a chick w a partner. Or maybe I'm just a terrible person idk.

No, not everyone wants to cheat on their partner. Yes, there are lots of people that do. It's unfortunate. If they are unhappy, why don't they just break up? I wish I knew.
I don't think it's cuz you're a terrible person. I mean, I wouldn't recommend helping people cheat on their partners, but that's your decision :P
 
For clarity, I've never initiated anything with anyone knowing they were in a relationship, but if we both know where it's headed, then I'm def not gonna try to take the "o no cn't kissu u have bf" moral high ground.

On a somewhat related note I think I'm becoming asexual. I don't rly get pleasure from finishing any more. maybe I can take these SSRIs & completely kill the sex drive.
 
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