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Have You Ever Been in an Affair?

MrSquizz

MrSquizz

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I never thought I would but here I am. And you know what? I don't feel bad about it for one second. Anyone else been with a married man or woman?
 
MrSquizz said:
I never thought I would but here I am. And you know what? I don't feel bad about it for one second. Anyone else been with a married man or woman?
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You're on the right track. People who never had an affair are missing on some quality stuff. They will die without knowing what it feels like, so I feel sorry for them.
 
Ksa said:
You're on the right track. People who never had an affair are missing on some quality stuff. They will die without knowing what it feels like, so I feel sorry for them.
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You know, I always thought I'd never be one of "those" people, but it sort of just happened. We were friends for about five months before getting into bed. And as a result of that, we can't stop having sex. I've always found that with relationships, if you are friends with the other person first, it makes things VERY difficult to break off. (Even if the other person is married!)

And God, I wish I could post pics, because she's a 10/10. Every guy MELTS when they see her. It's so funny when I see these guys drooling all over her, and I have to sit there and pretend like I've never had sex with her. Sometimes an hour or so before we see these people.
 
MrSquizz said:
You know, I always thought I'd never be one of "those" people, but it sort of just happened. We were friends for about five months before getting into bed. And as a result of that, we can't stop having sex. I've always found that with relationships, if you are friends with the other person first, it makes things VERY difficult to break off. (Even if the other person is married!)

And God, I wish I could post pics, because she's a 10/10. Every guy MELTS when they see her. It's so funny when I see these guys drooling all over her, and I have to sit there and pretend like I've never had sex with her. Sometimes an hour or so before we see these people.
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If everybody was like you and her the world would be a better place. Testimonies like this give me hope.
 
Ksa said:
If everybody was like you and her the world would be a better place. Testimonies like this give me hope.
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Well I don't know about that. LOL. But I will say this much: Don't ever get married. That would be my "testimony". HAHA. Thanks guys.
 
Fair enough if you don't feel bad about it, but isn't that sort of a sign that you should really reconsider your relationship?
That's your business if you want to cheat on your partner, but if you don't even feel guilty at least have the guts to let them go.
 
Pagey said:
Fair enough if you don't feel bad about it, but isn't that sort of a sign that you should really reconsider your relationship?
That's your business if you want to cheat on your partner, but if you don't even feel guilty at least have the guts to let them go.
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HAHA. I'm not in a relationship silly goose! SHE is.
 
Aaah sorry. Well yeah, I've done that before and I did feel vaguely guilty but I do believe that in those situations, it's her responsibility if she's cheating on someone, not yours. You're not really doing anything wrong.
 
Pagey said:
Aaah sorry. Well yeah, I've done that before and I did feel vaguely guilty but I do believe that in those situations, it's her responsibility if she's cheating on someone, not yours. You're not really doing anything wrong.
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Yeah, she's married. She's currently on a trip with her husband, and she didn't want to go! She wanted to stay here with me! Furthermore, she's a fair bit older than me, but a perfect 10 none the less. Jet black hair, fake boobs, the works.
 
I've been with married men before. It's fun at first but it never lasts because they want to have their cake and eat it too, not give up their marriage to be with you.

Married men come onto me often. It's kind of sick to see so many of them in heterosexual marriages yet lusting after a gay guy. I swear, that 1 in 10 statistic is vastly underestimating the situation.
 
Why would you feel bad ? Look at it the other way - the person your having an affair with needs a bit of 'spark' in their life - you are that spark, they feel better for it and in return are happy in the relationship? They are happy their partner is happy ? What do you have to loose ?
 
Foreigner said:
I've been with married men before. It's fun at first but it never lasts because they want to have their cake and eat it too, not give up their marriage to be with you.

Married men come onto me often. It's kind of sick to see so many of them in heterosexual marriages yet lusting after a gay guy. I swear, that 1 in 10 statistic is vastly underestimating the situation.
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Sick or confusing ? Why is the notion of being in a heterosexual marriage yet wanting the company of a guy sick?
 
Bearlove said:
Why would you feel bad ? Look at it the other way - the person your having an affair with needs a bit of 'spark' in their life - you are that spark, they feel better for it and in return are happy in the relationship? They are happy their partner is happy ? What do you have to loose ?
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Yeah, it does feel good in a way. (Well outside of the sex, which is excellent.) That being, that I know I'm bringing her some degree of happiness which she is not currently finding in her marriage. She's not happy in her marriage, but at least she can pretend she is for the time being.
 
I couldn't do it. My actions could hurt someone else. Although a friend of mine is very tempting and I don't know his wife, I just couldn't. I always think to myself "Do you do the right thing when no one is watching?"
 
MrSquizz said:
Yeah, she's married. She's currently on a trip with her husband, and she didn't want to go! She wanted to stay here with me! Furthermore, she's a fair bit older than me, but a perfect 10 none the less. Jet black hair, fake boobs, the works.
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Okay...just be careful. I had a very short-lived affair with a married man last year, it was wonderful while it lasted but I ended up getting really, really hurt. I'm glad it's going well for you but do be aware of the potential consequences please :\
 
I think the most I want to say personally is that I've been in some very sticky situations in which someone or another was being compromised. And it just never felt great. Certainly nowhere near as great as it could have felt had both parties been in the free and clear. And, the strange thing is, sometimes the identity of the person being compromised changed over time. It was interesting how some of these situations played out.

Listen ... I'm not here to judge, and if the OP "doesn't feel bad about it for one second," then maybe what I've just said won't resonate. I just much prefer things to be totally above board now -- that's all I'm trying to say.
 
Tude said:
I couldn't do it. My actions could hurt someone else. Although a friend of mine is very tempting and I don't know his wife, I just couldn't. I always think to myself "Do you do the right thing when no one is watching?"
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this.

when committed to someone, even without a ring on my finger; there is no way i could morally compromise our union and betray my partner. its not in my physical make up and its something id never contemplate, let alone act upon. id sooner speak up about having outside desires within the relationship, than dragging someone through my own personal crisis/moment and expecting they accommodate to that. its just wrong in my opinion, and hurtful. nothing good ever arises out of betrayal/broken trust.

...kytnism...:|
 
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kytnism said:
this.

when committed to someone, even without a ring on my finger; there is no way i could morally compromise our union and betray my partner. its not in my physical make up and its something id never contemplate, yet act upon. id sooner speak up about having outside desires within the relationship, than dragging someone through my own personal crisis/moment and expecting their accommodation to that. its just wrong in my opinion, and hurtful. nothing good ever comes out of betrayal.

...kytnism...:|
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Just to take this a bit further - So if you spoke up about having outside of the relationship thing, and you were both comfortable with it (not wrong, not hurtful, no way betrayal) - would you sleep with another person you knew was married?

There is no dragging a person through a crisis - there is no crisis, you meet somebody you like, you want to have sex with them

To them it would be an affair - to you and your partner it was just sex?
 
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