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When is suicide the best option

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WithMyLife

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the love of my life is dead

my boyfriend dumped me for being worthless

i can't cope without drugs

i don't have any drugs

i can't see a doctor until the end of the week

i feel like i have no way out

i want to die.
 
Hey,

I understand the feeling only too well :(

But having been through it, and come out the other side, I can honestly repeat the cliche and say "it does get better!"

Like MDB said, suicide is a permanent soluion to a temporary problem.

You're just going through a hard time. You WILL come out the other side. You are young! So much life ahead of you. You just have to take a few steps to improve things, and we're here to listen and give you our excuse for advice ;)

Till you see your doctor, use the board as an outlet. We're listening. Or PM someone, even me. Many of us are set up for IM chat too. PM me if you want my details.



I do see a time when suicide might be a solution. For me, that's when I'm old and probably suffering from some horrible life-ruining disease, the cure for which would just give me a few months of pain before dying. I would like to think I could end things myself quickly and painlessly without putting family members and myself through a horrible, drawn out decline.

But that's a very special circumstance, and not one you're ready for. Seriously, your problems can be resolved in a reasonably short time, you just need to redouble your efforts. Please don't give up just now, it would be so terribly sad and it would cause a lot of people a lot of distress, including many people here.

<3

BTW it's not you who's worthless, but a "boyfriend" who can't see past your temporary problems to appreciate the great person you are. I'd forget that guy, he's either immature or a bit of knob. You deserve MUCH better.
 
WithMyLife, if for no other reason, please stick around because we would all hate to see you go. I know that doesn't seem like much of a reason at all, but sometimes when things are that difficult, it's good to hang on to the smallest things until you get through it <3
EADD would be devastated if you kill yourself. Please stay with us.

The important thing to keep in mind is that you don't know what the future will hold. I know what it's like to feel like there's no hope of anything getting better at all, or to feel like you simply don't have the strength to keep fighting and to push forward, to feel like there's nothing worth fighting for anyway. But who knows if there might be tomorrow? Who knows who you might run into in a couple weeks who could be able to change your life and let you see happiness again?
The best thing about life is that it's ever-changing. I can only imagine how you must be feeling right now but please, just keep telling yourself this isn't how things have to be until the end - just keep telling yourself until you believe it.

Please feel free to PM me if you want someone to vent to or anything <3
 
lol raas, you cunt



then again, it's not like she'd have to worry about taking drugs around him... keepin him away from them would be the problem




withmylife - been there. golden rule is, sleep on it. things can look a whole lot different in the morning. i know ive been close before, very close. enough to scare me the following day when i no longer felt as bad. there are men out there actually looking for a girl to take drugs with, a lot of them at this very board. not particularly hr, i know, but more hr than killing yourself


get out of your flat, go for a walk, immerse yourself in nature. flirt with a random guy. you will feel better, promise



can someone with less cunt credentials than me or raas have a word through pm... albion/knock/snolly/swampdragon et al
 
You say you've got cunt credentials, BHM, (and you have, don't let me deny you your little pleasures ;) ) but as you've just shown you're quite capable of being a very decent, compassionate guy :D
 
^ nah, it's an act. That's how sociopaths work.


WML, in seriousness, a lot of people on this forum have been where you are and will empathise with you, it's really helpful to the spirit to talk to other people about your problem. There are many good folk on here that are very helpful and willing to listen.








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please dont do it whatever you do, been there manys of times, alot of us here have, alot of my friends have, the bottom line is that you are loved by your friends and family (even if you may feel different too) but please reconsider that as an option as it should never be one, no matter what <3
 
I can only reiterate what's been said here already - there's always some way out of your problems, no matter how dark a place you may find yourself in. Which might not provide you with much comfort right now, but honestly there's always hope.
 
I really wouldn't kill yourself cus your boyfriend dumped you. And kill yourself over drugs no, things will get better. You just can't see it at the moment.

Things will get better.
 
I know I said I was taking a week off for personal stuff, but saw this and rang true with me so wanted to reply. I've been feeling the same, albeit for different reasons. Please stay with us, I know it's hard but there's alway something to keep going for. I've taken to making a list of it all, even the stupid fucking stuff like pretty sunsets or painfully unfunny jokes, it's all there and always will be. Can you not get an emergency doctor's appointment at all? Was first thing I did this morning. Stuff changes, we're all still young. It's just hard to get a start on it. I felt exactly the same with etizolam and booze this weekend and was too scared to just make it happen. Doctors will help, we'll give you support. It'll be fine.

Someone, can't remember who now (sorry) posted this a week or so ago that helped me put things in perspective and go make that doctor's appointment and stick to it. Sleeping on it is good. Finding things to distract you is good. And working on the feelings is even better. Got to wanna know how life ends up? I know I do, you just need the help to find the strength to see it through. Hang in there <3 Try not to rely on other people for your own happiness. It's hard, especially at first, but finding your own worth as a person is a million times better than finding it through someone else. And yeah, there'll be someone out there who accepts you for who you are, but it's honestly not the be all and all, trust.

Really wish you the best x

edit: this thread has made me realise running away from the internet and my friends when I feel like this is the worst idea. i'm staying, because these people are genuinely brilliant at support and if you wanna talk to someone going through the same, i'm more than happy to listen and try help.
 
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It feels like the OP needs someone or something as a crutch and when that isn't there then they descend into this malaise. It'll take time, but the hope for you is being able to stand firm on your own two feet without the comfort of a shitty ex or drugs.

It's achievable, many people are in your emotional situation and have gone on to lead happy and fulfilled lives. You may not be able to see it at the moment, but things can and will get better. Committing suicide robs you of your fair share of happiness and good memories, and your family and friends of the same.

Talk to people here until you can see your doctor. When you see your doctor, explain everything and set about to plan to rebuild yourself. Even just having that plan before going through with it gives you the feeling of a way out to better things.
 
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You say you've got cunt credentials, BHM, (and you have, don't let me deny you your little pleasures ;) ) but as you've just shown you're quite capable of being a very decent, compassionate guy :D
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It really is just a ruse, he's a total monster really.

WML, my advice coincidentally is exactly the same as BHM. Sleep can cure all ills. If need be, get a doc's note and take some time off and sleep for a week. Phone people you know that will cheer you up to take yer mind off things. And if youre struggling for peeps to talk to who'll understand or you can't talk to them about drugs or whatnot, you can have my number and I don't mind chatting or summat.

Sleeping on stuff really can help. It's usually my answer for feeling depressed anyways. It gives you a break from the misery and chances are you wake up feeling slightly better than you did the day before.
 
I haven't red al the posts and pms yet, but I;m still here and feeling a bit calmer (yes, had some sleep and it helped). I'll be back later,
 
don't kill yourself

life is short enough as it is, why make it even shorter

i know you feel really bad right now and think it's a good idea, but trust me, a few years from now you'll be glad you didn't kill yourself

besides, if you die, the memory of the person you loved dies with you.... do you really want that? do you think that person would want you to die? do you want to hurt the people that care about you (trust me some do)?

i'm sorry that i can't explain this better, but please don't kill yourself
 
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