SLR Social vs. It's on like Donkey Kong

[llama112]

Ugh! I've been in your shoes lols. Two of my coworkers are already married and I'm the only one who isn't in our department. Now they are talking about babies and one of my coworkers is pregnant and she will be due next year Feb which means I have to take over her work wahhhhhh!!! lol

Yikes! Luckily babies aren't coming anytime soon in our department. The one person who is married, not having kids. The one who just got engaged, doesn't want kids for at least a year or two, and she'd be the first one. Now another one of my coworkers just got engaged, but she's been with her boyfriend for like five years so it's totally expected now. I am happy for her aha. And she doesn't work the same hours as I do and she's not going to be talking about wedding stuff 24/7 so that's nice. Now there are only two of us in the department in serious (meaning, over like six month) relationships that aren't engaged. He doesn't plan to get married and I don't plan to get married for at least a few years. So many people getting married/engaged!! I don't like thinking about it because it makes me think hmmm what will it be like for me, except I don't care for a couple years.

Re: kids being unpaid labor: LMFAO, you guys must not know the parents I know - probably half of my friends that are parents ask their kids to do NOTHING! The other half pay age-appropriate allowances and give extra privileges for reasonable chores. My biggest gripes about kids today (which makes me feel really, really old) is that they make TV and video games a priority over going out and climbing trees/playing sports/etc., and that most of them are fed sugary and processed crap. BF has 50/50 custody with his ex-wife. The kids outright refuse the healthy food in the house and 'hate all vegetables' - I was able to sneak in some kale into a homemade marinara, though, hehe.

Kids these days ...
It is soooo easy to make a tasty healthy meal, unfortunately some adults won't do that and this is what happened good luck with getting them to eat healthy food!!!

Road head is amazing!!!! :D

And very VERY dangerous...

Agreed! I think it's much better to have kids at a later age. I'm not done with enjoying a free kids life for now lols.

im conflicted a little as to what age is best to have your children. i had my daughter at 21, and while it was incredibly difficult at that age, so are all of the adultive transitions, new found responsibilities and transformations you are making. i love now in my almost mid thirties, having an almost teenage daughter who is also my closest friend as well as my child. im not too old to be "uncool" to her, and still young enough to keep up with trends and playing with her actively. in saying that though, id love to have another child at this age. you are so much more settled into your own skin, and lifestyle; and know what you want out of life. everything runs at a much cruisier pace than it did when i was in my 20's and would love to give myself wholely into the parenthood experience at this age.

There are tons of debates of when is the ideal time to have kids. I'm 22, so I can't even imagine having a kid at age 21, or really anytime in the near future. For me, it'd completely ruin my life. (I'm not going to have kids at all though.) But, like you said, now she's older and you're still young, you can bond differently than a teenager and a 50 year old... which is nice. I'm betting it'll be even better once she's done high school ... depending on what she's like in high school. I know I hated my parents in high school but liked them once I was done high school lol and we could hang out much better. I think my parents were in their early-mid 20s when they had me.

 

[Dtergent]

Road head is amazing!!!! :D

Pray tell what is new with you boy!

 

[Maya]

Yikes! Luckily babies aren't coming anytime soon in our department. The one person who is married, not having kids. The one who just got engaged, doesn't want kids for at least a year or two, and she'd be the first one. Now another one of my coworkers just got engaged, but she's been with her boyfriend for like five years so it's totally expected now. I am happy for her aha. And she doesn't work the same hours as I do and she's not going to be talking about wedding stuff 24/7 so that's nice. Now there are only two of us in the department in serious (meaning, over like six month) relationships that aren't engaged. He doesn't plan to get married and I don't plan to get married for at least a few years. So many people getting married/engaged!! I don't like thinking about it because it makes me think hmmm what will it be like for me, except I don't care for a couple years.



Kids these days ...
It is soooo easy to make a tasty healthy meal, unfortunately some adults won't do that and this is what happened good luck with getting them to eat healthy food!!!



And very VERY dangerous...





There are tons of debates of when is the ideal time to have kids. I'm 22, so I can't even imagine having a kid at age 21, or really anytime in the near future. For me, it'd completely ruin my life. (I'm not going to have kids at all though.) But, like you said, now she's older and you're still young, you can bond differently than a teenager and a 50 year old... which is nice. I'm betting it'll be even better once she's done high school ... depending on what she's like in high school. I know I hated my parents in high school but liked them once I was done high school lol and we could hang out much better. I think my parents were in their early-mid 20s when they had me.

My parents had me when they were in their 40's yep they married late so I guess I am headed the same route lols. My bf and I are planning to move in in two years but we want to travel for at least 5 years so no baby talk for now although his mom wants us to have babies soon lols!!!!!

 

[Animal Mother]

ew. No babies.

I could totally have one if I didn't have to be responsible for it at all, but got to enjoy it at the ages for 2+. When they stop shitting themselves.

I could have like 50 under those conditions! Who wants babies!? babies with awesome genetics.

 

[Maya]

ew. No babies.

I could totally have one if I didn't have to be responsible for it at all, but got to enjoy it at the ages for 2+. When they stop shitting themselves.

I could have like 50 under those conditions! Who wants babies!? babies with awesome genetics.

Ill have your baby but you gotta gimme some child support you know! lols

 

[jam uh weezy]

Pray tell what is new with you boy!

haha embarrassing. Hi Dtergent!!! Life is always bringing unexpected twists and turns, reminded daily of dukkha, anicca, and annata and trying to be accepting of these concepts. funny I was thinking of you and the enlightening conversations we had just yesterday

 

[llama112]

ew. No babies.

I could totally have one if I didn't have to be responsible for it at all, but got to enjoy it at the ages for 2+. When they stop shitting themselves.

I could have like 50 under those conditions! Who wants babies!? babies with awesome genetics.

That's what adoption is for!!!
I could never deal with an actual baby. Arg. A kid if it was actually a kid and could like walk and talk normally and stuff would not be the worst thing in a world but I still don't want to be responsible for another human being, especially a younger one. I really dislike kids.

 

[Lustmord]

The girlie and I have gone on several dates, and I'm growing immense feelings for her. I am wary because my last gf crushed me, but this is a lot better. Everything is 50/50, if you get what I mean..

 

[Psychlone Jack]

So I just spent a few hours fucking the hell out of this girl while her boyfriend, completely ok with the arrangement, watched porn on my phone in the bathroom. Strange situation, but I'm not gonna lie, i had fun.

 

[Pagey]

Strange situation

To say the least, but why not.

 

[Zerrr]

So I just spent a few hours fucking the hell out of this girl while her boyfriend, completely ok with the arrangement, watched porn on my phone in the bathroom. Strange situation, but I'm not gonna lie, i had fun.

Sure is strange. Hope for his sake your phone has a reasonably large screen, good battery life, and head phones. Not everyday someone says 'Hey man can I borrow your phone? If you want you can bang my wife till give it back to you'. I think you got a good deal here.

 

[Psychlone Jack]

Lol hey, if it works it works. I can get used to this.

 

[Pagey]

Sure is strange. Hope for his sake your phone has a reasonably large screen, good battery life, and head phones. Not everyday someone says 'Hey man can I borrow your phone? If you want you can bang my wife till give it back to you'. I think you got a good deal here.

lol I can totally picture the scene.

Celebrating 3 months off heroin today and my boyfriend is taking me out to this really nice restaurant tonight to celebrate. Feels awesome

 

[Zerrr]

Celebrating 3 months off heroin today and my boyfriend is taking me out to this really nice restaurant tonight to celebrate. Feels awesome

That is great Pagey. I understand quite well how difficult it is.

 

[llama112]

Ooooh congrats Pagey, that is awesome!!!

 

[Dtergent]

haha embarrassing. Hi Dtergent!!! Life is always bringing unexpected twists and turns, reminded daily of dukkha, anicca, and annata and trying to be accepting of these concepts. funny I was thinking of you and the enlightening conversations we had just yesterday

I thought you said road ahead. Haha. Forgive me!

Yea, been awhile! I'm actually married now like an old boring fop, we must have a chat sometime!

 

[Pagey]

That is great Pagey. I understand quite well how difficult it is. I have just a few weeks myself (w/subs) I take them more for depression/energy issues.

I think I might retire my 'zerrr' account now and come back with a cooler name ( you know, like Mr Scaganattie has). That way everyone will feel much more comfortable hanging on my nuts.

take care.

Best of luck Zerrr, it really does get waaaay easier once the first few weeks are through

Ooooh congrats Pagey, that is awesome!!!

Thanks

 

[Animal Mother]

That's what adoption is for!!!
I could never deal with an actual baby. Arg. A kid if it was actually a kid and could like walk and talk normally and stuff would not be the worst thing in a world but I still don't want to be responsible for another human being, especially a younger one. I really dislike kids.

Fuck adoption. The purpose of having kids is vicarious immortality. I'm preserving my family line, and myself, through reproduction. Why the hell would I invest in somebody else's genetics? The government already makes me do that with my taxes. Fuck that.

I don't have a problem with kids. I'd love to have like... a 4 year old. That'd make me really happy. I'd teach him how to box and grapple, and get him little bitty Ralph Luaren polo shirts and stuff. I just don't want to take care of a baby. And I want to fuck alot of hot girls too. So he'd have to make time for that. I'm a fan of the modern family situation. Get a girl pregnant, give her some money, and periodically visit your kid. That works great for me. Of course, he'll love me more than his mom, because all I'm going to do is buy him shit, and teach him to be awesome, where as she tells him not to do stuff.

I think I'll go ahead and start knocking bitches up in the next couple of years, when my business starts seeing realized spendable profits.

 

[Lustmord]

I'm far and away from being able to take care of a kid! I can't even take care of myself yet.

 

[Maya]

lol I can totally picture the scene.

Celebrating 3 months off heroin today and my boyfriend is taking me out to this really nice restaurant tonight to celebrate. Feels awesome

Well well congrats pretty girl! So happy for ya!Eat lots too