@afterlyfestyle: I honestly think that's why the aftermath of that first roll wasn't worse for me. The first three days were the worst, feeling just tired and cotton headed at times, and then just outright depressed at others. But he steadily kept in contact with me, and we mostly talked about random BS, neither of us really letting on to how bad we might be feeling. But when I was talking with him I felt absolutely fine. The absolute good kind of beat out the negatives for me.
Being pretty new to it all, and with things being complicated anyway, I've only been left with the whole, what does all of this mean? Then, oh crap, what does this mean for him?
Now my conclusion is that there is much more variation to this than I considered before. Everyone is different, and so is the experience! No right or wrong answers...just good times, hopefully.
Even before getting on here, the experiences I have had immediately made me think that I should be careful who I choose to do it with...because in retrospect, complicating an already complicated situation was probably not the greatest idea.