University Graduation Ceremony

[Perpetual Indulgence]

I've read articles that say that no one should skip such an important event under any circumstances, and will certainly live to regret it.

That is bullshit. I skipped mine in 1995 without regret. I asked my parents if it was important to them to attend because it wasn't to me. They said whatever you want, dear. So I did not go. I got my diploma in the mail.

 

[Tude]

I only went to my high school graduation because a teacher of mine who I really respected tracked me down and said she'd beat me if I didn't go lol. I had an important part in it, too (by default, not because I auditioned), but I think ceremonies are pointless. I ended up going and not telling my parents. I had to borrow a cap and gown since I hadn't bight one, borrow a medal and honor cords, and get a ride to and from there. All my friends were thrilled to see me, and I ended up singing the "Alma Mater" with the seniors in the choir.

I still wish I hadn't gone. Waste of two hours. I could've been playing Mario Kart, but no. I should've taken the beating lol!

 

[reggiee]

^After hearing so many experiences that contradict mainstream belief, and considering my inability to appreciate such things due to my upbringing, I'm confident that no one else will chime in to tell me about the potential benefits, should I decide to go. Pagey and yanker see it differently, but I'm grateful to hear their opinions nonetheless. Their optimism is inspiring, but unfortunately I lack the means to realize it at this time in my life. However, I'm hopeful that I may someday better conform to what society deems to be appropriate. Doing so goes against my belief that I should be sincere, and genuinely express my honest beliefs, but the results of doing so have been far less than favorable. It seems that for my own good, I should modify my attitude so that I conform. I'm certainly trying, by doing things like going to therapy, but I will never be "cured" if my behavior requires that I stay honest. That is something I will never change, so learning to genuinely agree with the majority is my only hope.

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

I do what I want to do *shrugs* Easy decision.
Do what feels right to you whether it agrees with the majority.
Stop giving a fuck in a kind, polite way. People seem to get it then and not be offended.

 

[Pagey]

^Yeah I agree with that. You're clearly completely torn so just do what feels right, as opposed to what you're 'supposed' to do. And hopefully you'll always be glad you made that decision, whichever one it is

 

[Tude]

However, I'm hopeful that I may someday better conform to what society deems to be appropriate. [...] It seems that for my own good, I should modify my attitude so that I conform. I'm certainly trying, by doing things like going to therapy, but I will never be "cured" if my behavior requires that I stay honest. That is something I will never change, so learning to genuinely agree with the majority is my only hope.

No, no, no, no no!

Stop giving a fuck

Bingo.