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Pagey said:
Fucking annoyed. I've been going to the gym every single day for the last month and I literally way exactly the same as before, if not a little more. I seriously don't know what to do. I'm so pissed off.
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Remember that muscle weighs more than fat, hun and you've likely been gaining more muscle from working out so much. Are you feeling better and healthier? That's the important part. I know it's much easier said than done, but try to ignore what the scales say. How you feel indicates so much more.
 
spork said:
Remember that muscle weighs more than fat, hun and you've likely been gaining more muscle from working out so much. Are you feeling better and healthier? That's the important part. I know it's much easier said than done, but try to ignore what the scales say. How you feel indicates so much more.
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True, that's what I'm trying to tell myself :( I was feeling better until I weighed myself, now I just feel even more self-conscious than before because I feel like I've tried everything to lose weight and I just can't succeed. Feels awful :\
thank you <3
 
izzy66 said:
-GRRRRRRRRRRRRR-
been a long week, had my knee drained 2 days ago and it's already huge again, busted a damn crown off a back tooth while flossing but apparently dentists no longer work on fridays, am just so damn irritable i'm gonna try to block all the friggin noise outside w/ headphones, hopefully go to sleep and wake up to a better day w/out a slammin headache or the grrrrrr-tude...
-izzy
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I hope you feel better soon <3 xo
 
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Been feeling a bit off the last week.

Pagey said:
Fucking annoyed. I've been going to the gym every single day for the last month and I literally weigh exactly the same as before, if not a little more. I seriously don't know what to do. I'm so pissed off.
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You should never rely on weighing yourself during the first few months of going to a gym because of the muscle/fat mass difference. It's the one time you should rely on how you see yourself in the mirror.
 
creative!

At a friends house tonight.
We are doing arts and crafts, creating decor in preparation for a goa festival in August.
Oh and we are blasting Led Zeppelin whilst some of the crew are preparing some sort of tasty smelling vegetarian dish.
 
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Been feeling a bit off the last week.



You should never rely on weighing yourself during the first few months of going to a gym because of the muscle/fat mass difference. It's the one time you should rely on how you see yourself in the mirror.
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I guess, I guess. I was just expecting too much so this was quite disappointing :\

tripnotyzm said:
Oh and we are blasting Led Zeppelin
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Yes!!
 
Pagey: Don't weigh yourself. Like, ever. I used to obsess so much over my weight and BF%. If you want to gauge progress, measurements or how your clothes fit is a far better measure.

ATM: Dunno. Like, seriously. It's been an odd week.
 
<3s to both of you, Heather and sconnie. I wish I could give you both a big bear hug right now. *virtual huuuuuuuuuge bear hug*

sconnie, I know you feel lonely but you really aren't. Even if we're just in your computer, you have a ton of friends on Bluelight that care so so much about you. <3

Heather, you are so so not a failure. Something might have not gone way that has led you to feeling this way, but whatever it is will pass and you can get through it with victory. <3
 
heartbroken and crying... my kitteh charlie is slowly dying and there isnt much i can do about it. surgery really isnt a option cuz of his age. he is the one thing that has kept me alive........
 
Oh, snowboarder. :( That breaks my heart. My kitty is one thing that has kept me going as well and I wish they could just live forever with us. I'm thinking about you and Charlie and am here if you want to talk. Much love to you. <3
 
spork said:
<3s to both of you, Heather and sconnie. I wish I could give you both a big bear hug right now. *virtual huuuuuuuuuge bear hug*

sconnie, I know you feel lonely but you really aren't. Even if we're just in your computer, you have a ton of friends on Bluelight that care so so much about you. <3

Heather, you are so so not a failure. Something might have not gone way that has led you to feeling this way, but whatever it is will pass and you can get through it with victory. <3
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Thanks spork <3 you always have the right things to say at the right time. ::hugs::

snowboarder7791 said:
heartbroken and crying... my kitteh charlie is slowly dying and there isnt much i can do about it. surgery really isnt a option cuz of his age. he is the one thing that has kept me alive........
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I am so sorry. That's heartbreaking... Pets are truly a part of the family. My animals have given me something to live for also. Seeing a friend (if even a furry one) in pain is heart wrenching. If you need to talk more PM me. <3
 
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