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Pretty face VS hot body, which one is more important to guys?

It's not that we go out and pursue chicks that are below our grade (or at least I don't), but sometimes shit happens. Especially when you're drunk.

Ah fair enough. I mean I've slept with a couple guys that I found attractive that night because I'd had too much to drink and really wasn't attracted to in the morning, but I thought you were saying you'd actually go for someone even if you were consciously finding them unattractive. If the booze was clouding your judgement it's different.
 
Ah fair enough. I mean I've slept with a couple guys that I found attractive that night because I'd had too much to drink and really wasn't attracted to in the morning, but I thought you were saying you'd actually go for someone even if you were consciously finding them unattractive. If the booze was clouding your judgement it's different.

Isn't alcohol wonderful?
 
^If you were referring to my posts I just meant I don't really see why anyone would want to sleep with someone they're not attracted to. Wasn't saying I can get both whenever, just that if a guy comes up to me and I don't like either his face or his body, then I'll turn him down. I'd rather just not get laid.
 
Great looking+small boobs+no ass OR average looking+nice bouncy boobs+sexy firm ass
Which type is more attractive to guys?

I think it's demeaning to even consider the shape of a face or the bouncibility of boobs towards a woman. If the girl I loved had an accident that ruined her face and crushed her tits, it wouldn't make a difference, at all.

...Sorry for giving the most boring answer! But it's the truth.
 
I think it's demeaning to even consider the shape of a face or the bouncibility of boobs towards a woman. If the girl I loved had an accident that ruined her face and crushed her tits, it wouldn't make a difference, at all.

...Sorry for giving the most boring answer! But it's the truth.

Amen! Best post here, IMO. I find this question incredibly shallow.

However, if I had to reduce a woman to just physical appearance, I would choose pretty face. Almost every body feels good to touch in the dark.
 
Great looking+small boobs+no ass OR average looking+nice bouncy boobs+sexy firm ass
Which type is more attractive to guys?

Well that is a pretty narrow choice but I have found that most women have at least one great facial feature. Therefore I will take the average looking average build woman any day of the week & twice on Sundays. It may be her eyes, dimples or smile it does not matter I will find a beautiful feature in almost any woman.
 
If you're in the dark though you'll feel the body but you won't see the face, ya feel me? And anyway you're not supposed to have sex with the lights off unless you're Amish or in your late 50s. It's all about spotlights and mirrors, à la American Psycho.

Anyway of course it's an incredibly shallow question but so what? Things like raas' statement (and Pagey's, who says she can get any piece of ass she wants, and she's probably right :D) go without saying.

Ahh, true enough. But the face would get me in bed in the first place, if the the body wasn't so hot, off go the lights...

And, true on the other count as well. However, I am starting to think with some of the posters around here that it doesn't go without saying after all....
 
If you're in the dark though you'll feel the body but you won't see the face, ya feel me? And anyway you're not supposed to have sex with the lights off unless you're Amish or in your late 50s. It's all about spotlights and mirrors, à la American Psycho.

Anyway of course it's an incredibly shallow question but so what? Things like raas' statement (and Pagey's, who says she can get any piece of ass she wants, and she's probably right :D) go without saying.

Yeah, well pointed out. I'm only stating the obvious. But it needs to be said, else half the woman on bluelight will go away developing all kinds of physical insecurities from reading this thread. lol This thread is to be taken with a pinch of salt. We love you all, really.
 
I've had sex with plenty of girls I didn't find "attractive." Sometimes it was because I was drunk and others because the girl wouldn't leave me alone and really wanted it %)
Hah so idk, sex is sex imo I don't care too much what they look like but relationship wise it's much different. Pretty face + hot body = what I need. Oh and similar interests of course.

tell me about it, some girls fucking want it bad, and sometimes u just gotta give it to em
 
My personal standards.

Couldn't do an ugly face, even if she were to have a phenominal body, but average depending on several factors. I have never been a man that takes great interest in a woman's breast size, and actually prefer large A-cups, providing shes petite and I don't mean anerexic. Breasts can in fact be too big imho. But when I can see a womans rib cage when she's standing, it's extremely unattractive to me.There is a difference in skinny (petite) and anorexic i need my girl to have a lil meat on her bones. That being said there is nothing more attractive (providing the previous qualifiers are met) than a girl with a firm tight bubble butt, one that sticks out like 5-6 inches from her lower back(esp.In sum boyshorts mmmm). Butts can also be too large, tho beyond the dimensions given, they tend to have a "ripple effect".
 
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Hahah. Just saying I'm Parisian would have been justification enough I think.


...I still want to repeat that I was NOT saying I can get with whoever I want! :p

I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. Guys never take annnnny action nowadays. I'm a feminist in many ways but this is where feminism has fucked us over. The stranglers got it right when they said 'Liberation for women thats what I preach' because now we are expected to be this amazing lay and like seductive all the time. Sometimes it would be nice if guys took the iniative. (note, i'm not repulsive)
Oh and married men or whatever are unavailable. Or there is just the really socially inappropriate.
Or for relationships. I know some guys just think i'm too weird (they have no idea of weird) or opinionated or whatever for dating. I defs have got the vibe that some guys want easy predictable chicks and if you've a sprinkling of intelligence they fuck off. Like that guy said above about 'average chicks'...

Attraction is complex but it has to be confidence, applies to both genders?
Were we talking sexually or for more than casual sex anyway?
 
imho there's really no such thing as a fat girl with a pretty face, as a fat face is not a pretty face, you see where I'm coming from?

Option B.
 
^Lots of people are overweight and have 'thin' faces.
Also I've seen overweight people whose bodies are much nicer than thin or skinny people.
 
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