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Sex addiction?? What do we know about it? Does it go hand in hand with drug use?

I have been researching sexual addictions because I have been labeled a sex addict by none the less but my husband.

I have alway been very sexual and very educated when it comes to human sexuality.. I took several ( not requied for my degree) human sexuality classes at UM. On my spare time I mostly reading sex education books and learning new amazing things that's are bodies can do. I'm defiantly my own ginny pig. Masterbation is very interesting to me. There are pressure point all over the th can o amazing thing.
Sex is the ultimate form of pleaser and relaxation for me. I believe that with kegal excersises, proper method , and practice I have taught myself how to experience the ultimate orgasm. I have Also perfected the art the perfect blow job.. Lol
In the past 2 years it become a little more intense. I desire stimulation a lot more often. I wouldn't consider it a sex addiction, my theory is that I'm sexually peeking. The magnitude of the multiple orasms that I can have In a short period of time can't even be put Into word. So of course who wouldn't wast to have sex more often ?
I really don't consider myself to have a sex addiction. I have a full time carrer, my children, a completely normal social and professional life. I don't go out my way or stop my life or neglect my children because I need to get some.
My husband complains that I require to much ( labido) . I do get a little offended when he hold out on me when I know for a fact that his sexual expirences with me are over the top and he preformes like a young stallion every time.
He acts like a woman in this aspect of the sense.. He want to talk about his day and cuddle and watch tv.. In my case I was him to ram me through the head bord and wake up the whole neighborhood.. Lmao...
He all says that my drug use contributes to my behavior.. I'm a recreational user. I don't use everyday. I see no relation to the two..
so what do you think...?.??? Addict or sexually evolved???

Definitely sexually evolved. I have a girl friend similar to you and she wants it every night all night and I find that totally awesome even if some nights I can't keep up, and I often think of her in awe in the way she can cum so easily and have different types of orgasms. We are working on squirting ones as she believes they are the ultimate for her. I think you sound not just normal but wonderful and I agree sex is the ultimate form of pleasure and relaxation and providing it doesn't impact on your responsibilities, more is better
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Definitely sexually evolved. I have a girl friend similar to you and she wants it every night all night and I find that totally awesome even if some nights I can't keep up, and I often think of her in awe in the way she can cum so easily and have different types of orgasms. We are working on squirting ones as she believes they are the ultimate for her. I think you sound not just normal but wonderful and I agree sex is the ultimate form of pleasure and relaxation and providing it doesn't impact on your responsibilities, more is better
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I can definitely relate. My sexual appetite, stamina, endurance is insane. If he says he tired not a problem.. I will take care of everything and clean up my mess. What I have noticed the most is the more I orgasum the more adrenalin pumps through me.. Once the session is over laid out (mind u he didn't do much) and I'm still panting like a horney kitty ready for the next release. If he's actually on his A game that day and put one really good on me, it's really onnnn!!! I take an pounding that not many can take much less find it enjoyable.. None drug related.. I call it lucky number 33.. A 22 year old has nothing on me!!! Lol
 
Almost completey agree.

However, they go hand in hand with some people - the drug just brings out the sex compulsion because their addicting personality is already so loose that they pick up something else when their body goes into overdrive. I once knew this chick he was a bit of a nympho anyways, but when she found meth, she would just fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck, and draw - everything else disappeared from her life, like family and friends for quite a lon time.

In my case.. I don't just wanna fuck fuck fuck. It's more of the quality of the pleaser that I have learned to achieve. If scratching feels good your gonna scratch. So when I get home from a stressful day I don't wanna have a drink or drug. I rather have it fucked out of me :)

It's a combination of technique, strength of kegal mussel, and most defiantly a talented partner. I think it's something that anyone with good sexual health can be taught and a good partner.
 
I don't believe for a second they are related. And Mia, you don't sound like a text book definition of a sex addict but truly a sexually energized woman who may be with a mismatched mate, sexually speaking. Consider your age too, you probably are peaking. It probably won't be like this forever. Your mate should really enjoy this while he can!

I wouldn't say a mismatch mate.. He can definitely put one on me.. I think maybe he handles stress a bit differently than i do.. His career has taken over. When for me I solve all my stress with an orgasm :) Im more in tuned with my sexual energy.. I fuck mind body and soul!! A hippie at heart :)
 
I can definitely relate. My sexual appetite, stamina, endurance is insane. If he says he tired not a problem.. I will take care of everything and clean up my mess. What I have noticed the most is the more I orgasum the more adrenalin pumps through me.. Once the session is over laid out (mind u he didn't do much) and I'm still panting like a horney kitty ready for the next release. If he's actually on his A game that day and put one really good on me, it's really onnnn!!! I take an pounding that not many can take much less find it enjoyable.. None drug related.. I call it lucky number 33.. A 22 year old has nothing on me!!! Lol

Wow he's one lucky guy... on that note, time for my extra cold shower before I make my own mess...
 
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