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The ANGRY thread v2

Cycik said:
Zzzz I'm angry coz I got arrested and charged with possession of Ecstasy, Ritalin without prescription, weed and a bong :!
All really small amounts as well but the cops couldn't just be like here's a warning but noooo, charge the guy who has never harmed anyone or had any legal trouble ever,seldom even drinks and just happened to have a few pills and a bit of weed. Fuck the laws, so fucking stupid.
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Ouch sounds bad, where you at? What type of legal consequences are you facing?
 
Parents went out today and I asked if they needed owt doing. They said no, but I cleaned the kitchen anyway cos I felt bad leaving it. Then I went off on the bike to the shop, got it from round the back of the house and left it leaned against the wall along the side of the house when I got back. Not in the way, nowt like that, it was literally a foot off the path, on the gravel border. So dad comes in and goes 'Have you taken the bike?', I say yes. He goes off on one going 'fucking put stuff back where you fucking find it' and storms off out the house.

Fuck off. It's unnecessary the stuff he gets mad about, and Mum will complain about his attitude to me when he's not there and tell me she thinks I'm great because I actually do stuff for her, and then when I reacted to him she just goes 'well you should learn, you know he won't change'.

I'm 25, I just cleaned their kitchen apropos of nothing, no one fucking killed themselves on the bike, Jesus.
 
Haha, I guess you're right, I need to just chill and realise he is set in his ways and a miserable cunt, much the same way I am. Just wanna have a good relationship, ya know? We are very alike and I think that's what makes it hard. Spent a lot of time this weekend having old ladies I've never met going 'ooh you're just like your dad you are'.

Told me I'm handsome like he is too, which is both flattering (because he's a good looking man) and worrying (because I'm a woman)
 
The post made me think of my own Father n all his daft ways . He was born b4 the 2nd WW in to severe poverty in South Wales .

He passed 7 years back i & still miss him giving me bollockings !!

"When i was your age .......<3
 
Aww, yeah, gotta say that's a thing. When I'm at home in Hull, there's stuff I do and I'll think 'what the fuck would my dad say about this?'.

I love the man, dearly and deeply, he just needs to chill the fuck out! He's a great un when he's drunk or relaxed and he works so damn hard, bloke needs a holiday I think, like a proper few weeks away somewhere sunny. He's developed a habit of taking a week off every month, ostensibly to chill out, but really he just does DIY for no reason and annoys my mum. My younger cousin and I kinda tag teamed him and my aunty the other night when they were drunk and told them that they're both stubborn, stressed, and they need a break. They were both genuinely shocked!
 
snolly said:
Aww, yeah, gotta say that's a thing. When I'm at home in Hull, there's stuff I do and I'll think 'what the fuck would my dad say about this?'.

I love the man, dearly and deeply, he just needs to chill the fuck out! He's a great un when he's drunk or relaxed and he works so damn hard, bloke needs a holiday I think, like a proper few weeks away somewhere sunny. He's developed a habit of taking a week off every month, ostensibly to chill out, but really he just does DIY for no reason and annoys my mum. My younger cousin and I kinda tag teamed him and my aunty the other night when they were drunk and told them that they're both stubborn, stressed, and they need a break. They were both genuinely shocked!
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Common causes of bike placement OCD!
 
I think that's just natural .

My Dad had to go through the fact his only son was a Heroin Addict . Imagine the guilt off that one . Like i said he was from a generation so removed from ours , my Mum who i respect & Luv loads had such a hard job trying to help him make any sense of it all .

I don't think my Old Man showed emotion ever . Not at his Brothers Funeral no never .
I'm not comfortable with how things ended cos he died of a Heart Attack when he was away with My Mum . so i never got to say goodbye or owt .

Last thing i said to him was " Thanks for the lift"

So yeah cherish your relationship with yer fam. it sounds pretty darn cool .
 
knockando said:
Common causes of bike placement OCD!
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Fuckin lol, ya right ;)

brimz said:
I think that's just natural .

My Dad had to go through the fact his only son was a Heroin Addict . Imagine the guilt off that one . Like i said he was from a generation so removed from ours , my Mum who i respect & Luv loads had such a hard job trying to help him make any sense of it all .

I don't think my Old Man showed emotion ever . Not at his Brothers Funeral no never .
I'm not comfortable with how things ended cos he died of a Heart Attack when he was away with My Mum . so i never got to say goodbye or owt .

Last thing i said to him was " Thanks for the lift"

So yeah cherish your relationship with yer fam. it sounds pretty darn cool .
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That kinda made me a bit teary to read, you're absolutely right. Last words are always a bugger, I remember mine to my Grandma, seven years ago, and they were literally 'Ok, I love you' :( I wouldn't change my family for anything because they've put up with my shit and I'll do anything for them. They're bastards sometimes, so am I, but they're my bastards ;) This is the point where Evad would come in and tell me to shut up about my Dad and get on with enjoying life ;)

I'll just pretend he did anyway
 
brimz said:
I don't think my Old Man showed emotion ever . Not at his Brothers Funeral no never .
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My dad must be about the same age your dad would be if he was still around (he's 81), and he's the same, he's had two brothers and a son die, a daughter who had a heroin addiction, another son with MS and another fuck up, me. His mum ran away with a polish soldier. I've never seen him cry, not even at my brother's funeral. In fact he positively seems to come alive at times like that, fuck knows what goes on his head. He bounces around with a grin on his face when by rights he should be a fucking mess.

Last thing i said to him was " Thanks for the lift"
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Sounds quite poetic to be honest.
 
Dads are a mystery. I remember at my Grandma's funeral (on my Mum's side), Dad and I never had much in the way of meaningful interaction before that. I walked into church holding my sister's hand because she was only 14 and an utter mess. On the way out, I couldn't find her, and then I felt my Dad hold my hand and ask if I was ok. We fight a lot, but it's stuff like that that makes me think it is just cos we're too alike that we row and that if I ever need him, he'll be there, and vice versa.

Think I need to accept that, when I need him, he'll be there, but until then, we'll just bitch at each other like old women ;)
 
knockando said:
My dad must be about the same age your dad would be if he was still around (he's 81), and he's the same, he's had two brothers and a son die, a daughter who had a heroin addiction, another son with MS and another fuck up, me. His mum ran away with a polish soldier. I've never seen him cry, not even at my brother's funeral. In fact he positively seems to come alive at times like that, fuck knows what goes on his head. He bounces around with a grin on his face when by rights he should be a fucking mess.
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Yeah that Generation were stoic as fuk . The typical Stiff Upper Lip ., Bottle it all up thing was all they new .
Anything else was a sign of weakness .
I could have gone on about my Dad he had quite a life & some of the stuff you said about your own Father aren't that far from some of the stuff he went through.
 
brimz said:
Yeah that Generation were stoic as fuk . The typical Stiff Upper Lip ., Bottle it all up thing was all they new .
Anything else was a sign of weakness .
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They do it so well, though. My therapy woman tells me I bottle it up too and it's the cause of half my problems, but I'm sure if I bottled it up better I'd be fine! I blame my parents.
 
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