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a speedy tweaker chick + a nodding junkie dude? can it work?

littlepenguin

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somehow I stumbled upon a kind-of relationship...with a heroin addict.
I'm constantly moving, doing stuff, like to chat and shoot the breeze, and don't get me wrong - he likes to chat, too - when he's not nodding.

it's hilarious to me almost because I am just not into downers, however, I do know the nice warm tingle blanket feeling of a nice painkiller or 4....

so, paula abdul, do opposites really attract?

can a methhead + junkie = true love forevar???!?!?

I'd love to hear your personal experiences and opinions.

Also, for the gents - when does somebody [on H] want to/prefer to have sex? right after a shot? a little bit after? not at all? do you find it harder to cum when on H? (I'm a bit worried my sex drive exceeds his by um...a little bit...heh)

thanks for your time and answers.
 
Ive heard sex can be pleasureable on dope. Whether or not it lasts is on you guys, hopefully your addictions dont interfere with your relationship too much (i guess thats not likely though but I dont know either of you so I cant judge).
 
dope decreased my sex drive, and cuming was next to impossible but could still happen if i wasnt too high

i dunno if a tweaker n a junkie can work out, but i dont see why it couldnt

but i will say my girl was addicted to adderall n coke but was clean before i met her, i was still using heroin but got clean after about 6months of being together.
almost 2 years later we are still together n still in love
 
lol hello littlepenguin. It's good to see the forum firecracker back. :D

The downer crowd drive me crazy, because they are...so...slowwwwww. I'd rather be all speedy, but if you have the patience for that, then ain't no harm in exploring.

Just be careful that you don't go down his road, if he really is a junkie.
 
Some people like to be high and others prefer low. This doesn't mean you can't make it work. If you were both on H it could turn troublesome just because of the addiction/codependent factor. Opiates had drained my sex drive to almost 0, and it's no surprise his is much lower than yours.
 
IMO the similarities you share in both having an addiction (or at least regular use) will outweigh any differences because your substance of choice isn't the same. I think it'll be 'easier' (or maybe more comfortable is a better choice of words) than being with someone who didn't use drugs at all would be. When I was addicted to meth I can't imagine that a relationship with someone who didn't use would've worked very well. There's certain aspects of the lifestyle which are much easier to deal with, and just more fun, when you're both using.

I have actually had direct experience of this too, in my meth using days I had a heroin addicted boyfriend, the outcome was I started using more smack, and he started using more meth. There weren't any problems specific to our DOC, except that I'd get frustrated with him and try and talk a million miles an hour as he was shooting because I knew it'd be hopeless a second after he'd done, haha. The problems in that r/ship came from the general trials of 'addiction' rather than the drugs in particular.
 
Lysis said:
lol hello littlepenguin. It's good to see the forum firecracker back. :D

The downer crowd drive me crazy, because they are...so...slowwwwww. I'd rather be all speedy, but if you have the patience for that, then ain't no harm in exploring.

Just be careful that you don't go down his road, if he really is a junkie.
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That's what made me finally get off H was the kind of crowd. amongst other things.

And yeah sex drive diminishes and your energy then ambition and then to live.
 
I think the problem is just going to come in the long-run considering you're both drug addicts and that rarely ends well but I don't think that's what you're asking. Might be a bit hard to be in synch with him though. When I'm on opiates (heroin or other) I tend to become quite anti social and I want to be alone most of the time. I might be a bit more extreme than others at that but smack rarely makes you energetic and talkative and if you use meth extensively I feel like you might have trouble dealing with that. But you may as well give it a try I guess, just maybe be warned it might be a bit difficult for you guys to 'coordinate'.
Also yeah in terms of the sex it's likely you'll have a *bit* more energy than him. And I've found it literally impossible to cum on opiates.
 
for me i used only moderate amounts of poppy tea. it depends on weather he likes a moderate opiate buzz or being out of it on heroin, kind of different. moderate buzz equals chill but able to hold a conversation or do things, being wrecked on opiates is different though, a lot more anitsocial
 
Lysis said:
lol hello littlepenguin. It's good to see the forum firecracker back. :D

The downer crowd drive me crazy, because they are...so...slowwwwww. I'd rather be all speedy, but if you have the patience for that, then ain't no harm in exploring.

Just be careful that you don't go down his road, if he really is a junkie.
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so that's what the kids are callin' me these days, eh? firecracker? ;)

yeahhh talk about slow - even when I don't use speed, I still have boundless amounts of energy and I'm always walking faster than everyone and I guess I'm just a high-gear kinda gal. The slowness drives me bananas.

oh, he's a junkie for sure. quite literally to the definition - he goes around to construction sites every day to gather up electrical cords which have copper in them I guess, and then trades it in for like a buck seventy five a pound. Usually gets anywhere from a hundo to three hundo dollars a day. homeless, oh yes, I like to pick the needy ones :)

and no - there is no possibility of me ever sticking a needle in my arm (absolutely no offense meant to those who do here). it's something i promised myself a long time ago and i have and will stick to that.
there is nothing worse or more stressful than watching somebody with a bloody needle desperately trying to find a vein that works, it's like watching a horror movie......arghhhhhhh I don't ever wanna do that.
 
T. Calderone said:
Some people like to be high and others prefer low. This doesn't mean you can't make it work. If you were both on H it could turn troublesome just because of the addiction/codependent factor. Opiates had drained my sex drive to almost 0, and it's no surprise his is much lower than yours.
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I agree that it is entirely beneficial that we do not have the same DOC. I'm still in a friendly relationship with someone who's DOC is the same as mine, and boy - talk about a gong show. I had to step up and say that there was no longer allowed to be business between us if we wanted to sustain some type of effective relationship. We can still use together, and once in a great while, help one another out if in a pinch, but none of the daily 'you owe me this you owe me that go get me this im sick help me help me' shit. he goes early in the morning and grabs his stuff, i got my stuff, i jump around, he nods, we live in paradise. haha! ;)

what is it about opiates do you think dwindles your sex drive so low? laziness? contentment? lack of energy?
 
You're taking a drug that makes you quite horny, while he is taking a drug that is basically replacing sex by making him content, and lowering his T (as Pofacedhoe said)? Sexually, what exactly are you expecting here?

Just don't start doing massive amounts of dope with him to replace healthy amounts of sex and nod out together, then you'll have two monkeys on your back, DOC or not.

This kind of reminds me of season 2 of Breaking Bad... lol
 
^^ yeah, I guess I wasn't aware that opiates lowered one's sex drive. I have had quite a few oxys and percs in my day and I still was ready & interested in some howdy doody time ;)

it sucks also because he says that he had a bad experience with a past girlfriend who he would initiate sex and she would often turn him down, so he doesn't do any sort of initiating anymore. so I have to initiate anything if I want anything to happen, which gets old REALLY fast.

and no, I won't be using H or needles in this lifetime.
 
I'm a really hyper and talkative guy and have found much happiness and intimacy in being with a smacky calm girl who hardly says a word. Whilst it seems 'one-way' at first, once you get used to that it's cool - she likes listening I like talking.. That said I can see how for many it's natural to want more; but likewise for some more might be stifling to their natural flow.
 
I say no but truly best of luck to both of you. Just one thing, don't bring children into that situation.
 
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