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How Are You in One Word v. Somewhere Over the Rainbow

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stardust.hero said:
I've gotten a definitive, yes, Pastely :D!! I start Monday and she has me on all week (it's supposed to be part time) 8 am. She only has 15~ employees and it looks like for the most part there will be 2-3 working in the activity dog section with me and 2-3 at reception. I'm really nervous to be around people but I'm really excited to make friends here.

<3 I feel satisfied today :)
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Ahh! That's so fugging awesome!!!! Honestly the nervousness should go away, leaving you feeling like a complete badass for landing such a dope job!

Congrats!!!!!

My word is serene btw ;)
 
It was yesterday, but don't worry about it. I am trying to start this year off with a much better attitude/outlook, but it seems to be rustling the feathers of a few miserable people in my ordinary life. Misery loves company. I need to find some happier people to be with in my daily life, in person.
 
If you were closer to my area id kick it with ya. Id bring a couple female friends and we could have a great time :P.
Polyamorous for me today.
I like 3 different girls and idk who to pursue
 
Just finished mine up a couplw hours ago and had an awesome protein packed dinner to fill in my macros for the day :D. Spot her well RL ;)
 
Serotonin101 said:
Just finished mine up a couplw hours ago and had an awesome protein packed dinner to fill in my macros for the day :D. Spot her well RL ;)
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Man, this is getting difficult. This is a girl who rejected me a few months back for some petty and shallow reasons (and the fact that she wasn't over her ex). Anyway, tonight she hasn't seen me in a while and is all "wow, you look hot tonight!" and is asking me if I am still interested in her. I gotta be strong because I'd be a real sucker to give into this right now. I need to just keep her as a friend and assert the fact that I am not a backup plan for her ex once again leaving her.

I guess I should be satisfied that I'm getting positive comments on my appearance at least.
 
Women are mysterious creatures. I understand your situation as i am in a similar boat. Just remember this post everytime tempation rears its head to keep you grounded in what you NEED and what you may want. Also i dont think you wanna lose a friend if things turn for the worse. Who knows what the future holds, if its meant to be then its meant to be. For me romance and finance leads to using (and slacking on my physical fitness) so i try to spend my money quickly on the supplements i need for my "essentials" and saving a bit of coin for going out to eat, movies, misc fun sober activities and I'm trying not to get involved with a lady girl til i feel the time is right. Youre doing the right thing my man. :D
 
Oh ya, and I know that getting tied down in a relationship right now would not be a good idea, given my desire to move once I get off paper. This does not have the "meant to be" feel at all to it, it just kinda caught me off-guard because it's been a long time since there's been as direct and aggressive moves made on RL. And by a very cute lady, mind you. You know how it can be with the post-heroin hormones, and how the wants and needs sometimes feel one and the same! But thank you for the post, and I am just going to keep telling myself that I deserve better than some woman who'd only now want me because her ex has left her, or because my physical appearance has changed. Anyway, I also should mention that the minute I told this girl that I'm a recovering heroin addict, she'd run for the hills. So that's a bit of extra safety against me entering a relationship right now.
 
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