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so my mom fuond out IM USing , she was drunk told cops told i pushed her , i drove off soon as she called get pulled over bc she told em to find me they get me for the dope sub and xanny i had . i already been to prison twice had drug court and violated.............
i got a lawyer but i think im fuct. i cant detox myself. and cant find a place that will take me . this is in NJ
any help?
 
Yea, you should be able to kick in prison. Jake, not to kick you when you're down but we all gave you advice, you didn't take it, and this is where you ended up. Can your public defender get you treatment court that will get you into a detox? That's about your only hope of a detox other than you in a jail cell, or you in a room with a few pills before going into jail.
 
He's not being unnecessarily mean. He's being honest. Take some responsibility for your actions.
I'm sorry but if you're not willing to face the consequences, don't do the actions.
With this in mind, I think the criminal consequences related to drugs are absurd, but we're all aware of them and they're real.
You know this, yet you've gone and got yourself into trouble for the third time.
Please be more careful and rational in future.
All the best with life and shit.
 
jake99 said:
so my mom fuond out IM USing , she was drunk told cops told i pushed her , i drove off soon as she called get pulled over bc she told em to find me they get me for the dope sub and xanny i had . i already been to prison twice had drug court and violated.............
i got a lawyer but i think im fuct. i cant detox myself. and cant find a place that will take me . this is in NJ
any help?
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DeathDomokun said:
He's not being unnecessarily mean. He's being honest. Take some responsibility for your actions.
I'm sorry but if you're not willing to face the consequences, don't do the actions.
With this in mind, I think the criminal consequences related to drugs are absurd, but we're all aware of them and they're real.
You know this, yet you've gone and got yourself into trouble for the third time.
Please be more careful and rational in future.
All the best with life and shit.
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dude what are you bibble babbling about? First of all this man shouldn't HAVE TO DEAL with any "consequences" b/c none of his 'actions' that he explained should be illegal.. No victim = no crime, why can't a man use a drug?! Why does the man that doesn't use a drug have to care so deeply about putting the other man in a cage that decides to use a drug deemed illegal buy the gov't?
 
Herbal~Jah said:
dude what are you bibble babbling about? First of all this man shouldn't HAVE TO DEAL with any "consequences" b/c none of his 'actions' that he explained should be illegal.. No victim = no crime, why can't a man use a drug?! Why does the man that doesn't use a drug have to care so deeply about putting the other man in a cage that decides to use a drug deemed illegal buy the gov't?
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grow up.
 
Jake, he was trying to be nice about it. Don't be so sensitive because if your like this on a forum i can only imagine how much you are like this in the real world. You are going to get ate alive if you don't stop being such pussy and except your mistake and not lash out on others who are just trying to listen to you and help. Tph you come off to me as a spoiled brat.
 
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Jake, I don't think Tommyboy was being an "a hole". He was just being a realist.

I've read some of your other posts Jake, and maybe this will be the final wake up call and a benefit that'll help you recover. I use, so I know how hard it is to kick a habit, but it WILL benefit you in the long run ~ physically, emotionally + (hopefully) keep you out of legal troubles.

Every action in life has a consequence - good or bad -. Good choice = good consequence, bad choice = bad consequence. We've all made bad choices and had to deal with the bad consequences, it's just a fact of life.
 
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Herbal~Jah said:
dude what are you bibble babbling about? First of all this man shouldn't HAVE TO DEAL with any "consequences" b/c none of his 'actions' that he explained should be illegal.. No victim = no crime, why can't a man use a drug?! Why does the man that doesn't use a drug have to care so deeply about putting the other man in a cage that decides to use a drug deemed illegal buy the gov't?
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his drug use isn't victimless. he's been stealing from his family to fund it.
 
hthr007 said:
Jake, I don't think Tommyboy was being an "a hole". He was just being a realist.
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Exactly. I could have just told him that everything will work itself out just to tell him what he wants to hear, but that wouldn't do him any good.
 
cheer up, one day they may make booze illegal again and then you could call the cops on your mom.

See how fucked up the whole thing is, its too much to even think about some days.
 
That sucks its sick how easy a women can lie and get a man locked up. That being said.. you were in your moms house you did drugs you knew she would flip out if she found out, even though you went ahead and did the deed you got high you got caught, and on top of it all you tried to run away from it with drugs... bad choice

Now that being said I feel for you drug laws are horrible, and it sucks your going to do some time (you can afford a lawyer) maybe you can go to drug court again? what are the charges? hitting you mom one of them or was that just why the cops pulled you over? is she pulling charges?

Anyways Im realy sorry hear that, my advise is get clean before jail I kicked in jail and it isn't fun at all.. try to get clean before you go in plus if you get clean before trial maybe it will make the judge take you more serious

much love man sorry to hear all that... life can suck bad sometimes
 
I feel for you man thats fucked up your mom called the cops on you not only because shes your mom but nobody should get the scum involved unless there completely in danger and have no other way of handling it. good luck in court and for sure try and get treatment instead of prison but honestly your probably lookin at a good amount of time. sorry to here that tho.
 
ok well first of all i messed up by stealing from her to support my habit, BUT she said she waas lettin it go and wanted to help me , even went with me to the hood when i copped and with my best friend, she acted like she was cool with it all , then snitched on my boy by calling his landlord and tellin him that my friend is using with me . So now i lost my best friend, then my mom starts taking my xanax every day while she is drinking, (she is a alcoholic who just relapsed after 5 years) we both live with my 90 y.o Grandmom , her mom, who is going senile and my mom treats her like crap and even hits her , a weak old lady ! . So ............................if anything i may have pushed my mom away to protect her from scratching the shit out of me , and throwing coffe mugs at my head. but cops shoulda locked her up , she was just do drunk she flipped it on me b/c she was mad that she gave in earlier that day and came with me to buy me crack and dope the day after i tried suboxone but said f it , i was still sic.....................anyway some of you guys are really harsh here. i know i got a bad drug problem ,and i was wrong for stealing but i think its pretty f'd up that she loves me so much (dropped restraining order next day after i got picked up) she even just put down 1500 to get me a lawyer for my posession charges. so its nuts . anyway . i gotta go get sleep. hoping to get into detox asap ,
 
To sum this up Jake:

Time to get off your moms titty.
time to grow up Jake, Keep taking ther hand outs and you will continue to be controlled by them.

You aint gonna listen though. Good luck
 
SececaRD said:
To sum this up Jake:

Time to get off your moms titty.
time to grow up Jake, Keep taking ther hand outs and you will continue to be controlled by them.

You aint gonna listen though. Good luck
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Exactly this, Jakes threads make me sick man. This isn't some 20 something year old, this dude is in his thirties, every thread crying for advice which he never takes, he just wants to be told what he wants to hear. He's never done much to actually CHANGE his life, this is someone who's been alive for nearly 40 years, not some kid, but with the mentality, awareness and foresight of a kid.

Anyways good luck but god sakes we should merge all jakes threads and make the 'Official Jake99 Pity Party MegaThread'
 
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