Wait. Stop. Rewind.
Are you telling me that those Thai ladies you posted about on here, that you took out for dinner, and went on occasional day trips with, went dutch and paid for themselves and split the bill half way?
fuck off. you're a liar. you know this. anyone reading this who kept up with events while Spade was away paying for sex, please come forward and comment if you think he's telling the truth.
you're talking garbage Spade, and you know this.
You only do the whole 'fuck off, the chicks can pay 50% of the bill', here in the UK, because you know none of them would go on a date with you anyway, hence why you're going abroad for a shag in the first place.
You're a confessed misogynist. Which I suspect is just because you know you don't stand a chance with any chick in the world who's not desperate to leave her country behind her.
As I said the majority of Thai girls I went out with paid their way. Not all but most. Probably because all of them were had careers and earned money (some got paid more than me in my last job) or were students funded by mummy and daddy. They didn't want to be labelled as some money grubbing whore that is only after the white mans money. I certainly didn't fund any of the (2) trips I went on girls with, not a fucking chance but I paid for the odd drink or food (might have cost me a tenner max for the night) and didn't grudge it so much because I knew they didn't earn much. A lot of girls in the UK seem to expect the man to pay for the dates which is bollocks, you wanted equal rights in this country and equal pay and all that other nonsense and you got it! We're all earning a similar amount of cash so put your hand in your fucking pocket you sponging bitch and take advantage of your right to equal treatment.
Don't call me a liar and label me a sex tourist. I am the only one who knows what happened on my trip and from the bits and pieces I posted on here I posted nothing to suggest I was out paying for sex and whore mongering....because I wasn't. You might remember how horrified I was when I woke up one night after a really heavy sesh to find a bird in my room that I thought was a prostitute because she asked me for taxi money, fucking horrified. You're just close minded and ignorant, typical self entitled, over opinionated women who thinks they know everything about everything, you in fact know fuck all and you fill up cups with your own vaginal discharge, says it all.
A man goes away to a foreign country, especially one like Thailand, and he MUST be a sex tourist, he just has to be doesn't he! All those poor yellow girls, thats what they do sleep with men for money. ALL OF THEM. Every single one and that's what every man who goes to Thailand is into too he? 8) Typical response from an arrogant white women who think she's superior to everyone else in the fucking world.
Bit racist aren't we Marmz? Bit judgemental?
Someone who is away with the fairies or not right in the head.
Although it is a bit of a generalisation I do get where spade is coming from. My gf used to do it quite a lot, all chores that would have been considered 'womans work' a long time ago (cooking, cleaning, washing up etc) was equally shared, which is totally fair enough. The same wasn't the case when things that would be considered 'man jobs' needed doing. Putting up pictures, DIY, car maintainence etc was a mans place and solely my responsibility. I brought this up and have now managed to remove all my responsibilities of cleaning and washing up if I do all the 'man jobs' and cooking.
I am pretty happy with this arrangement!
Exactly, most women wouldn't even consider putting some shelves up or fixing something but men do the cleaning, cooking and washing up these days. Going back to my mates bird who spurred on this whole conversation, she won't cook and refuses to clean so he has to do it on top of all the 'man' things. She doesn't actually appear to do anything, can't even buy a round. What fucking use is that!
th3 s1aught3r, how very dare thee suggest such a thing! Thai sweatheart's don't have 'pimps', not the ones Spade dates anyway. The one's that TheSpade dates were just with him for his sparkling wit, and charming personality!
They even went Dutch and paid for half of everything when he took them out. Duh! AND put up with his mortal drunk behaviour and heckling of people and bands and other things he didn't like. they then went back with him to the worst hotels in the area, and fucked him blind, because he's just so charismatic. And they did all that, because they just couldn't resist his charm. honest.
your observations and arrangements don't come from the same place that Spade's do tho
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A certain aspect of women hating is understandable, especially if you've had your heart broken at some point, same goes for the other way around. But the attitude Spade's been rattling off about women since I've been here isn't about that. He just appears to be generally shit scared of them, because it involves putting his personality up for judgement. His desperate attempt to justify that the good ones are subservient, and sweet and accomodating (as a means to offset his lack of appeal to women in general) is offensive. Like that's the job of a woman, no matter how repellent the male. It makes my skin crawl. His total approach to ignoring the glaring factors & reality of how the whole Thai pimping of women to sex tourists like himself works, is blatantly obvious.
It may make for a few lolz and giggles when he's being a prick in such a manner, but it's not even remotely funny the third time it's been used.
He may claim that he's 'trolling', but he's been coming out with the quotes like the one below, from as far back as I remember. I'd actually believe it were trolling if it were from someone with a half successful history with women, but not from someone who makes the local lasses run for cover
Yeah another Thailand expert eh Marmz, except you've never been have you?
The girls I dated certainly don't have pimps because they aren't prostitutes, they have jobs or study. Suggesting every girl in Thailand is a whore again are we? Even the whores don't have pimps though. Me and Knock, I think it was, had this discussion before and I provided links to various studies that showed that thai bar girls who work in tourist bars are not controlled by pimps or owned by anyone. They are free agents, it's well documented but I suppose you'll know better won't you?
Most times I was mortal drunk I was not out on dates, I was mortal drunk because I had nothing better to do or was out with mates. My hotel was the nicest hotel in the are actually, I don't stay in shit holes. Again you know nothing but profess to knowing everything.
It's amazing how you know so much about me isn't it Marmz. How could you possibly know if I had or had not had my hear broken. Would I tell you...I doubt it. Scared of birds? Only ones like you, you drink your own period juice, that's enough to scare anyone. Again you're making stupid comments about things you know nothing about.
You're knocking on a bit now Marmz, aren't you? How come you're not married or settled down? If you're not sure I could give you about a dozen reasons. Zoomer.
There is a great buzz about the city and the Thai people are lovely in general.
Indeed but Marmz, who's obviously never been, knows more about it than anyone apparently.
