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Would you have sex with a random girl unprotected?

Would you have sex with a random girl unprotected?

  • No

    Votes: 42 41.2%
  • Yes

    Votes: 38 37.3%
  • I'm not sure

    Votes: 14 13.7%
  • I'm not into women

    Votes: 6 5.9%
  • If she was a porn star and I was also getting paid? sure.

    Votes: 2 2.0%

  • Total voters
    102
  • Poll closed .
I certainly have done this, but would I do it again... no fucking way.
Throughout college, I probably spent like a grand on Plan B, I am surprised that I got out of it with a clean bill of health.
 
I'll admit I've done it more times than I'm proud of. I'm lucky I've never ended up pregnant or diseased.

I certainly have done this, but would I do it again... no fucking way.
Throughout college, I probably spent like a grand on Plan B, I am surprised that I got out of it with a clean bill of health.

Story of my life...
 
I don't intend to, I can, however, imagine myself getting carried away, especially when drunk, and having unprotected sex. I know I'd regret it very much though. Or perhaps I should have more faith in strength of my will?
 
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Ahhh just do the discreet finger sniff test.... If it don't smell gangrenous your good to go! :)
 
based on that info alone, no

i have had sex with girls unprotected many times...a few of them were even "hookups", unplanned and did not happen again

however in each one of those cases, i knew the girl well enough to assume she was clean based on her lifestyle (not trashy or slutty)

and i STILL ended up with HPV

so never again


Pretty much word for word what I was going to type. Couldn't have summed it up better myself.

I really hate condoms and have only used them literally less than 5 times in my life, even then I rarely kept it on the whole time. It's not just any random chick though I'm not gonna go fuck some hooker or something, the girls usually seem decent if I'm going to go for it in the first place and I'm usually careful about that. Sex is spur of the moment for me, I don't like the process of using a condom. Here you are messing around with this chick then you have to pause and say "okay yeah let's have sex, let me grab my protection because you may have an std" (first you actually have to have one too), then you have to find the damn thing, tear it open, put it on, and then only then you can get back to where you left off. What a mood killer. Plus I like to be able to feel it when I fuck.

But I recently learned I too may possibly have HPV (with no symptoms, but caught wind of it through a second hand test) as a result of my recklessness so I guess I just have to get used to the less pleasurable feeling of using condoms and the awkward moment killer of having to stop and roll a piece of rubber over my dick when I have sex from now on.

I don't agree with you on this one. Everybody has their own views on abortion, but comparing pregnancy to an STD is a little cynical. Pregnancy goes away, eventually - too many STDs don't.

While I agree pregnancy isn't an STD, it doesn't go away if you're stuck paying child support for the next 18 years. For someone who's already broke it can ruin their life.

True story, just don't cum in chicks who aren't on the pill...

Plus guys in the description it says shes really sexy.

Picture she look like Vida Guerra. You wouldn't want to make a fine ass female like that your baby mama?

No way! I don't want to make anyone my "baby mama" at this point, I can't afford a fucking child. Are you kidding I can barely take care of myself

I'd sooner pick up a revolver, point it at the head of my cock and pull the trigger...

wait, people don't normally do that either??? shit now I do feel weird
 
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I answered "not sure" as normally I wouldn't coz of pregnancy etc but if I was drunk and horny (and single.. ;) ) then I have a feeling I would just say "fuck it" (no pun intended) and do it bareback, I hope however if I did go in bareback, I would at least have some self control and withdraw before I came to minimize the risk of what I think would be the most common adverse outcome..
 
If I don't have a condom, and the girl doesn't care either, i say YOLO.
I'm a professional at pulling out. I dated a girl for 2 years, never used a condom, pulled out every time, and never got her pregnant (only once because she forced me to, abortion on her choice).

Aids does not like young white men. Plus, I'm too antisocial and nihilistic to even care.
 
Nope. I would never have unprotected sex with a guy. You don't want kids with this person if you hardly know them. Also.. they could be fine as hell, but they could also have diseases that haven't even been discovered yet. I'd always play it safe if I don't know the person.
 
I don't have sex until I at least know someone well enough to establish some sort of trust with them.

Is it a lot less risky? Yep, definitely.

Can it be seen to others as boring? Yeah, but I'm getting used to being called "boring" just because I'm being safe. Trust is one of the best feelings from interacting with another person. Those who don't wish to be patient are missing out. Yes, I'm horny as fuck, but I play it safe.

Instant gratification isn't the way I go, but to whomever is patient enough, it's well worth it for him/her.
 
^ don't forget it is still possible to catch an STD from someone whom you trust.

http://www.avert.org/std-statistics-america.htm

Also, although statistics for it are very low in comparison to other S.T.D.'s, reports of increasing cases of Syphilis in recent times(2011-date) have been made in several countries including Europe, N.Z and the U.S.. Also, treatment resistant strains of Gonorrhea have been found worldwide, so its well worth researching and keeping safe. Not to scaremonger but forewarned is forearmed and all that. ;)

http://www.bpac.org.nz/resources/bt/2012/06_syphilis.asp
http://www.eurosurveillance.org/ViewArticle.aspx?ArticleId=20225
http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/06/drug-resistant-gonorrhea-spreading-worldwide-who-warns/



quoted from:http://www.cdc.gov/std/syphilis/stdfact-syphilis.htm
As long as you are getting regular sexual health check ups (which in my opinion should be EVERYONE who is sexually active)
Syphilis isn't really anything to worry about, it is cured with one injection of penicillin. It's only if it goes untreated that it becomes a big deal.

Just saying, still definitely back practising safe sex of course, condoms/dental dams etc.
 
What happened to me is FUCKED. This girl messages me on facebook, super cute girl. Super forward about what she wants, and that had not really happened before. Sent me nudes got me going. A week later, I meet up with her. She was a 7/10. Definitely above average. I was 18 at the time, very young, very ignorant. I HAD condoms, we go to fuck and she says "No, I'm on the pill." You would think this would be a major red flag, but not when your about to stick it in! So, we fuck. I would say two months later my dick is on FIRE one day. Worst pain I have ever had down there, itchy... Constantly having the urge to pee. It got worst. I had just met this girl, we had been dating a month at this point, she was a virgin. Sweetest most innocent shy girl you could imagine. Yes, after a month I got did with her. First few times with condoms, than afterward we stopped. I get a call from my Dr while I was at work saying I had Chlymidia. I felt disgusted with myself, not because I had contracted an STD because of wrecklesness, but I endangered this girls life. She lost her virginity to a guy who gave her an STD. Fucking awful. To this day, I am still with this girl. She ended up being the love of my life but those are the dangers of casual sex without protection.
 
I certainly have done this, but would I do it again... no fucking way.
Throughout college, I probably spent like a grand on Plan B, I am surprised that I got out of it with a clean bill of health.

lol, I've spent way more on birth control...
which is how I used to justify it :)

now, I'd do things a lot differently... INCLUDING the birth control. but damm, the skin-to-skin stuff was just to die for (figuratively speaking). I got lucky, and I mostly/always stuck to my regular dose. especially when I was more active (17-21/23 - rarely when single now) so I set the fake hormone boundaries fairly young :) for better, or worse.
 
^ don't forget it is still possible to catch an STD from someone whom you trust.

But it's a MUCH lower chance than having sex with random people who you don't know
Especially if you both get tested beforehand

It's POSSIBLE to catch an STD from anyone ... but it's much less risky in some situations.
 
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