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What social clic do bluelighters put themselves into?

In high school, man, we were a group of friends made up of all the people who were non-cliquey, not to be mistaken with the freaks, outcasts, nerds or whatever else you might have called them.

No, we were a group of friends who were simply non-cliquey. So we still had some of the athletes, some of the preppy kids, some of the skaters, some of the computer/nerdy kids, some of the freaks, some of everyone who just, for whatever reason, didn't fit in with the crowd of people that they probably should have fit in with. lol

By my senior year, we declared ourselves the cliquey-ist non-clique ever. lol
 
remember that show freaks and geeks? well if you look at my friends, it would be pretty obvious that we are "freaks" although i try not to put a tag on it.
 
I wasnt in a clique because that means I would have had friends.

Nerd I guess
 
I have my own clique: The Foreigner Everyone Wants To Meet. Real talk, people walk up to me at the bar and introduce themselves because a mutual friend of ours told them Im from California and just moved all the way out here.
 
Oh man that's awesome. It's a strange feeling to be the "foreigner," but it looks like it might have its advantages. I've visited other places before and stayed for extended periods of time, but I've never moved anywhere before. That has got to be a whole new mixture of feelings.
 
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Oh man that's awesome. It's a strange feeling to be the "foreigner," but it looks like it might have its advantages. I've visited other places before and stayed for extended periods of time, but I've never moved anywhere before. That has got to be a whole new mixture of feelings.
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Ive done the foreigner thing granted all i did was move to Toronto but my part of Canada is foreign to Ontario ;) . It's also good when you have a accent that women find really cute plus it's a hell of a icebreaker. I swear my accent got me laid more times up there then i can count. I love going to places where hardly anyone knows you though because that way you can start over and your past isn't held against you. Quite unlike living in the really small town you grew up in where people won't let go of the stuff you did back in 7th grade ffs! :!

If i had been sober for longer then maybe a week total of the almost 2 years i was away i could have fit into a better clic then a drunken, temazepam popping, crack smoking one :| . Though i have to admit the insanity of it all was fun for abit.
 
I have always had my own clic. What I mean is that I am by nature a loner but there are always a few that are interested in my unique lifestyle and end up just sort of following me.
 
I usually go with: Hola hermosa, quieres pasar la noche bailando conmigo?

And then the Tequila arrives on the scene.
 
What is your circle of friends/social group like???

Was curious to see what sort of group yours is like ? are you part of a party crew? frat/sorority ?? druggy group?? nerds??? normal people???

My group is a normal party group i guess. We dont rage hard but we do like to party and go out clubbing. Everyone in the group drinks and nearly everyone smokes weed but i wouldnt say they're hard out pot smokers except for a few dudes and its only really the guys in the group who get into the marijuana. I like to think everyone in the group is nice and dont like to start shit when we're out. Unfortunately the group isnt really into trying a range of different drugs like me and i only really have one friend in the group who is always down to get fucked up on a bunch of drugs with me ( who is also the munter of the group who will do anything like beat up someone, break into cars, do something real crazy )
 
I don't have a circle of friends. I am 53 and the people I talk to are my husband and my kids and my grandkids. Also my sister and my mom and dad. But I don't have friends anymore. I actually really enjoy being alone. I went through a period where I realized my friends had moved, gone on to harder drugs, changed partners, or otherwise departed from my list of contacts for reasons unknown.

My family knows almost nothing about me and they are all private, too. In my house there are seven people, three "families" if you will. My son and his wife. My daughter and her husband and their son, not born yet but he will be here soon. Then there is Mom and Dad (us). But we have five bedrooms and everyone spends time alone in his or her bedroom, then together with his or her partner, and occasionally all of us together in the family room or the kitchen.

My daughter in law has her own room and often she retreats to knit or read while her husband (our son) plays video games in his room. They generally sleep together in his room but if she is moody, she can stay in her room by herself and no one bothers her. I spend most of my time in our bedroom. My husband (their dad) watches television in the family room. Our tastes in programming could not be more different, and I think he's going deaf because he watches horrible shows horribly loud. I spend all my time studying or writing or reading and I always have headphones on.

My daughter and her husband share a bedroom and they made the room next to theirs the nursery for my new grandson. They are inseperable and I'm glad my daughter found a man she could really love and he loves her too. They've been married nine years. When the economy took a shit, they moved in. I bought a five bedroom three bathroom right after 9/11 just so I'd have room for as many people as needed to be here. I smoke weed with them when I can smoke but I'm job hunting so I can't smoke now because everywhere drug tests everyone. My daughter and her husband and I have our medical mj cards. My son, his wife, and Dad do not. But we don't smoke in the central area of the house. Common courtesy.

Occasionally I get into a pity party on myself because no one really knows me. But I've learned to force myself out of that line of thinking by changing my room. If I'm alone in my room and start to feel sorry for myself I force myself to go visit someone else in the house.

We live on a corner and the way our house is situated, we only have one house next to us. We pull in and out of our garage and so do the neighbors so I've only talked to them briefly once or twice.

I have found that friendship does not work for me. I know people and have some friendly acquaintances but the more a person knows about you the more he or she can use it against you... and I don't trust people anymore. I've been very deceived by friendly people that were not friendly when push came to shove. I knew friendly people who seemed to really have my back and I believed in them for years, only to have them move to the other side of the country and disappear.

But I saw my sister yesterday. I trust her and she trusts me. The second half of life is when we realized that our friends were not as close to us as we were to each other, and our friends gossiped about us while we were faithful to their secrets. She and I have both realized that the most we have is each other. We are trying to get our mom down for a visit but she's fading fast. We both trust our mom though. She has seen both of us through some horrible shit and never stopped loving either one of us.

Enjoy your group of friends while you are young and cannot handle your families bullshit. Just don't be surprised if you find yourself most comfortable, safe, secure and able to have fun within your family bullshit after 30 or 40 years have passed and your friends are gone.

This is a nice topic for a thread and I'm looking forward to reading about other BLers way of life within the realm of friends or loved ones, or perhaps more than a few will say they don't have a circle of friends and that they live alone and work alone and play alone.

Everybody's different. It will be interesting to see how different. Thank you Maniaz.
 
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i think about that quite a bit ugly how i wont have friends who i can see on a regular basis apart from work at your age. Not to make you feel orld or anything but at what age did the party stop for you?? i really wish more people in my group would get into drugs more especially psychs i really do think it would be a great bonding experiance if all of us could take shrooms or acid together but unfortunately me and the other guy in my group who take a range of different drugs we both are a bit drug fucked and i sometimes thinks this is why the group doesnt take a range of different drugs
 
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