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Online Dating

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I read somewhere that asking questions or mentioning politics or current events in messages is usually a no no, especially in the first few messages. I just asked more about her travelling plans and said a couple extra things about me.
 
Try not to reply when too wasted, would be my top suggestion. You're more likely to say something to freak her/them out. Then again, it might help you pick which one is most tolerant to your fuckedness, and she might have a shared interest. Fuck it, just ask her 'Guess what drug I am taking today?' and, if she responds positively, it means you've found an open-minded person. :D You do need to make sure she's into (or doesn't mind) drug use, as it will all come out, at some point. This has recently happened to a mate, and the girl was livid that he'd hidden his (sensible) benzo use from her. I think she nearly finished with him, when the whole past came out. Proper anti-drug. They are now moving into a house they have bought. I bet he's dying for a pill or two. Haha.
 
i think if you are a drug user, as we all are here to some degree or other, you NEED to be with someone on the same wavelength. Treacle is bang on.

Find out if she's into drugs, if she's not, you'llprobably scare her off, but that will be for the best.

Me and my wife established we both loved speed on the night we met. <3

Good Luck with all this Mugz, I wouldn't want to be going through all that again.
 
I know exactly what you mean, I was talking to angelsmoke recently (my ex) and I said that I couldn't imagine myself with anyone that doesn't use drugs, or someone that is totally anti drugs. My opinion has changed a bit, I think that I could be with someone that doesn't use drugs as long as they were ok with me using them every now and again. I also sometimes think that I use drugs more because I don't have anyone to share my life with anymore, I know that me and angelsmoke used drugs a lot together, but if I were with a non drug user I think that my use would cut down tons if I had other things to do.
 
I dabbled with online dating a couple of years ago, and ended up meeting with two girls, but never ended up clicking with them. I think its a very good way of finding a girl with similar interests though. A mate of mine swears by it for getting a quick shag, he has a draft message he just amends slightly and sends to all the girls he likes the look of, the little sleazeball!

Ha I started seeing a girl about 4 years ago, after a couple of dates I asked her if she'd ever smoked weed. "Weed, as in drugs? No I'd never take drugs." My heart sunk, as I told her I smoke it occasionally (Occasionally being all day everyday). She wasn't impressed but we carried on seeing each other and became boyfriend and girlfriend. Roll on 6 months and she was taking more drugs than I did, snorting ket, taking mephedrone, man was I proud of her! Just goes to show not to write somebody off just because they don't take drugs or whatever your into. Opposites attract and all that
 
dan88 said:
I dabbled with online dating a couple of years ago, and ended up meeting with two girls, but never ended up clicking with them. I think its a very good way of finding a girl with similar interests though. A mate of mine swears by it for getting a quick shag, he has a draft message he just amends slightly and sends to all the girls he likes the look of, the little sleazeball!

Ha I started seeing a girl about 4 years ago, after a couple of dates I asked her if she'd ever smoked weed. "Weed, as in drugs? No I'd never take drugs." My heart sunk, as I told her I smoke it occasionally (Occasionally being all day everyday). She wasn't impressed but we carried on seeing each other and became boyfriend and girlfriend. Roll on 6 months and she was taking more drugs than I did, snorting ket, taking mephedrone, man was I proud of her! Just goes to show not to write somebody off just because they don't take drugs or whatever your into. Opposites attract and all that
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Had to laugh at that bit :D

Thanks for the reply though, there is a question on the profile page asking if you do drugs, I've made mine no as I would rather get to know someone a bit more before I talk about drugs, anyone with an open mind is likely to maybe try drugs someday, I wouldn't go out with someone closed minded.
 
Always check the other dating sites out to see if the bitch you're chatting to is on there to or not.
You'd be amazed, lots of them are on like 3-4 of them. ( I had a look once for a few days...)
 
Mugz said:
there is a question on the profile page asking if you do drugs, I've made mine no
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IMO thats a mistake. I think if you were brave/honest enough to tick yes, you would immediately filter out anyone who's not gonna be sympathetic/understanding in the long run when the truth eventually comes out. They're not gonna be impressed if they become attached to you and then you drop the bombshell on them a few months down the line. Maybe your soulmate is someone out there who also takes drugs and is just waitng for a feller with the guts to be totally upfront about being a druggie. It's like people say you should always be yourself when 'looking for love' as someone may love that real you, but if its kept hidden they would never find you....
 
Mugz said:
Had to laugh at that bit :D

Thanks for the reply though, there is a question on the profile page asking if you do drugs, I've made mine no as I would rather get to know someone a bit more before I talk about drugs, anyone with an open mind is likely to maybe try drugs someday, I wouldn't go out with someone closed minded.
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Haha no worries, it was crazy how she went from being totally against drugs to the girl she was 6 months later. I guess I was just her bad influence!

Yeah I'd probably put no on that, as I reckon it'd be a bit of a deal breaker for a lot of girls. Is there no way you can just not answer the question though, as I doubt it'd go down well if she finds out further down the line that you lied. Its a bit of an incriminating question though, so I'd have thought it would be optional.
 
Mailmonkey said:
I knew a guy in the mid-90's who was into dogging when it really was a bit more furtive and secretive. He was very cagey about it. Horrible bloke.
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Dogging seems oddly popular round here. Spent a night on speed and MDMA and had mates drive through to the coast to go dogging, telt em fuck off. Few years later my weed dealer is asking me if I want to go to some dogging spots.

Either Yorkshire is weird or I have weird friends.

Regarding online dating, my ex signed me up to a site for a laugh and to this day I am still getting emails from middle-aged women. Some of em are fit like but.
 
It's one fat bird getting banged in a cortina with 6 balding fat white van men drivers knocking one off on the outside while looking at each others cock.

Radio one did a report on dogging after collimore(sp?) got caught and the reporter got properly scared lol.
 
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