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Girlfriend can't climax

For women, the orgasm is 50% or more mental! FOREPLAY is vital to make a girl go! Play around, get her almost there, then initiate sex. Id also highly suggest for your girl to start masturbating and touching herself more often to find out what she likes and what makes her go. Sex therapists always suggest masturbation for these types of issues. Just remember its harder for most women to O then it is for guys, if she feels pressured in anyway to cum then its going to make it more difficult for her. A girl's mind needs to be clear and free of thought focusing solely on the act and being touched in all the right places to get off. Also, the clit has more nerve endings than any other sexual organ (male or female) and is the main way women get off. Try stimulating it more during sex, either her or you stimulating it and see if it helps. btw not all girls need to get off to enjoy the act of sex, im sure u make her just as happy either way
 
lick her very very softly. and let her know you LOVE that more than anything. Stay there for as long as it takes... Sounds like you may be there for a while but once she cums she will likely never stop..
 
As was mentioned, it's just as mental as it is physical for us women :) I think it *does* sometimes happen that some people simply can't have orgasms but it's extreeeeeeeeeeemely rare so as far as your girlfriend goes there's probably another reason behind it. I think she should probably masturbate more and see what she likes and stuff, I have much more trouble climaxing with a guy than on my own personally...
 
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