Well I just got into both the novels/stories and the mini series, though I've heard or known about "a song of ice and fire" for years, as one of my brothers got real into the novels. I started watching the mini-series a month before the second season started, even though I've had the first season in 720p for months and months on my computer. I started reading the novels/stories a couple days ago. I gotta say I'm not disappointed in the mini series or the book series, even with the straying from the books in the mini series. I've never been upset by movies or TV shows being off from the original source, unless it is a clear butchering of the story.
I've been enjoying the second season. I'm excited about the heightened violence from the last season and what not, but really I'm enjoying expanding my understanding of the "world".
Also I've found GOT to show less straight up banging than other HBO mini-series. From what I recall Rome had a lot more scenes purely involving two people going at it. I feel GOT has a lot of sex/sexuality involved in the story in so many different ways, the role of the sexuality in the scenes are deeper than in other HBO series. So in sum, I haven't found it to have to much of sexuality. Honestly I thought they were going softer on the sex scenes compared to other shows. Though I can see that some people will find the type of sexuality/the way it is being expressed to have a problem with the show/novels. There is a lot of rape, incest, etc. that people aren't used to seeing or hearing about, that is supposed to be viewed for the understanding of the stories, so I'm sure a lot of people feel a little awkward watching it happen.
I've spent some time looking online with out spoiling anything, looking for maps, or background info yesterday, as I really started to get into reading the first novel and am trying to figure out locations/wtfigo.
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http://www.sermountaingoat.co.uk/map/versions/speculative_map.jpg <--- cool fan made map (even though this year [Oct I believe] there will be a release of the official maps
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http://www.sermountaingoat.co.uk/timeline/index.php <--- cool interactive use of the map (timeline of events for certain periods)