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saying "I love you"

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citizen cained

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Long story short, me and my gf always used to say "love you, love you too" in txts etc however in the last week or 2 she no longer says love you or replies to me with "love you too" as much, now this is only a small issue as we still say it in person or over the phone (as she lives far away currently so I feel it is important to say it) but the problem is last night i got pretty drunk and came home and txt her a good night txt without saying love you in it (i was drunk and unaware i did not include it, it wasnt deliberate), she then moaned to me about not including it in the txt, she didnt make a big deal out of it but still was not happy that i didnt say "love you".

Im here thinking "wtf? so you can leave out "love you" in txt and its fine but when i do it i get moaned at?"

Is this normal? any advice as to why she would do this?

this isnt a big issue btw, i am just curious to what you all think..
 
How can you even be compaling about this. She loves you. Tell her you forgot it and tell her as a joke. "that meens nextime you forget it Ill have to remind you to." This is really nothing to worry about my friend :D
 
alasdairm said:
what happened when you told her this?

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i didn't say it, i thought of it but i said something similar and she replied "i recon you missed it out to get back at me hehe although you were drunk, people are normally nicer when drunk (in reference to drunk people being more loved up), you could have been with someone else or something :("

also since this, she has been saying "i love you" more..
 
LDR communication issues..... sounds like fun
 
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I Love You!

I really do love my partner to bits and he sure knows this as i do try my best to say it when i reckon he will let me actually finish the full three words from my mouth!!i know that he loves me too in his own way as iu certainly do feel loved by him the thing nis that i would love it if only he could tell me more than just bnow and then as it really makes me happy hearing him say it to me.I dont know if im asking for to much?but if i am then my only excuse for wanting this is because im greatly insecure i have craved to feel loved like this,i never in a million years would have ever imagined me falling in deep love with my partner never mind even meeting him in the first place!i suppose i should just thank god upstairs that iv been so fortunate in the first place but one day with hope in my heart ill hear those ntreasured words more than i do at the moment.I love you p x<3
 
In my opinion over using the term "I love you" is a deadly mistake. I prefer to say it very very rarely, like 1-2 times a week max, and never too earily on in the relationship. If you say it right away your pretty much saying you don't know what love is.

The more a women hears those words the more they just assume you just unconiditonally love them and think they hold all the power. If she wants you to say it at the end of every text it's more likely a affirmation of her power over you then a YOU DONT LOVE ME thing, hell she knows you love her by now right?

Not to mention your devaluing the words. It's best just to say it at those real intimate moments where the sounds of her breath, the feel of her touch, the look on her face combined with the warm sinking feeling in your gut compeles you to say those words, when you REALLY mean it to the bottom of your heart.
 
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