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Any virgins here? when did you lose your viginity?

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when did you lose your viginity?

  • < 13

    Votes: 6 3.6%

  • 14-17

    Votes: 73 44.0%

  • 18-21

    Votes: 66 39.8%

  • 22-25

    Votes: 3 1.8%

  • > 26

    Votes: 2 1.2%

  • still a virgin

    Votes: 16 9.6%
  • Total voters
    166
I'm 26 now and I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20. Honestly I think a lot of people lie to those polls, but I mean anyways who cares.

I had this idea in my head that caused me so much anxiety that if I met a girl and she found out I was sexually inexperienced that, I don't even know, she'd boot me out the door naked and never want to talk to me again etc. etc.

But I think most of the time that's not going to be an issue. Just be confident and focus on finding a girl to be your girlfriend, rather than just leaping at an opportunity for sex. I mean my first sexual experience involved drunkenly coming back to a hotel with a girl I'd never met before, Going down on her for like half an hour while trying to get it up and then not really being able to enjoy the sensations that much because I was so hammered. And then waking up in the morning and hey she doesn't look as good as she did last night.. I kind of regret this!

I'd rather focus now and just meeting someone and dating, I've never done that for longer term in my life. I feel more nervous about that, that someone would think I'm a creep to be my age and not having had any serious girlfriends before. But hey, I've been dating oxycodone since I was 20 and we broke up just a week and a half ago, so someone new maybe.
 
I had just turned 17. It was on my first voyage and we were in Barbados. She said do you want to fuck? And I couldn't believe what I was hearing. So I paid her five shillings (about 75 cents) and we fucked. I lasted about 30 seconds.
I had my ass virginity taken about three months later.
 
16... apparently there was a bet going around on whether or not she could take my virginity.

She won, and broke up with me a week later -_-;
 
tkarr said:
I had this idea in my head that caused me so much anxiety that if I met a girl and she found out I was sexually inexperienced that, I don't even know, she'd boot me out the door naked and never want to talk to me again etc. etc.
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If a girl did that then it's better off because you don't want to lose you virginity to someone like that.

To the OP, I don't think many girls would mind you being a virgin. Less worry of disease and all that fun stuff that can come from fooling around. I have never had my sexual history come up before sex other than with my girlfriend with whom we lost our virginity to one another.
 
I was 16 in one of my psych hospital stays. I met a guy, and it just took off. We spent a good 2 1/2 weeks fucking. Not at all anticipated, and a very fun addition to my summer in the the various psych wards of the area. I have not, though, been with anyone since 8). We shall see.
 
Aetherius Rimor said:
o_O;

Ok, now I'm curious... do they have condoms/birth control in psych hospitals?

Otherwise... lovely place to find a baby daddy/mama XD
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Well birth control wasn't neccessary (I'm a guy), but condoms would have been a good idea. I had a fuck all attitude, though, so whatever. I've gotten myself tested and am clean.
 
Alex000 said:
Well birth control wasn't neccessary (I'm a guy), but condoms would have been a good idea. I had a fuck all attitude, though, so whatever. I've gotten myself tested and am clean.
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Were they even available, assuming the facility wasn't completely naive to the fact people will still attempt it (assuming it wasn't allowed)?
 
Losing one's virginity is totally overrated. People have these huge expectations and then are disappointed. Just BE SAFE, go with your intuition about when it is the right time and the right person, what feels right for you, and don't expect that the person will be "the one" who you will spend the rest of your life with or that it will be mind-blowing or hugely romantic or whatever. I think it's a good idea to get some experience with sex before going all the way. Like maybe start off with kissing, then "making out", then intimate touching, then oral sex, etc, so that when you actually have intercourse it is just another step and not this totally foreign experience. I cannot stress enough how important it is to practice safe sex. It can really ruin the experience if you get caught up in the moment and don't bother with condoms and then you feel guilty and worried afterwards. And you don't want to risk your life for sex.
 
Aetherius Rimor said:
Were they even available, assuming the facility wasn't completely naive to the fact people will still attempt it (assuming it wasn't allowed)?
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No they were not available. And I do think the facility caught on to us, but they never really gave a fuck, which worked out good for me and him. Our psych doc knew something was going on, and all the other patients did, too, as did the techs. It was very "don't ask, don't tell". No one wanted to know if it was really true, even though they had their suspicions. But no, condoms were not available, but niether one of use attempted to ascertain any.
 
Lost it a couple of months after my 15th birthday.Mistake. I rushed into it..and it hurt.I thought by having sex with the guy that it would save our relationship.Negative.He was a freakin jerk! And stopped talking to me right after...
 
16 and a half - my boyfriend at the time was 19, and also a virgin. long time ago now, lol. nearly 10 years as a matter of fact 8o
 
19

Looking back, I probably could have lost it as young as 12 or 14, if I wasn't holding out for my first love.

:)
 
Noodle said:
Looking back, I probably could have lost it as young as 12 or 14, if I wasn't holding out for my first love.

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haha same, i had my first kiss when i was 10 (proper french kiss.. tongues and everything) we were in bed together even but at that age, i didn't desire sex (or even know why i had a boner at the time haha) of course, girls mature earlier so she may have wanted it...
 
Either 15 or 16 dont remember. The two of us black out drunk attempted to bang in my room with a bunch of friends on the floor. I say attempted because the sex totally sucked. Like 20 seconds of awkwardness and no release/pleasure.
 
I was 4 days into my 18th birthday. The guy was my first boyfriend, and I had been in a private christian school since kindergarten. He was the stereotypical bad boy who brought me out of my shell and we did all kinds of things. Of course, like most stereotypical badboy BFs, he was bad news, a drug addict and stole from me, my family and even his own family to buy drugs. He was a real winner. :\ I wouldn't be surprised if he was dead or in jail at this point.

All I remember is that it hurt like freakin hell! But, he did wait about 6 months to have sex with me, because I wasn't ready.

I had a sexual partner with a guy who lost his virginity at 20. He later told me that I was only his 3rd partner, and he was probably one of the best sexual partners I've ever had. So, just because you're new to the game doesn't mean you can't be fun and good. :D
 
i lost my virginity at 13 yes people i know!!!!! its bad! at the time i was hanging around with a group of mates that were older then me about 16 to 18 and one day we all decided to have a competition to see who could loose theres first! and i was the 3rd to do it in about 6 of us, it was with my bf of about 6 weeks in an old abandoned shed! lol! he got it in a tiny bit and i screamed and told him to get it out cause it hurt like hell! when i look back now i think it was all peer pressure and i wish i had of waited till i was ready, and it was a bit more special.
 
I was 15, in my friend's waterbed.
I met her about 8 hours before hand at a bowling alley

My friend was losing his virginity to her friend right next to us on the couch.
All four of us were virgins

Sounds like a very romantic night, huh? lol
 
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