^The eastern approach to understanding the world has always been vastly different from the way the west approaches it. Both in science and religion.
IMO the Western approach has always been to dominate nature while in the East it has always been to seek a way of balance and harmony with nature. Going with the flow so to speak. Just look at Daoism compared to any western religion or any Eastern religion compared to any of the Abrahamic religions. On the one hand you have a religion (Daoism) that understands that there are always two opposing forces hence the ying and the yang. And if either side becomes dominant then you have imbalance. While on the other hand (Abrahmic) you have a religion that is literally about a God seeking to dominate the souls of its worshipers. There is no balance there is only domination. And through that domination you get almost ceaseless destruction. Destruction of reason, destruction of ideas that are different from your own and therefore evil/sinful.
You can even tell the differences in their approach by studying the ways they have developed fighting. In the West you have Greco-Roman wrestling which is essentially brute force VS brute force. In the east you have Tai Chi and Judo, arts where you use your opponents brute force to your own advantage. One seeks to dominate the other. The other seeks to use that dominating spirit against itself.
It is really interesting IMO how much my study of martial arts has opened up my mind.
Most martial arts are based on concepts of the perverted Dao(taoism) and the more perverted offshoots of Taoism. The tao is exactly the opposite of of your understanding, the tao is not balance. balance infers dichotomies, the sage denies dichotomies and see them as the universe is. that is.... it is. The true dao is not a religion it is merely a life choice you either choose to follow or you do not. It is not the meaning of life or anything similar. It is not something someone should or should not do. It just is. As far as combat goes there is no offence or defense, there is fighting that is all. Furthermore the dao is not constituted of opposing forces the dao just is.
This is probably completely lost to you but if you have seen Kung fu panda Master oogwey says it quite well. "Ah, Shifu. There is just news. There is no good or bad."
Dao te ching poem 2 (my compiled translation)
LETTING GO OF ABSTRACTION
Man has abstracted beauty from world
in doing so he has created the idea of ugliness
One may create the idea of skilled action
and in doing so they contrive the idea of unskilled action
So it is the idea of existence and non-existence that defines itself
The idea of difficulty arrives out of the idea of what is of ease
The perception of length can only be devised out of the idea of shortness
one sees things as high from the understanding of low
the difference of song and speech arrive from the idea of melody
before and after come from the idea of chronology
therefore the Sage separates themselves from abstraction
The sage acts without acting
The sage accepts things as they arrive,
It (the sage) may nurture them but does not own them
When finished it takes no credit and moves on
so it lives but does not dwell
and my favorite translation; which avoids all of the pitfalls of translations trying to recreate the poetry of the original which has lead to it's complete perversion and further abstraction on every level. this translation goes to the core and avoids all that is unessential.
http://www.vl-site.org/taoism/ttcmerel.html
Further more the first "poem" is enclosed