Are you attacted to mates outside of your race?

[Jerry Atrick]

That and despite what total recall told me, most do not have three boobs.

Besides, ideally you want the third boob to be in the back. Ya know......for dancing.

 

[twentysix]

while it's easy to let the brain be lazy and group people so tightly together as black white or even "shades" of these colors, when I really get out into the world and look at people I find there are more possibilities than I allowed myself to perceive initially, automatically. for instance, yesterday while walking into a license branch I thought to hold the door open for big black girl walking behind me. I do this for anyone male female regardless of anything, but I wasn't interested from the corner of my eyes. sitting down, she sat next to me, and glancing her features, her energy- the way she carried herself, the pleasant appearance... I became attracted to her, potentially in very intimate ways.

I am attracted to all races, but when I'm actually with these girls, so far something has always felt lacking if they weren't white. This isn't to say that there's a direct correlation, or that I'll always feel this way. I haven't really had any dates with a black girl, though, or attempts to be that close other than sexual encounters. I really don't have the experience to say what I know (that I don't know that) I'd feel given enough time being around/with. I grew up in a midwestern town, southern Indiana, lots of corn, and other farms, and just a few black people or people of any other race. Asian people opened up restaurants, as did Mexican... but I didn't actually see many girls my age of those ethnicities or get chances to interact with any males either. It probably wasn't until I went to college that I had much exposure to other races, and even then that was probably mostly white. Now, living in Indianapolis, and having more exposure, I can say that it's more likely that I'd date a black girl than any other race, besides white... simply because of how many there are to choose from. One is likely to catch my attention, which happens.

So I guess much of it is my exposure... definitely familiarity. My experiences with the girls of other ethnicities are limited, anyway... but I guess I just said so far something has felt like it's missing.. and although I've thought it was something to do with ethnic origin and features and ways... I can't honestly say that..

At this point, I'm open. But "white" is very ingrained.

 

[axl blaze]

usually I prefer dating outside my race. blame it on the liberal media and all them hip-hop videos herp derp

 

[rangrz]

while it's easy to let the brain be lazy and group people so tightly together as black white or even "shades" of these colors

Are you claiming that the fairly objective measure(albeit crudely compared to the spectra of a blackbody emitter of some X temperature) of the spectra reflected of a given persons skin is non-existent?(Or perhaps their albedo) More possibilities? Are we moving off visible light and into I.R. or U.V. spectra now? We looking for emission/absorption lines.. florescence?

 

[L2R]

i don't even acknowledge the term "race". there're different ethnicities and cultures. i've dated a southern belle, a south african and a few vietnamese. i married a chinese. i'm australian with eastern european ethnicity.

 

[Joeof1]

I only chase Asian Nationalities. All else need not apply. I'm Native American and Hessen/Hessian...

I've been with girls of all sorts of Nationalities, but only Asian girls turn me on to be honest. Some Asian girls I can simply glance at and get aroused. No girls of any other Nationality or physical characteristic do this to me.

 

[Kenickie]

i've dated a southern belle

what are these?

 

[The Rock Monster]

well uh, idk what my race is, since i am of mexican and european ancestry. BUT, i do love the sistas. one of these days, i am gona have like 1,000,000 lil black babies

 

[paranoid android]

I'm Canadian (well kinda) and white and of Irish decent and the only real g/f i have ever had was arab so meh. After growing up in a place that consists almost entirely of typical white Canadian women i do tend to like exotic women better. Middle eastern, Spanish, and Asian women are fucking hawt though

 

[L2R]

what are these?

think "stereotype" for the turn of phrase i used. i meant nothing derogatory by it, neither to those it encompasses nor those it generally does not.

but if you must, there's a pic or two of her in the older pics thread in the lounge.

 

[axl blaze]

I think she just meant that surely there is a difference between the standard generalization of what a "Southern belle" is to an American, compared to what the term means to an Australian - and how about it?

 

[whatsup73]

I find most races unattractive. I am a white male. I am dating a 100 percent native girl tho.

 

[DamagedLemon]

hellz yeah!
i've dated outside of my race 4 times.

 

[wickywacky]

I'm pretty much open to anyone, as long as they are sexy, unique, take care of their body, and have the right sort of personality/humor. They would just have to fit with me. I have a less than normal lifestyle and I guess most would consider me a "dirty hippy" (lol)... so I probably wouldn't fit with some corporate banker or lawyer or whatever. But who knows, sometimes opposites attract and people can change.

That said I've never dated a black man... I've hooked up with a few casually, long ago. I just haven't known a lot of black men honestly, the ones I have were always just friends or married or with someone else or gay, lol... where I grew up there weren't tons of black people, maybe 1 or 2 for every 15 hispanic or white... it was mostly hispanic. I'm white/hispanic.

Now that I live in the South and there are a lot of hot black men around, but I'm married now.

 

[fakeplastictrees4]

I am of white heritage and living in Canada. I've got to say that for some reason I find white men least attractive. That's not to say I won't date a white guy but purely physically I am attracted to latinos and native men the most.

 

[rakketakke]

I don't really care about ethnicity, that's really the least of my worries. I look for personality first so maybe that's what makes it easy

my last girlfriend was from Chili

Firy temperament but oh so lovely !

 

[Pander Bear]

you mean chile, right?

 

[Kenickie]

I think she just meant that surely there is a difference between the standard generalization of what a "Southern belle" is to an American, compared to what the term means to an Australian - and how about it?

yeah i mean...when i hear southern belle, i think:

or any of the girls posted here: http://poonsec.blogspot.com/

CLICK IT AXL OMG YOU'LL THANK US LATER

SEC POON

 

[rakketakke]

you mean chile, right?

Meh it's Chili in Dutch

you get the point :D

 

[Pander Bear]

^^
i suspected it might be, interesting.