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RE: What would you do if you were attracted to minors?

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Lysis said:
It's easy for them, and they can have sex with no real responsibilities. This is why women with female kids have to be careful, because the disgusting pedos take advantage. It's a pure, primal urge that doesn't go beyond sticking a penis into a vagina. The relative "Oh, it's just an age" is indicative of someone trying to validate it, because they want to (ironically) tell themselves it's ok....well, or they are completely devoid of any real maturity and thought process.
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^I completely agree with this.
 
Recently a 30 year old man from America legally persued a sexual relationship with a 12 year old boy by crossing the border into Canada.
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@Africanus if you don't think there is something wrong with this then I think there is something terribly wrong with you. Its just my opinion but just saying that is incredibly fucked up.
 
Its not uncommon that's for sure. I'm eighteen now though but I had 25+ fall for me when I was 15 or 16. Some of the guys still are into me now years later. Many of them go this is wrong for me to like you and blah blah blah but most of the time if the person is hot us teenage girls don't care. Now if you're a creepy looking motherfucker we will yell PEDO but other than that no.
 
Hahaha yeah I know right but at least I didn't try to act like I wouldn't do that to someone. Sorry if you're going to be a pervert at least do not be ugly or else you're going to end up on the sex offenders list ;)

Shit though when I was in placement there were girls in there who had children at age 14 and their baby daddys were like in their 20s some in their 30s now that's fucked up.
 
If by minors you mean preteens and children then I would probably come to the realization that I needed psychiatric help. Just because youre attracted to minors does not mean you are somehow justified in pursuing sexual relations with someone who is by no means mature enough for it.

Being attracted to minors is not some harmless lifestyle choice like being gay/transgender ect. It should not be thought of as such.
 
^ I think we're talking about teenage girls, like 14 year olds with developed bodies.

I think that a person's readiness for sex can't be measured by age... I've met a 13 year-old that carried her sexuality better than 90% of 18 year-olds I've met. I think this girl had a kid at a very young age (with a young father).
 
I would dismiss the thought as nothing more than perhaps a modern insatiability. I think it's completely normal to recognize and admire attractiveness, but what really makes a difference is how you translate it. If you intend to wrong or harm in a non-consensual way, then I say you have it all wrong.
 
jazz hands said:
I think that a person's readiness for sex can't be measured by age... I've met a 13 year-old that carried her sexuality better than 90% of 18 year-olds I've met. I think this girl had a kid at a very young age (with a young father).
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oh yes, a thirteen year-old with a child is obviously making mature decisions concerning her reproductive health. 8(

this thread creeps me the fuck out.
 
Lysis said:
It's easy for them, and they can have sex with no real responsibilities. This is why women with female kids have to be careful, because the disgusting pedos take advantage. It's a pure, primal urge that doesn't go beyond sticking a penis into a vagina. The relative "Oh, it's just an age" is indicative of someone trying to validate it, because they want to (ironically) tell themselves it's ok....well, or they are completely devoid of any real maturity and thought process.
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Because, Fathers do not care about or protect their children at all. Also, not one male child has ever been molested in the history of homo sapiens extant period.

Sexism, its AWWWWRIIIIITE.
 
Fawkes said:
oh yes, a thirteen year-old with a child is obviously making mature decisions concerning her reproductive health. 8(

this thread creeps me the fuck out.
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Pointing out that guys are drawn to girls who are sexually mature at a young age may upset you, but it is an undeniable fact. There are sexually mature 13-year olds and non-sexually mature 17-year olds.

It might not be a good idea in our society to have children at such a young age, but you'll be hard pressed to show that there is anything inherently wrong with it. Imagine if your life span was only 30-years and you lived in a warzone. Being sexually mature at 13 would now be just peachy. In fact, if you didn't take the opportunity to have sex at this age, you might never get the chance to experience your sexuality, have children, etc. You have to realize that society places upon us many circumstances that to not entirely jive with with our animal nature.
 
Lysis said:
It's easy for them, and they can have sex with no real responsibilities. This is why women with female kids have to be careful, because the disgusting pedos take advantage. It's a pure, primal urge that doesn't go beyond sticking a penis into a vagina. The relative "Oh, it's just an age" is indicative of someone trying to validate it, because they want to (ironically) tell themselves it's ok....well, or they are completely devoid of any real maturity and thought process.
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Let's flip the tables:

Men with male children of high status have to be careful, because disgusting, power-grubbing whores will try to seduce them. These women are just vapid animals with a primal urge to seduce powerful guys into sticking their penises in them and falling in love. Disgusting whores and their lack of morals, corrupting the young boys...

Not really fair, is it?
 
Fawkes said:
oh yes, a thirteen year-old with a child is obviously making mature decisions concerning her reproductive health. 8(

this thread creeps me the fuck out.
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Only on BL do we try to make some weird way that makes it OK. LOL

Because, Fathers do not care about or protect their children at all. Also, not one male child has ever been molested in the history of homo sapiens extant period.

Sexism, its AWWWWRIIIIITE.
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I am a bit of a feminist ;), and women are a majority of the time stuck with the kids and the deadbeat dads. I'm just goin' with the majority in this case. As far as mentioning female kids, the OP was talking about females, so that's why I was referring to them.

Men with male children of high status have to be careful, because disgusting, power-grubbing whores will try to seduce them.
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Meh. Nah. Yeah, I know there are the girls out there, but the majority of the time, we women want a mature, stable older guy making bank if we're gonna go for the gold-digging. There are several reasons why, but that's beyond the scope of this thread.

Not really fair, is it?
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I don't really play by "fair" rules. Just what I experience and see.
 
Lysis said:
I am a bit of a feminist ;), and women are a majority of the time stuck with the kids and the deadbeat dads. I'm just goin' with the majority in this case. As far as mentioning female kids, the OP was talking about females, so that's why I was referring to them.
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I think you need get out and meet more single mothers if you think that's the majority case. I know just as many women I consider deadbeat moms(women that pop out a kid and then live unemployed off the child support for 18 years) as I do deadbeat dads.
 
Lysis, my point was that we really shouldn't be using sexist arguments like "guys are sex crazed criminals"/ "girls are gold digging whores". It's way oversimplified, as you yourself just pointed out in response to my example about women.
 
GenericMind said:
I think you need get out and meet more single mothers if you think that's the majority case. I know just as many women I consider deadbeat moms(women that pop out a kid and then live unemployed off the child support for 18 years) as I do deadbeat dads.
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Oh dear. You're just gonna bring out the feminist in me more. Single moms have it rough. They have a kid to support (sometimes more), and that's a lot harder than up and leaving to go to college or have a career and leaving the single mom to deal with the kid. The single mom is then stuck where she is..poor, uneducated and with kids to support. It's a cycle and it's not easy for her to find child care and get out of her rut. They might be deadbeats or whatever, but they still do whatever they need to do to make sure their kid has food. Obviously there are some really horrible moms (Casey Anthony pops into mind) but the majority of the time it's some 16 (insert any other age between 14 and 25) year old girl who was dumb enough to get pregnant by some guy who up and left her when shit got rough.

Lysis, my point was that we really shouldn't be using sexist arguments like "guys are sex crazed criminals"/ "girls are gold digging whores". It's way oversimplified, as you yourself just pointed out in response to my example about women.
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LOL Thank you Captain Obvious. However, a lot of the stereotypes are, a majority of the time, true. Guys are sex crazed (have ya read here much? lol) and girls are gold diggers (rich men, beautiful young chicks, etc).
 
I am a single mom and the child support I receive is not even enough to pay the rent, let alone buy new clothes for the kiddo, food for him, pay the utilities, etc. Gotta love the misconception that single moms just sit around on their asses, living the good life because of child support. 8)

A deadbeat is someone who refuses to accept his or her responsibility of raising a child. My son's father is not a deadbeat, but he is only a part time dad. I am with my son 80% of the time, still go to school and work.

But this is off-topic.
 
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