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would you ever pay for sex?

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Nah, I'm too pretty; I GET paid ;)

Or, did.

And, hmmm, maybe if I found someone unbearably hot and that was the only way they'd do me and I had money to spare....or if I had some fetish most people wouldn't indulge and they would.
 
TheInvisibleStoner said:
Your post is tldr.
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Lol. If you don't read you'll never learn. I sometimes forget about the varying levels of intellectual capacity one finds here. Although I note you are capable of writing essay length posts when it comes to slagging off women, bitching about your hardships, or abusing other members in The Lounge. That would be a sign of the narcissism people like @JessFR have pointed out I think: talking/writing a lot but never listening/reading.

I might have to put you on ignore now, because yet again I've broken my New Years Resolution to not shoot fish in a barrel.
 
Oh and no, I wouldn't give a fuck if I found out someone I care about paid for sex. Unless they were my partner and it was while we were together.
 
Atelier3 said:
Lol. If you don't read you'll never learn. I sometimes forget about the varying levels of intellectual capacity one finds here. Although I note you are capable of writing essay length posts when it comes to slagging off women, bitching about your hardships, or abusing other members in The Lounge. That would be a sign of the narcissism people like @JessFR have pointed out I think: talking/writing a lot but never listening/reading.

I might have to put you on ignore now, because yet again I've broken my New Years Resolution to not shoot fish in a barrel.
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Please do. Then you won't have to quote me with some nonsense like you are the relationship expert when you actually got took worse than anyone I know.

As for intellect - LOL. yeah...

As for learning. Unless you are an expert programmer, I have nothing to learn from you. If you are, lets swap github and I will do your next PR. Or maybe if you were an expert guitarist I may be able to learn a few things. But from what I read around here don't think there is much of anything you could teach me.
 
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TheInvisibleStoner said:
As for learning. Unless you are an expert programmer, I have nothing to learn from you.
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I suspected there were as many dimensions to your intellect as there are to your character.

It must be stultifying to travel down the highway of life in just one lane never wondering what’s to be found if you take the off-ramps.

I have a github account to develop little analytical tools in R that standard applications in my field can’t do. I’ve also been trying to teach myself the guitar for a few years. You’d probably be better at both. That’s great. What’s your hourly rate to check my work? Do you have any other strings to your bow?

Can you teach mixed gas hypoxic technical diving? Or speak 3 languages? Read Latin? Get 5 rounds into a playing card at 800 meters? Parachute? Not be a cunt every time you drop by BL?
 
Github is free...thats the whole point of it. I know a little R. Send me your github and you can tag me on your next PR. Though, I would bet money these applications are non-existent.

But weren't you supposed to ignore me? Don't forget you quoted me. So now you are quoting, threatening to ignore, and then follow up with a host of skills that are completely irrelevant.
 
I'd rather hang out with the most ignorant person who knows nothing about nothing than the most educated person going around, if that educated person is a complete asshole.

You can teach ignorant people, but assholes tend to just stay that way.
 
Hmmm....soooo, I think I'm seeing where @Atelier3 got the idea for the thread about experience with women causing one to hate on them now.

Thought I might be so jaded from experience that I'd fit into the group of haters. Turns out I ain't shit. 🙃
 
Iwas a sex a worker and my feelingz did get hurt maybe just not cut out for it .,. Anyways other than sex I think the most important thing is that man treats all woman with the respect and vice versa and that includes not overly, sexualising the female race. I know it is hard. 😉😅
 
JessFR said:
I mostly hate prostitution. But yeah, it pretty much has to be legal for harm reduction reasons.
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A lot of sex work is a ugly reality. Even with things like porn and camming, you don't know what goes on when the camera shuts off.

There are levels of privilege, however it's not always as wonderful as it seems for more privilaged workers.

Just because someone projects a good image online does not mean much. You don't know them offline.

And for disabled women involved in the sex industry, it can be great but it also has a dark side. Both sides need to be acknowledged.

I know we have had issues but I hope I can quote you on this.
 
iTry91 said:
Iwas a sex a worker and my feelingz did get hurt maybe just not cut out for it .,. Anyways other than sex I think the most important thing is that man treats all woman with the respect and vice versa and that includes not overly, sexualising the female race. I know it is hard. 😉😅
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I agree!! I do not deal with men on a overly personal level who have issues with humanizing sex workers. Period.

And you can't always tell who has issues based off of politics btw. Because often men profess to be liberal or leftist but are extremely whorephobic (against sex workers).

The simple solution to this is to NOT allow them access to you. At all.
 
SunriseChampion said:
Hmmm....soooo, I think I'm seeing where @Atelier3 got the idea for the thread about experience with women causing one to hate on them now.

Thought I might be so jaded from experience that I'd fit into the group of haters. Turns out I ain't shit. 🙃
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in the year I was high, and when I was a mod, I was inclined to think everybody on BL was a victim in some way. Consequently I always gave the benefit of the doubt when people said obnoxius amd hateful stuff.

I’d go “oh they must be high or coming down or off their meds”.

However I’m pretty sure now that truly dispicable human beings take drugs too. Who knew?
 
Atelier3 said:
in the year I was high, and when I was a mod, I was inclined to think everybody on BL was a victim in some way. Consequently I always gave the benefit of the doubt when people said obnoxius amd hateful stuff.

I’d go “oh they must be high or coming down or off their meds”.

However I’m pretty sure now that truly dispicable human beings take drugs too. Who knew?
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Yep. That they do. And unfortunately we don't do a whole lot to keep those despicable victimizers from using the same community as victims.

But that's a whole other issue.

Is it bad I tend to stereotype the scumbag drug users as tweakers? :D
I know there are scumbags into my drug of choice too, I just can't help but feel like more of them are into stims :D
 
JessFR said:
Is it bad I tend to stereotype the scumbag drug users as tweakers? :D
I know there are scumbags into my drug of choice too, I just can't help but feel like more of them are into stims :D
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I’d be a little but cautious with that summation. And not just because I’m a tweaker. My top 5 scumbags seem to be poly-drug users who like to go up, down and sideways based on whatever they can get their hands on. But it might be they are most energetic in their postings with access to stims.
 
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