stolemyheart87
Ex-Bluelighter
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- Sep 6, 2016
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Alright back in the summer from July to September, I dated this one guy for a whole month, we went on a handful of dates, had a great time together, but in the end he didn't want to date anymore because of personal issues revolving around himself and his life. So a few months past and in November him and I re-connected and have been talking since November. During the holidays Christmas and New Years time, he was visiting family out in Texas.
Today January 8th he returns home and this past week, on Wednesday January 4th around 3PM he messages me and we had the following conversation.
HIM: "Wanna see me Sunday afternoon?" (the day he comes home)
ME: "Sure".
Then on Saturday at 10PM he tells me
HIM: "So I fly home in 7 hours."
ME: "Cool hope you come home safe and sound."
HIM: "Next week maybe a date?"
ME: "Sure if you want too."
HIM: "Do you want to? You control the relationship."
HIM: "I'll go all in, but you're the one who says when I can."
ME: We aren't in a relationship yet, so that's one thing. And we haven't had our first date yet either, we tried twice but nothing happened."
HIM: "OK".
ME: "Ok".
HIM: "So I await your plan".
ME: "So we will be seeing each other this coming week, not tomorrow? So I know what's up and all that stuff."
HIM: "Saturday afternoon is always best for me".
BUT here's another thing we talked about previously yes he says Saturday afternoon's work best for him but he's told me before that he's always tired and drained by the time he leaves work and drives down to see me and isn't as energentic as he'd like to be. But yet he wants to date me and see me.
Also why would he go and say he wanted to come see me when he came back home and then he forget's about doing that and then switches us to seeing one another this week or weekend coming up.
I just don't get it. I feel really hurt, I was really hoping to see him today and yet he forgot unless MAYBE but highly doubtful he will show up surprising me but doubt it.
Today January 8th he returns home and this past week, on Wednesday January 4th around 3PM he messages me and we had the following conversation.
HIM: "Wanna see me Sunday afternoon?" (the day he comes home)
ME: "Sure".
Then on Saturday at 10PM he tells me
HIM: "So I fly home in 7 hours."
ME: "Cool hope you come home safe and sound."
HIM: "Next week maybe a date?"
ME: "Sure if you want too."
HIM: "Do you want to? You control the relationship."
HIM: "I'll go all in, but you're the one who says when I can."
ME: We aren't in a relationship yet, so that's one thing. And we haven't had our first date yet either, we tried twice but nothing happened."
HIM: "OK".
ME: "Ok".
HIM: "So I await your plan".
ME: "So we will be seeing each other this coming week, not tomorrow? So I know what's up and all that stuff."
HIM: "Saturday afternoon is always best for me".
BUT here's another thing we talked about previously yes he says Saturday afternoon's work best for him but he's told me before that he's always tired and drained by the time he leaves work and drives down to see me and isn't as energentic as he'd like to be. But yet he wants to date me and see me.
Also why would he go and say he wanted to come see me when he came back home and then he forget's about doing that and then switches us to seeing one another this week or weekend coming up.
I just don't get it. I feel really hurt, I was really hoping to see him today and yet he forgot unless MAYBE but highly doubtful he will show up surprising me but doubt it.