Dude don't talk kids before sex and that is a way way eay down the road convo.
Dude condoms work at least the good brands. I never fared well with thin ones but that brand doesn't fit me and doesn't cover my shaft all the way.
Anyways it would be nice to finish in her pussy for both of you so just buy some trojans or durex and yoi eill be fine.
Later down the road you can ask her to take the pill.
Honestly you got answers to your questions and guess what we were all virgins once!
Anyways I would bet everything I had that using a condom properly won't result in pregnancy unless she has inner labia piercings or something weird like that and in that case you can just give me her number.
Look you are really overcomplicating something that is 95% instinct. Just use condoms and have a good time.
Condoms are not a new thing and people made them from sheep skin and animal intestines. It works.
Trust me condoms work. The whole point of a ocndom is to not worry about what you are worrying about.
What do you mean a month ahead? You waiting that long to sleep together?
I don't think I ever dated past a week before sex and dude I got married a few times so it wasn't always casual but for the most part my sex life has been vadial to flings.
It's pretty hard to get a chick pregnant unless one of you want it. I had sex with the same woman about twice a day for over three years and only pulled out and she didn't get pregnant.
She got pregnant long after we broke up on a one night stand and I got a girl pregnant at such a young age after shagging maybe three times. I didn't have any good options so I signed away my rights once we found a good solution so the kid could have a good life.
All I am saying is I am fertile and so is my ex wife and we never used protection, just pull out and that worked so imagine with a rubber to catch all bodily fluids.
Also a condom is a good idea until getting tested with your partner. Look you never know if someone has something and then looking healthy is not always an accurate assessment.
So use a condom. Chill out. If you don't worry instinct will take over and you want to lose yourself in the sex, there is this fleeting moment where you both are free somewhere else together.
Sex can be selfish so if you give in the bed you get more so be considerate to her needs.
I hate to tell you this but after you will think and know you built this up to more than it is and its just sex at the end of the day, I get you care for her and that is good and makes sex better.
Sex is a great thing and so is love. You gotta know the difference deep down so you don't set yourself up to get hurt.
It sounds like you got a solid relationship. Sex isn't supposed to be mechanical or stressed over. It's an act of affection, love, and other things, some rather intangible to describe.
My advice is to use a condom and to just let it bea natural act. Put some passion into it.
Later down the road you might want to get a book on sex positions or maybe The Joy of Sex. The latter put me to sleep but most people like it.
As far as positions, you want to get good at sex but your girl definitely gonna cut you some slack to get good at it and it doesn't take anything but practice really which is pretty enjoyable.
You and your partner will grow together emotionally sfter you start having sex and it is a beautiful thing.
