While I'm aware there's a huge market for these things, and I was brought up in a house where scented candles were going a good amount of the time. I also grew up suffering headaches through these periods, and perhaps they were linked to candle use. I know now that they effect me, causing suffering. It took quite a bit of separation to realize, and I'm still struggling with finding out what effects me. I probably need a respirator.
Anyways, recently there has been some movement to ban air fresheners (most common forms. there are forms i imagine i might be able to handle, like Ozium, possibly, though I'm not sure.). I'm not sure if it's just in public places or in general. I'm all for it. They give me headaches, and scented candles make me sick. Their smells permeate environments, and in apartments with shared ventilation, it's really bad. It's worse than loud music, in my mind. Not that I have a problem with loud music most of the time, but at least it doesn't assure a headache. It's like something so "loud" you can't hear yourself think, you know? It's unfair that natural smells in the environment, a gas leak, the smell of my dinner cooking, or my wife's or children's natural smell, which I might enjoy or come to love, should be overwhelmed at all by these scents.
I even have a problem with perfumes, and colognes and the list goes on and on. There are some that don't seem to effect me, but some feel like the coldest winter air entering my nostrils when I've already got a sinus infection, or something, and soon I get stinging in my throat... and it even slightly closes sometimes. Symptoms vary by varied products.
I know how this might come off to some people. "This guy is crazy"- while maybe true, I can come up with a lot of reasons to back my views. Many like me, including me-independently (before I read it, I felt it), have drawn a metaphor to it being assault, even. And some like me have won lawsuits involving health hazards of these products in workplaces, getting them banned in those places. There has been legislation to get it passed (Banning of these types of products, not sure the extent.) very recently. I can't wait until that clearer, cleaner future.
But I know that the majority might hate me. Only four years ago I was still lighting candles, too, and somewhat enjoying their presence.. but I was also popping four Ibuprofen a day or so.
So, what are your views? Do you have a right to do this? Do you have a right to smoke a cigarette in a car with your children... up wind from another's infant? How is an adult any different? See what I'm saying? It may not seem realistic at first because of what we're so used to, but it's where we're going.
Anyways, recently there has been some movement to ban air fresheners (most common forms. there are forms i imagine i might be able to handle, like Ozium, possibly, though I'm not sure.). I'm not sure if it's just in public places or in general. I'm all for it. They give me headaches, and scented candles make me sick. Their smells permeate environments, and in apartments with shared ventilation, it's really bad. It's worse than loud music, in my mind. Not that I have a problem with loud music most of the time, but at least it doesn't assure a headache. It's like something so "loud" you can't hear yourself think, you know? It's unfair that natural smells in the environment, a gas leak, the smell of my dinner cooking, or my wife's or children's natural smell, which I might enjoy or come to love, should be overwhelmed at all by these scents.
I even have a problem with perfumes, and colognes and the list goes on and on. There are some that don't seem to effect me, but some feel like the coldest winter air entering my nostrils when I've already got a sinus infection, or something, and soon I get stinging in my throat... and it even slightly closes sometimes. Symptoms vary by varied products.
I know how this might come off to some people. "This guy is crazy"- while maybe true, I can come up with a lot of reasons to back my views. Many like me, including me-independently (before I read it, I felt it), have drawn a metaphor to it being assault, even. And some like me have won lawsuits involving health hazards of these products in workplaces, getting them banned in those places. There has been legislation to get it passed (Banning of these types of products, not sure the extent.) very recently. I can't wait until that clearer, cleaner future.
But I know that the majority might hate me. Only four years ago I was still lighting candles, too, and somewhat enjoying their presence.. but I was also popping four Ibuprofen a day or so.
So, what are your views? Do you have a right to do this? Do you have a right to smoke a cigarette in a car with your children... up wind from another's infant? How is an adult any different? See what I'm saying? It may not seem realistic at first because of what we're so used to, but it's where we're going.
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