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Social Virtually 100%of men love unsolicited pussy pics

Ladies, do you like unsolicited dick pics

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • No

    Votes: 7 41.2%
  • I’m gay

    Votes: 6 35.3%

  • Total voters
    17
foodcrisis said:
as a straight male i kind of disagree. seeing a dick alone does nothing for me, but like if it's a pic of a dick in a woman's hand and she's got a nice pretty hand and her nails done, it's hot and the dick starts to look good... if i'm watching porn and a dick is going in and out of a nice pussy and it's that kind of shot, it might be hotter than lesbian porn. dicks are cool a lot of the time.

You should try and play with one. See if you like it.

polarthedog said:
I don’t think they look great either, but it would let me know that I’m probably going to get laid

I'm married and I have sex on demand so I guess I take that for granted.
 
Dw mate. ;)

Happens to me occasionally. I hang around quite a few womenfolk and you don't have to actually BE a woman to sympathise, you just have to kinda observe.... after a certain amount of time spent in women's company you notice some shit men don't seem to have to put up with ; or at least not to that extent.

... Also now that I think about it, it's sorta messed up that understanding a woman's viewpoint can get you mistaken for a woman. I've even had people online think I must be female for showing basic human empathy. I think society still needs a few improvements.
 
Dw mate. ;)

Happens to me occasionally. I hang around quite a few womenfolk and you don't have to actually BE a woman to sympathise, you just have to kinda observe.... after a certain amount of time spent in women's company you notice some shit men don't seem to have to put up with ; or at least not to that extent.

... Also now that I think about it, it's sorta messed up that understanding a woman's viewpoint can get you mistaken for a woman. I've even had people online think I must be female for showing basic human empathy. I think society still needs a few improvements.
I think you’re one of the more empathetic and big-hearted people on here so no wonder you get mistaken for a woman, dude. It’s a good quality to have, it’s just a shame that so many cultures believe that men should be these stoic repressed assholes basically
 
@polarthedog

The thing is that women are not really into sex like men are, we have a sex drive which is 1000000000x higher, if you can fuck a watermelon you will fuck it. Women don't even like men that much.
 
A fair amount of mildly anti-male stuff in this thread.

TheUltimateFixx said:
after a certain amount of time spent in women's company you notice some shit men don't seem to have to put up with ; or at least not to that extent.

Men put up with other shit. If you haven't been in a relationship with a woman, you're probably not going to pick up on it. Female toxicity is different than male toxicity. I'd take male toxicity any day of the week, personally. It's much simpler, less maddening and easier to deal with... High school boys will fight and call each other names, but high school girls are insidious and manipulative (towards boys and girls).

I'm not saying one is worse than the other, but I'm tired of this idea that men are the one's who need to work on shit. Females definitely have their fair share of issues.

Also not suggesting that you're saying otherwise. I know you're a man, but you're unlikely to experience the full spectrum of female toxicity if you're gay.

Because the majority of blokes who send unsolicited dick pics are really pushy and creepy with it. Like they haven't even so much as exchanged 10 words with that woman - sometimes none at all.

Why would anyone think somebody wants to see your genitals before there's been ANY indication she might be into you, or any flirting or whatever -? And plenty guys think it's fine to send out a pic of their dick and literally think that's a conversation starter, like wtf???!

Sending such a pic entirely uninvited is then also more often than not followed by a request, or rather an aggressive demand, for the woman to immediately send a picture of her relevant parts in return, and if she goes 'what the heck I don't send nudes to random strangers' the response tends to be.... unpleasant.

Keep in mind how many men act predatory towards women and you'll see why getting such pictures makes them uncomfortable.
It's different in the male /male dating scene because they all tend to be cock-obsessed, happy to wave theirs about and expecting to 'see the goods' before they even consider you. It's all a bit more direct. I'm not gonna think the guy is automatically a creep or a predator because dicks are pretty much the visual currency, and most gay blokes are happy to show and to see.
The types of men who think it's appropriate to send dick pics to some woman they barely know on the other hand usually come with a whole bouquet of red flags, that's why women feel like they're being harassed.

Men being men doesn't mean they're being predatory / creepy / etc. Men and women are different. Women walk around in sexualized outfits. Maybe I could say that is predatory / creepy?

I go to nudist festivals. Nothing wrong with seeing a penis. It's not scary. If you don't have hang ups, you shouldn't really care.

Lots of guys wanna fuck you; take it as a compliment, ladies.

xtcgrrrl said:
I think you’re one of the more empathetic and big-hearted people on here so no wonder you get mistaken for a woman, dude.

I sincerely don't think women have bigger hearts or are more empathetic... at all.

...

ITT: men are ugly, gross creepy predators and women are beautiful empathetic victims.

I call bullshit. Doesn't reflect my experience in the slightest.

I'm not triggered, I just have to defend men when shit like this goes on. I've been in social situations where women have declared that men are pigs and straight blokes actually fucking agree with them! WTF? Get your balls out of your wife's purse and stand up for your brothers.
 
ketquest said:

Too blurry. Post a video... with baby oil.

The thing is that women are not really into sex like men are, we have a sex drive which is 1000000000x higher

Nope. Git gud.
 
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@polarthedog

The thing is that women are not really into sex like men are, we have a sex drive which is 1000000000x higher, if you can fuck a watermelon you will fuck it. Women don't even like men that much.
Uhhh…I BEG to differ. I have an insanely high sex drive, I would venture to say I want it even more than my partner does (and he definitely wants it a lot, which is good! Mis-matched sex drives can kill a relationship)

But I’ve often told him “if you keep fucking me, I’ll keep cumming” cuz I seem to have virtually no outer limit as per how many orgasms I can have. It just depends on how much energy I have 😜
 
Uhhh…I BEG to differ. I have an insanely high sex drive, I would venture to say I want it even more than my partner does (and he definitely wants it a lot, which is good! Mis-matched sex drives can kill a relationship)

But I’ve often told him “if you keep fucking me, I’ll keep cumming” cuz I seem to have virtually no outer limit as per how many orgasms I can have. It just depends on how much energy I have 😜
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I swing both ways so i've seen both sides of the coin, and while this is mostly true, i have to say that the worst cases of homophobic behavior i ever experienced were from women. Guys might call you a faggot, but some women question your entire masculinity and refuse to take you seriously if you don't fit into their ideal of what a man is supposed to be.
Absolutely women can be toxic, because human nature is often just shit. The difference when it comes to sex stuff is that with men you have to worry a lot more about the 'might turn violent if rejected' possibility. Sure there's some mentally unhinged yandere type girls, but the potential for aggression / coercion is much higher with men.
I think that's why a lot of women are wary of sexual advances and quick (sometimes too quick) to label a man, because when a guy refuses to take no for an answer she can never be sure how much the situation will escalate.
This mostly happened when i was younger and a bit more effeminate, but i quite recently dated a woman who felt noticeably threatened by the fact that i'm bisexual, and i fucked her every time i saw her.
I'm bi and I get pretty equal-opportunity crap prejudices concerning my orientation. Xd
 
A fair amount of mildly anti-male stuff in this thread.



Men put up with other shit. If you haven't been in a relationship with a woman, you're probably not going to pick up on it. Female toxicity is different than male toxicity. I'd take male toxicity any day of the week, personally. It's much simpler, less maddening and easier to deal with... High school boys will fight and call each other names, but high school girls are insidious and manipulative (towards boys and girls).

I'm not saying one is worse than the other, but I'm tired of this idea that men are the one's who need to work on shit. Females definitely have their fair share of issues.

Also not suggesting that you're saying otherwise. I know you're a man, but you're unlikely to experience the full spectrum of female toxicity if you're gay.



Men being men doesn't mean they're being predatory / creepy / etc. Men and women are different. Women walk around in sexualized outfits. Maybe I could say that is predatory / creepy?

I go to nudist festivals. Nothing wrong with seeing a penis. It's not scary. If you don't have hang ups, you shouldn't really care.

Lots of guys wanna fuck you; take it as a compliment, ladies.



I sincerely don't think women have bigger hearts or are more empathetic... at all.

...

ITT: men are ugly, gross creepy predators and women are beautiful empathetic victims.

I call bullshit. Doesn't reflect my experience in the slightest.

I'm not triggered, I just have to defend men when shit like this goes on. I've been in social situations where women have declared that men are pigs and straight blokes actually fucking agree with them! WTF? Get your balls out of your wife's purse and stand up for your brothers.
ABSOLUTELY misandry is a thing!, and I get annoyed about it. Because it's not like anyone earns brownie points (or at least no-one should) by countering crappy behaviour and blanket prejudice with EQUALLY crappy behaviour and blanket prejudice. Doesn't make it any better or morally superior coming from the other side.

But this is exactly why I object to people making it this 'war of the sexes' thing ; like it's women AGAINST men (or vice versa). The sexes aren't fucking different SPECIES ffs, and it's talking as if they ARE that gets us radfems and incels (who can BOTH go die in a bog in my opinion, and preferably in each other's company).

How about we settle on humans with a concept of basic decency & respect VS arsehole morons.
 
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PS who votes for putting self-proclaimed 'nice guys' and self-proclaimed 'nice girls' on some island for the ultimate human zoo degenerate reality TV experience???!

I'D WATCH (though might be requiring copious amounts of weed to digest the collective insanity and ego-induced brain damage).
 
Happens to me occasionally. I hang around quite a few womenfolk and you don't have to actually BE a woman to sympathise, you just have to kinda observe....

... Also now that I think about it, it's sorta messed up that understanding a woman's viewpoint can get you mistaken for a woman. I've even had people online think I must be female for showing basic human empathy. I think society still needs a few improvements.
Same here! I'm sometimes mistaken for female (or gay, or trans...) just because I'm empathetic towards women.

I've never understood unsolicited dick pics. Just seems weird to me. Likewise, an unsolicited pussy pic sent to me would strike me as odd. I wouldn't be offended and I don't think pussies are ugly, but it just seems like a weird thing to do.

(edit) PS-- If it's supposed to be flirting, it's skipping ahead too quickly. The  first thing I'd be kissing are the lips on her face so let's start with that and then move on from there.
 
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Uhhh…I BEG to differ. I have an insanely high sex drive, I would venture to say I want it even more than my partner does (and he definitely wants it a lot, which is good! Mis-matched sex drives can kill a relationship)

But I’ve often told him “if you keep fucking me, I’ll keep cumming” cuz I seem to have virtually no outer limit as per how many orgasms I can have. It just depends on how much energy I have 😜

Ok buy exception does not make a rule. You might have above average sex drive, but the majority of women will fall in the middle of the bell curve. It's a biological fact.
 
The thing is that women are not really into sex like men are, we have a sex drive which is 1000000000x higher, if you can fuck a watermelon you will fuck it. Women don't even like men that much.
Not my experience personally.
Women are (rightfully, a lot of dudes are gross) a lot pickier about who they will sleep with, but I find that most women have equal or sometimes even higher sex drives than most men.
 
It's much simpler, less maddening and easier to deal with... High school boys will fight and call each other names, but high school girls are insidious and manipulative (towards boys and girls).
Oh, definitely. I'd rather have someone throw a punch at me if they don't like me, than having malicious rumours spread to third parties behind my back. Nobody's saying girls and women can't be horrible pieces of shit. Neither sex has a monopoly on asshattery.
I'm not saying one is worse than the other, but I'm tired of this idea that men are the one's who need to work on shit.
If you're talking about my comment, I specifically just said society as a whole needs some work if being empathetic as a man gets you automatically read as female. I do in fact think that both sexes are equally capable of empathy, it's a generic human trait after all, but women express it better usually because as a man you're taught to not show it, or else you're a 'wuss' and a softie or whatever.
I know you're a man, but you're unlikely to experience the full spectrum of female toxicity if you're gay.
I may be getting married to a dude, but I am in fact bisexual. And I socialize with both.
Men being men doesn't mean they're being predatory / creepy / etc. Me and women are different.
Nope ; but you're disregarding a particular factor of that difference, which is that the average man is physically stronger than the average woman. Therefore a woman has to be more wary.

Like what's the worst realistically that's gonna happen to me with a woman I don't fancy who wants to get touchy with me? She'll maybe try shove her tongue down my throat or her hands down my pants, and that's as far as it'll go because I'll tell her to fuck off and if she doesn't then I'll punch her in the face. A woman who encounters a man making unwanted advances has to worry about him not taking no for an answer and what might happen then.
Had a conversation with a mate about this the other week. He literally said what's the big problem because he'd just LOVE it if some woman would push her attentions on him (he's a bit shy in that department). I said sure if you think she's hot, but imagine you find her revolting AND she's strong enough to overpower you and make you have sex with her. He finally got it then.
 
Did I ever tell you about the girl I hooked up with one night and the following night, she sent me a pic of her vag all spread open, and it caught me off guard and it didn't look good so I never called her again

(True story)

I'm not so into sending pics like that

Like Ive never sent a girl a pic of my cock... It's kinda weird if you ask me but whatever
 
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