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Ugh that's right... I forgot. So sorry man. The women in NL are bottom of the barrel. So are the men, frankly. The few hot guys that I met while living there all either had hot wives or they were in and out of the province for work so probably had better options on the mainland.

Most of the women are obese and have karen hair. Or are dumb as post. There's also a weird amount of progressivism and virtue signaling among the single white women in St. John's... like way more than is necessary for a place so small and monoculture. The one black guy I knew in St. John's (I won't mention his name in case you know him lmao), he said that it was very easily for him to get work because everyone wanted to hire the token black guy to be representative. He said it was great for making money but he always wondered if they really liked him as a person or if it was just about him being a POC. NL is so racist, even their progressives are racist lol.

Ah yes progressive they love token ethnic people. As a Communist this makes me wanna vomit with rage. These people are fucking naive enough to think equality can be had under capitalism. There the same types that praise Trudeau.

Interestingly enough when i was in the psych ward there where 2 guys in there from former African Belgian colonies. The Condo and Rwanda. I was best friends with the guy from Rwanda his parents had fled the genocide so he had some generation trauma i think though he seemed like just a normal guy to me. Me him and a few other guys would always hot box the bathroom with weed smoke lolc and piss the nurses off it was fun lol.

The guy from the Congo in there slept with a lift on above his bed why i did not ask

Don't get me started on karens here man because there are more karens then non karens. It is sad.
 
Plenty of Fish was my site lol…..”daddies little girl” type girl next door. 2010 + met maybe 7-10 girls on there. 3 decent relationships 1.5 to 2 years dating each, a few 5 month courtships, sex after 3rd date or so….not sketchy girls, actually solid future wifey material but 3 in 10 were suitable

not sure its status as of now. My GF of 5 years now, I met on Plenty of Fish. Dated for 2 years, got a place together for 3 years now. Was a solid site for dating

e-harmony is a paid site…blah. Tinder is for hook ups….Grinder is for gay men

Plenty of Fish in Canada, ON …thank you for the many great girls I had the pleasure of seeing :)
 
Ah yes progressive they love token ethnic people. As a Communist this makes me wanna vomit with rage. These people are fucking naive enough to think equality can be had under capitalism. There the same types that praise Trudeau.

It's actually just neoliberalism in disguise. Notice how all the mega corporations have now adopted social justice/progressive language and symbols, including pride flags. So if you question their corrupt corporate capitalist ways or do an expose on their staff, they just call you a bigot who's targeting oppressed people and get you cancelled. Neoliberalism has found the trojan horse to silence free speech and dissent as the gateway into unregulated capitalism. This is the real game and the left is failing to realize it because they think the neoliberals are on their side. In reality they will be totally discarded once tyranny is obtained. I never thought I'd see the day that liberalism became pro-corporate. Of course, corporate education via the universities is to blame for this. Talk about the biggest bait and switch ever!

Interestingly enough when i was in the psych ward there where 2 guys in there from former African Belgian colonies. The Condo and Rwanda. I was best friends with the guy from Rwanda his parents had fled the genocide so he had some generation trauma i think though he seemed like just a normal guy to me. Me him and a few other guys would always hot box the bathroom with weed smoke lolc and piss the nurses off it was fun lol.

Funny you mention this... a few weeks before I was leaving (fleeing) NL because I didn't want to be trapped there by the vax passport shit, there was a guy drywalling the upstairs unit who got out of psych about a month earlier. He was seriously the most awake guy I met in my entire time in NL... totally aware of the bullshit, the limited nature of NLers, and was a natural born philosopher and deep thinker. Yet never left NL in his whole life. I felt kind of bad for the guy because his human condition would've probably done waaaay better outside of that province.

The guy from the Congo in there slept with a lift on above his bed why i did not ask

Don't get me started on karens here man because there are more karens then non karens. It is sad.

NL is karen central, I have never seen so many busybodies in my life.

When I first got to NL it was right before they locked down the province, and I had to do that 2 week quarantine shit. Anyway, a friend at the time would come and visit me but sit outside. After the first week, he just started coming inside. We had beers and watched TV etc. Get this though? After quarantine was over, his mom (who lives on the other side of town) grilled the fuck out of us for not obeying quarantine. At the house I was quarantined at, a neighbour saw my friend coming in and out, told her friend, and her friend knew his mom and told her. This was in St. John's, "the big city" of NL. His mom then shamed the fuck out of him and made him feel like he had embarrassed their whole family legacy lmao.

People there have nothing better to do. They are bored and basic AF. I'm so sorry you have to deal with it. There are some cool people though, you just gotta search. As for dating, I dunno. I'm gay and had a terrible time there. All the guys there are closeted and just want to have sex in the bushes in the park, like it's still 1960 or something. I do miss the nature and landscape though... it was just right there and you could walk to and be totally alone.
 
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I would live my life in the Twilight of ejaculation if I could. But alas
I am kind of partial to the dawning first light of ejaculation, the point before you think "oh fuck, why did I do that again?". But twilight is pretty deep.
 
i've had a few hook-ups (6-7?) and a few shortish-term relationships (3-4ish?) from tinder ok cupid and bumble. also some awful dates that went nowhere (probably about the same as hook-ups). just dont set your hopes too high, com off as desperate, and if you cant handle rejection (like suddenly being ghosted after chatting for weeks) i'd ski[ it.
i'd say suck it and see. it does feel a bit seedy sometims tbf. grindr sounds like a cakewalk if you like dudes.
 
@ Axe Battler, if you’re going to laugh at other people’s struggles with mental health, why don’t you make a post laughing at people with substance-use disorder while you’re at it?

Where did that happen? Or am I missing something here? His post in this thread seems friendly enough.

-GC
 
my own experience of dating apps in the last 10 years has been absolute dogshite

99% of the female profiles are either bots or girls trying to send you a link for their instagram/onlyfans

of the 1% from that, 99% don't work out and never lead to a date.

I swiped tinder for several years and got laid one time total, and it was with someone who I never considered dating seriously due to standards and such.

Overall, it was an exercise in frustration and just made me feel like an asshole. It really tests your self esteem as a man.

Dating online as a man is a ridiculously bad experience.

But I have a strong intuition that if you're in a rural area it would be a much better experience. In any half big city it is absolutely shit and just a way to extort money from lonely men.
I hate online dating, and I get plenty of attention as a woman. It is no better in a rural area ime, either.

Online dating is horrible. It leads to women becoming absurdly entitled and men feeling worthless. People need to be socialising in real life!
 
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