Yeah you’re not alone.
My parents said I was a “shy” child... I was literally afraid of other people, if I made eye contact with them I’d go beet red, the only friends I had were extroverts that adopted me.
While I’ve grown out of the blushing phase (sometime during high school), I haven’t grown out of the social anxiety- I can just hide it better. Now I’m that girl with a resting bitch face, deadpan, everyone just thinks I think I’m better than them. They say I’m intimidating (very ironic coming from someone with social anxiety hahaha).
Anyway in adulthood I obviously got properly diagnosed. I do therapy, I’m on meds (social anxiety isn’t my only diagnosis).
But ya... It’s horrible. My anxiety often manifests as irritation so I’m like constantly irritated with everything and everyone. That’s why I seek refuge alone at home, or talking to people on the internet instead. Of course, that tendency to be a loner just further convinced other people I think I’m too good for them.
I do coke to make myself more talkative with people. Otherwise I do drugs just to escape the never ending feelings. Feelings suck.
I dunno, I’m socially retarded, I don’t know what to do or say. I get reminded to ask people questions during conversation but I seem to be really bad at that... like, people only want to talk about superficial level stuff and I’ll ask them something deep and personal. Can’t help it, I don’t find hearing about people’s weekends, their spouse and children etc. interesting. What am I even supposed to do with that knowledge? Someone explain people to me.
Anyway I digress...