Sex with a Prostitute

[Mad_Grasa13]

Would y'all pay for sex? Would y'all fuck one under the influence of alc or narcotic etc?

 

[Erikmen]

I personally would always prefer to have sex sober or with a couple of beers or a glass of wine if that is possible, opiates and other drugs have always put sex in second place for me. However, I wouldn't pay for sex. I want to have sex with someone that wants me as well as I want her. Besides, in these days it's fairly 'easy' to have access to people who might like to go out with you. That's my opinion though. I'm sure there will be plenty of others.

 

[Mad_Grasa13]

You're absolutely right. I'm just curious and eager to hear from the community on what they have to say as well. Thanks for sharing Erikmen

 

[socko]

I think it is probably a good way for some guys to lose their virginity. It gets it out of the way and avoids the awkwardNess of first time s3x. The first time I had sex by choice was with a prostitute while high on iv cocaine. If I hadn't done that I probably wouldn't have been able to sleep with anyone I cared about later.

 

[theredgiant]

Paying for sex is for people who don't want to get caught cheating. Prostitutes don't want a relationship, they will never text or email or come to your house. All they want is the money and after they get paid that is the end of the transaction

 

[socko]

Some people prefer a no strings attached relationship to commit ing to someone. A girlfriend or wife costs a lot in terms of emotional and financial investment.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Nope. I have no desire to get an STD and I don't want to support the sexual trafficking and slavery of men and women as the majority of prostitutes are victims of being trafficked and sexual slavery and are forced into being prostitutes, or are forced in other ways or for other reasons.

There's no need at all to pay for sex since if you really want it you can easily find a compatible sexual partner who is also attractive to you in bars, dance clubs, or on any number of internet sites. I've had sex drunk and buzzed on 1-3 drinks before and I did not enjoy that so I have never had sex on other drugs.

 

[Erikmen]

Nope. I have no desire to get an STD and I don't want to support the sexual trafficking and slavery of men and women as the majority of prostitutes are victims of being trafficked and sexual slavery and are forced into being prostitutes, or are forced in other ways or for other reasons.

There's no need at all to pay for sex since if you really want it you can easily find a compatible sexual partner who is also attractive to you in bars, dance clubs, or on any number of internet sites. I've had sex drunk and buzzed on 1-3 drinks before and I did not enjoy that so I have never had sex on other drugs.

Well said.

 

[mrsnowygrainius]

i used to smoke a lot of crack which would make me uncomfortably horny so I went and had sex with lots of prostitutes... does it get any scummier?

OP- go to your local backpage, theres some on there but watch out for the 5-o

 

[socko]

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There's no need at all to pay for sex since if you really want it you can easily find a compatible sexual partner who is also attractive to you in bars, dance clubs, or on any number of internet sites. I've had sex drunk and buzzed on 1-3 drinks before and I did not enjoy that so I have never had sex on other drugs.

That might have been true 20 years ago, but with the obesity epidemic, times have changed. There is now a form of dating inflation. Women overrate themselves by at least 2 points in terms of attractiveNess.
What you say is only true in usa under 2 conditions : you are either handsome (8 out of 10 on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being tragically ugly and 10 being 4 standard deviations above average as in model beautiful ) or wealthy. Otherwise, the only free partners most men (with an average face, good clothes, and athletic and in shape no gunt) will find are obese and painfully unattractive ( 2 or 3 out of 10). I've worked in bars and seen it and experienced it. It is the norm in America. Europe is still as you say.

 

[theredgiant]

Nope. I have no desire to get an STD and I don't want to support the sexual trafficking and slavery of men and women as the majority of prostitutes are victims of being trafficked and sexual slavery and are forced into being prostitutes, or are forced in other ways or for other reasons.

There's no need at all to pay for sex since if you really want it you can easily find a compatible sexual partner who is also attractive to you in bars, dance clubs, or on any number of internet sites. I've had sex drunk and buzzed on 1-3 drinks before and I did not enjoy that so I have never had sex on other drugs.

There are women out there who have STDs who are not prostitutes. If anything prostitutes take more precaution than the average person because they are taking more risk.

 

[socko]

There are women out there who have STDs who are not prostitutes. If anything prostitutes take more precaution than the average person because they are taking more risk.

I agree.

Preist, not all prostitutes are the same. Some are independent and intelligent women (or men) who FREELY make business transactions. They are not all eastern European or Nigerian sex slaves. Unfortunately the legal status in some countries enables and encourages
Exploitation.

Exploitation: Have you boycotted Walmart and every industry that exploits workers and uses sweatshops? In the west, prostitutes have the potential to make a lot of money and retire from that situation. The same 8s not true for the slaves who sew Nikes for Walmart.

In some countries they are routinely checked and certified by the health department. Arguably, they are safer than a common bar slut.

Furthermore, sex workers provide an important service.

 

[Hurhel]

That might have been true 20 years ago, but with the obesity epidemic, times have changed. There is now a form of dating inflation. Women overrate themselves by at least 2 points in terms of attractiveNess.
What you say is only true in usa under 2 conditions : you are either handsome (8 out of 10 on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being tragically ugly and 10 being 4 standard deviations above average as in model beautiful ) or wealthy. Otherwise, the only free partners most men (with an average face, good clothes, and athletic and in shape no gunt) will find are obese and painfully unattractive ( 2 or 3 out of 10). I've worked in bars and seen it and experienced it. It is the norm in America. Europe is still as you say.

Obesity epidemic??
So fat people (women or men) are not deserving of sex and love?
Damm that's pretty pathetic and shallow to even go there! Not cool at all!

 

[socko]

In America, two thirds of the adult population are obese. one in six is dangerously overweight. Health professionals, the Center for Disease Control in fact, are officially calling it an obesity epidemic.

That's low of you. I never claimed fat peolpe are not deserving of love.

You're calling anybody who is not attracted to fat people shallow and pathetic. Nice.

Obesity epidemic??
So fat people (women or men) are not deserving of sex and love?
Damm that's pretty pathetic and shallow to even go there! Not cool at all!

Priest claimed in his post that it is easy for a man (I assume he is talking about the United States) to find a sex partner you are attracted to. I said specifically that it is not easy in the USA (but it is easy in Europe). Hooking up with somebody who is equal in attractiveness has become nearly impossible for average looking men ( rating from 4 to 7 on my scale) with athletic bodies in America. The reason is that the dating pool has shrunk drastically since the obesity epidemic began. Average looking women who remain in the dating pool are rating themselves out of the market. All things being equal, looks, physical fitness, style, a woman who scores a 5 will rarely hook up with a man who scores a 5. Instead, she will consistently go for men who score higher, say 7 and above. The only free women remaining for an average looking man to hook up with are significantly less attractive or are just fat. I don't know why somebody who does not take care of her body should be entitled to sex from somebody who works hard to take care of his own body. It's quite the double standard you and the Fat Acceptance crowd are endorsing. At the same time, demand for sex workers has increased drastically. I suspect this is why prostitution has made such a strong come back. The only exception is if the man is rich and flaunts his wealth. This only applies to America. It does not at all apply to Europe where the obesity epidemic has not yet spread full force.

 

[Moreaux]

In America, two thirds of the adult population are obese. one in six is dangerously overweight. Health professionals, the Center for Disease Control in fact, are officially calling it an obesity epidemic.

That's low of you. I never claimed fat peolpe are not deserving of love.

You're calling anybody who is not attracted to fat people shallow and pathetic. Nice.

Priest claimed in his post that it is easy for a man (I assume he is talking about the United States) to find a sex partner you are attracted to. I said specifically that it is not easy in the USA (but it is easy in Europe). Hooking up with somebody who is equal in attractiveness has become nearly impossible for average looking men ( rating from 4 to 7 on my scale) with athletic bodies in America. The reason is that the dating pool has shrunk drastically since the obesity epidemic began. Women who remain in the dating pool are rating themselves out of the market. The only exception is if the man is rich and flaunts his wealth.

This is beginning to sound a little redpill, but I have to agree. The inverse is true for women as well, at least in the South Eastern US. Trying to find a healthy partner is tough and only gets tougher with age. For those of you saying it's shallow to dismiss obese people from your dating prospects because they are obese...it's really not. People don't have the capacity to control who they are attracted to. If society remains obese than younger generations will become desensitized to obesity and it will no longer be an issue, but for those of us who were around when obesity wasn't the norm it is a problem and one that we simply have no control over.

 

[cLaTTeReD]

Me and my GF occasionally get an escort to join us. Only ever while using drugs.
its less time consuming that procuring someone who is willing and not paid for lol

 

[Pretty_Diamonds]

I wouldn't pay. I maybe would get paid.. LMAO.

Def. under the influence.

 

[socko]

I found that some of the essays in the red pill described the situation very well. I probably borrowed a little from their description, but I have been observing this distressing sociological phenomenon for years before I ever heard of them. The fact that they have so many followers and this MGTOW movement is so big is, I believe, happening for some of the same reasons. I dont remember what the letters of this acronym stand for, but MGTOW refers to men who have given up on having a significant other and who choose to remain single for the rest of their lives.

Anyway, it's ridiculous that people who have let themselves go still feel entitled to receive sex from people who work hard to keep their own bodies in top physical condition. Worse, they try to insult and shame fit people into having sex with them.

The obesity epidemic is going to be a disaster in terms of health care costs. That and the next generatoin will look like WallE with everyone depending on PowerChairs.

This is beginning to sound a little redpill, but I have to agree. The inverse is true for women as well, at least in the South Eastern US. Trying to find a healthy partner is tough and only gets tougher with age. For those of you saying it's shallow to dismiss obese people from your dating prospects because they are obese...it's really not. People don't have the capacity to control who they are attracted to. If society remains obese than younger generations will become desensitized to obesity and it will no longer be an issue, but for those of us who were around when obesity wasn't the norm it is a problem and one that we simply have no control over.

 

[RedLeader]

I look at myself as someone who is dedicated to personal development - career, really pushing lifting as far as it will go, finding self-acceptance, confidence and personal spirituality, and so on. And I look at how most of my downward spirals occured after romantic situations collapsed. I see a very rational argument for remaining emotionally disconnected from women for a long time going forward. Yes, I have moments when I feel lonely and crave companionship, but my life has led me to understand that fantasy and reality are very different.

But I still have a high sex drive and cravings. I'm no longer partying or have social paths through single women. I'm too busy with the above. I've been having sex with ex-girlfriends in more recent times, but that's not the best strategy going forward. I can see the argument for using professional services in these shoes, I just still would feel too shy and awkward to go through with it.

 

[augustaB]

I've paid for sex more times than I can remember.
I think that if you both treat each other with respect you can check the moralization at the door.
That said you need to go to properly established prostitutes, not kids off the streets or on junk.