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Sex or Drugs? Which is more gratifying to you and why?

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I'd have to go with drugs (my DOC being MS Contin). Yeah sex is great, an orgasm peaks for all of few seconds, but then everything is back to normal again and your man or woman rolls over and is done with you. Plus sex tends to get bland, infrequent, and less meaningful after you've been in a relationships for several years. Once the excitement of getting to know somebody is gone, its gone. Like chasing the dragon, chasing the spark of a budding relationship will forever be a chase for the love that was lost immediately after it was captured. From then on you only notice things you hate about eachother and start to question their loyalty. Also, if you feel that the person you love isn't reciprocating your feelings, you could be heartbroken beyond repair. Worst case scenario you could get cheated on, get a disease, and unwanted pregnancy could result. Masturbation gets boring after a while too, especially if you're doing it mostly because the other person is rarely in the mood. Drugs, however, won't become less attracted to you and it won't deprive you from getting your fill as long as its available and you got the cash. They won't hurt your feelings or cheat on you. They don't need reciprocation. In my experience, they are far more reliable when it comes to cheering me up and making me feel better in general. They are there to soothe my emotional pain when my significant other makes me feel worthless, unattractive, and unloved. I don't need to prove my worth to drugs. I'm always good enough for them and drugs are never "not in the mood". Maybe I'm pathetic for preferring drugs over sex, but sex/love (or maybe lack of it?) has caused me about as much emotional distress as opiate withdrawal. In other words, I can depend more on drugs for my emotional support than sex and so-called "true love"...whatever the fuck that is. If you get sober, drugs will ALWAYS be there waiting for you to come back. You can't always say the same thing about a significant other, if even if you do prove your worth to them by getting clean.
 
drugs vs sex....I agree with you


drugs vs love...thats a tough one.

because highs fade, your physical and mental health worse the more you do drugs...and the less you do them the shittier you feel when you're not high on them and waiting to use again. drugs are goldiggers, they are only there when you have money and a job.

Lets say you get struck by a car and can never walk again. Sure you might get drugs from the doctor but not enough to work to get recreational amounts of drugs...but if you have true love, your partner will be there by your side keeping you company in your life spent in bed mostly....and giving you money to buy drugs!
 
Yea drugs. I have never had much of a drive to have sex all throughout my life. I have sex when the opportunity arises but I've rarely been inclined to go out and make it happen.

Don't get me wrong, sex feels great and drugs don't substitute for sex. But I do get more out of using drugs then I do get out of having sex.

I agree with LucidSDreamr: love vs drugs is a much more difficult comparison. If I had to choose between love or drugs I don't know if I could choose.
 
Both would be awesome, but if it was between true love being shared equally or an unlimited supply of your drug of choice while being immune to the legal system I'd still have to say drugs because I'm in love with somebody right now who doesn't seem to feel as strongly about me as I do for him, but at least opiates make up for the emotional neglect. I don't know what its like to have your feelings truly reciprocated. I never got a strong sense of love from him to be completely honest. I feel more like a roommate that pays half of the rent/bills and gets laid from time to time. :(
 
Sexworker said:
can i have both?
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That's what I was going to say. There can be both a place for sex and drugs in your life. It's just a matter of finding the right balance.

For me i like to have sex regularly say at least once every 5 days or preferably twice in a 7 day period but if i can't manage to organise a girl to have sex with i can make do with masturbating on my own at home to deal with what ever sexual tension i am feeling. To be honest i have a very high sex drive and the need to cum or orgasm on frequent and regularly occasion is very high priority for me. In my teens and 20's i was that highly strung sexual speaking i would masturbate almost daily if not having sex or getting a hand job off a female. Now that i am 37 and my finances have improved as well as my budgeting skills i can on average afford to organise sex with a female every 3-4 days and being more settled and mature, I no longer need to masturbate like sex crazed madman at every opportunity on the non sex days. The best way i can explain it is if i get sex or a hand job off a female on a Monday and i know there will be an opportunity to have a sexual encounter with a female on the Thursday i will be able to relax and not worry about wanting to masturbate as i know i will shortly get to shoot a load out, but if i have a sexual encounter with a female on a Monday and i know for sure i will not be able to have another sexual encounter with a female till the Monday or Tuesday a week later i will masturbate perhaps once or twice in the week between sexual encounters.

As you can see sex and the opportunity to cum is a fairly important aspect of my lifestyle and the idea of going weeks or months without a sexual encounter with a female or at least jerking off to combat sexual tension is not something i would want to entertain but using drugs is also something i like to do frequently and regularly if the right opportunities present themselves. Aside from alcohol my drugs of choice are methamphetamine and/or heroin. Living in Australia and not being prepared to be a IV user of drugs means there is considerable costs attached to using meth and heroin especially if i wish to use both meth and heroin in one 24 hour period to get a UP and DOWN feeling. If money was no object i would happily smoke 300 mg of meth in one session over a late night and then 12 to 16 hours later when coming down snort 500 mg of China white heroin to help deal with the come down and kick the next day on in a enjoyable fashion. I know where can't name prices on bluelight but for those familiar with insanely expensive drug scene in Australia will know 3 points of meth and half a gram of heroin doesn't come cheap in Australia so as a drug user i often need to compromise and either use one or the other when it comes to meth or heroin but if i really do desire to use both meth and heroin a more modest amount can still be enjoyable. For example 150 to 200 mg of meth at night followed by 200 mg of China white heroin the next day is plenty to have a well rounded Up and down recreational high over an extended day and night period.

For me i find the self gratification from sex as high as from drugs it's just i will at the most use drugs one a week or more often than not once every two to three weeks due to the cost and residual side affects from drug use. Where as with wanting regular sex i can some times organise 3-4 sexual encounters in a 7 day week period if i am lucky. For me organising sex is so much easier, less time consuming and more available to fit into my working week and routine. Prostitution is legal and tolerated where i live so sexual services can be quite affordable to purchase especially if you are only after a quickie or massage with hand job. naturally a modest dose of meth or heroin isn't that much different in cost to purchasing sex but you would be truly surprised how cheap a quick massage and hand job can be purchased for in some of the shops in Melbourne and Sydney. it's just driving to a brothel is far easier less time consumer compared to organising drugs and there is the missed financial opportunity cost in that if you use meth you need to organise the day after off work to recover so that is a possible days wages you are missing out on due to your drug habit. I know sex is a short lived and brief moment of pleasure and as far as most bang for you buck smoking 100 to 200 mg of Meth or even IVing 50 mg to 75 mg of meth or heroin can be very satisfying and enjoyable but there is always consequences from using drugs. I know when i use meth i will not be myself for a few days and it takes time to bounce back to my usual self. Where as when enjoying casual sex they're are very few side affects as long as you wear a condom and keep your emotions in check to be realistic and not develop a unhealthy obsession with a girl.

Overall i can't split my desires for sex Vs drugs and i could never choose one over the other but i most surely will enjoy both activities while i can afford to organise them. IMO using the services of a good sex worker is very similar in a lot of ways to using a good quality drug, if pleasurable and fun both a good sex worker and high quality drug will be a memorable experience and leave you wanting to come back for more. From what i've heard the chemical reaction in the human brain from having sex Vs using a drug like Meth are quite a like. Both activities release a rush of dopamine in your brain. For those unfamiliar with dopamine it is a chemical the human brain naturally produces that basically creates and releases the feeling of pleasure for people. So it goes without saying for some people the act of sexual intercourse is in the same league as using methamphetamine as far as self gratification.

As for which is more enjoyable and has more self gratification to me it's impossible for me too say but i will say if i was to be honest and truthful and confess to have either a sex addiction or drug addiction i would have to say i have been both a sex addict and drug addict a one point or another in the past. It's just currently my sex life and level of drug use is under control. It's just a question of how much longer i can afford to partake in my vice activities as sooner or later i will acquire more financial responsibilities and it will be necessary to curb my current level of personal entertainment spend. It's not that in the future i will have to completely cut out drugs and sex workers, things hopefully won't get that bad i will just need to be more committed to setting a budget and not spending everything that is in my pocket or bank account. maintaining a healthy and adequate level of savings to handle household and automotive expenses will be my main challenge seeing as i am going to inherit a house and i need to run a car to do my job. But i'm getting way ahead of myself, i should have another good 10 years of carefree living. Heck there is no guarantee in life i may be dead in 10 years so let the good times roll in case god doesn't show. One good think about having a recreational drug habit and a thing for sex workers is that i have learnt to live quite frugal and mindful with my day to day living expenses.

In conclusion sex is good drugs are good. Why need to choose between the two.
 
wow Im too surprised that so many people choosed drugs over sex. No for me sex is incomparable to anything.Biggest pleasure on earth. And I don't agree that sex only makes you feel good while it lasts. Good mood is what follows some good sex.
 
bomber said:
wow Im too surprised that so many people choosed drugs over sex. No for me sex is incomparable to anything.Biggest pleasure on earth. And I don't agree that sex only makes you feel good while it lasts. Good mood is what follows some good sex.
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once you get on opiates you could really give a fuck about sex
 
Depends on how hot she is (don't call me sexist or whatever please, I respect women and think they can do any job a man can. I also make it clear when I just want meaningless casual sex and make sure they feel the same) and what drug and ROA you're talking about. 90% of the time I'd choose sex but given the choice between a 5 out of 10 girl and a shot of morphine (or equally strong or stronger opioid) I'd take the opioid. Sorry if I offended any females, I'm really not a bad man.
 
LucidSDreamr said:
once you get on opiates you could really give a fuck about sex
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Yup... COMPLETELY killed my libido for years. Literally didn't give a shit about even masturbating... The only time I would actually orgasm was in my sleep, I started having wet dreams. Something I had NEVER experienced me whole life lol. Guess your body literally NEEDS that release.
 
King_Willie said:
Yup... COMPLETELY killed my libido for years. Literally didn't give a shit about even masturbating... The only time I would actually orgasm was in my sleep, I started having wet dreams. Something I had NEVER experienced me whole life lol. Guess your body literally NEEDS that release.
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Yeah but that's not like opiates are better than sex...more like opiates kill the sex drive while you are high.
 
LucidSDreamr and Someone Who Is Me, I gotta agree. Only in my case I'd rather have morphine ER than H (I love a lengthy high, and I've managed to avoid using needles).
 
I'm a daily opioid user, but I would still rather take a tiny maintenance dose and fuck my beautiful woman. I don't know how my sex drive isn't obliterated from years of opioid use tbh though. Maybe love is a better drug blah blah.

My girlfriend is a real life sex freak (not trying to brag [kinda]) and does things to me I've only seen in porn lol. She also takes care of me in every other possible way she can so I'd have to say she wins over drugs.
 
Drugs for sure. B/c with my DOC (heroin), you get an immediate high. I don't shoot dope anymore, but I do have a script for a whole bunch of Oxy 20 mg IR per month. They work quite nicely.
 
I was insatiable until 12 years ago when i met my ol' man. He is 8 yrs older than I am and has a lower sex drive than me. Its been almost a year since our last encounter. Sex has become less important to me due to our slow decline to celibacy. We still cuddle and tell each other we love one another. Also due to a hysterectomy sex has become very painful because of my man's penis size. So honestly I will take the drugs over sex. God I use to LOVE sex. At least I have a substitute. Lol
 
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