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Sex Drive ?

ErosEgirl said:
I love sex toys! I’m Japanese and there’s a pretty big culture around sex toys here ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I don’t find them to be just an extension of my hand. Like, they’re totally different feelings ! Plus I use them with my lovers so it’s not just a solo thing for me. Idk!
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They are certainly a feature of Japanese porn - I’ve yet to see a video where the man doesn’t give the girl a good go-over with a toy. Personally I jump past those bits as well as the weird bits with the men in wrestling masks. Take those two things out and Japanese porn is perfection.
 
Atelier3 said:
They are certainly a feature of Japanese porn - I’ve yet to see a video where the man doesn’t give the girl a good go-over with a toy. Personally I jump past those bits as well as the weird bits with the men in wrestling masks. Take those two things out and Japanese porn is perfection.
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Perfection?
 
@Lizzy1Fair

I actually didn't knew about ''The Royals'', I gotta watch this show. It's worth? Can you elaborate a bit if you don't mind? Ty, doll.
 
Lizzy1Fair said:
Hey... that's good you're clean!!! Good job. Do you have someone that you can be with?
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My wife the women i love we been together since high school. That would be enough for most not me. Cheated all through high school years of crank and cocaine use . Only heroin brought it down and i loved it. I can have sex with my wife and still knock one out in shower 10 mins later . I wont cheat on her now after the years of abuse she was still there by my side. Im to embaressed to go to the doctors about it
 
yubacity said:
My wife the women i love we been together since high school. That would be enough for most not me. Cheated all through high school years of crank and cocaine use . Only heroin brought it down and i loved it. I can have sex with my wife and still knock one out in shower 10 mins later . I wont cheat on her now after the years of abuse she was still there by my side. Im to embaressed to go to the doctors about it
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for some people it's an addiction; true real problem. Anything can be really. & I'm pretty amazed with your wife staying with you through all of that heartache. I know people that put up with that, i've never been able to.
Is it a problem... the sex drive? Do you make bad decisions because of it?
 
Lizzy1Fair said:
for some people it's an addiction; true real problem. Anything can be really. & I'm pretty amazed with your wife staying with you through all of that heartache. I know people that put up with that, i've never been able to.
Is it a problem... the sex drive? Do you make bad decisions because of it?
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My wife is my rock I have kept every vow to my wife but the one that says no cheating. We do love each other so much and we have a great sex life even on heroin I would make sure her needs were met even though I do not feel like it. But I like coke or crank sex where you both on it and going all night. I would never do that to her we make love. She won't put up with another affair the last one devastated her I promised her. Plus after 13 years on the gear i dont think I could manage all night anymore think those memories are all I got now.
 
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yubacity said:
My wife is my rock I have kept every vow to my wife but the one that says no cheating. We do love each other so much and we have a great sex life even on heroin I would make sure her needs were met even though I do not feel like it. But I like coke or crank sex where you both on it and going all night. I would never do that to her we make love. She won't put up with another affair the last one devastated her I promised her. Plus after 13 years on the gear i dont think I could manage all night anymore think those memories are all I got now.
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I actually dont know what crank is. I'll have to do a search and see what it is. But yeah, being faithful to your wife is the right thing to do, it will make the relationship stronger and she'll be able to trust you more as time goes on. I think it takes time to earn back trust when there's been betrayal. I have someone in my family who is a perpetual cheater. It's so bad with the disrespect that he openly tells her what he is doing and she just needs to deal with it. He talks about it like it's no big deal. Don't you think when it's gotten to that point where there's no respect or regard for the person being cheated on that the 2 people should call it quits? They've been together for over 38 years, but he's probably cheated with a few dozen woman over the years. So dysfunctional and the abuse is really bad there. But what do you think? There isn't and has not been any growth between these 2 in so long and the disrespect is horrendous. what do you think? Do you think it's worth it to not divorce and stick it out for financial reasons?
 
Lizzy1Fair said:
Do any of you have an issue with being horny all the time? Even if i'm not thinking about anything sexual, my body is. It is effecting my days. Don't ask me if I have tried masturbation... of course I do and it doesn't make it go away or even drop to a lower level.
FRUSTRATED!
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24/7. It’s really annoying. I can’t go out in public without brazenly staring at any mildly attractive person that walks by.
 
Lizzy1Fair said:
I actually dont know what crank is. I'll have to do a search and see what it is. But yeah, being faithful to your wife is the right thing to do, it will make the relationship stronger and she'll be able to trust you more as time goes on. I think it takes time to earn back trust when there's been betrayal. I have someone in my family who is a perpetual cheater. It's so bad with the disrespect that he openly tells her what he is doing and she just needs to deal with it. He talks about it like it's no big deal. Don't you think when it's gotten to that point where there's no respect or regard for the person being cheated on that the 2 people should call it quits? They've been together for over 38 years, but he's probably cheated with a few dozen woman over the years. So dysfunctional and the abuse is really bad there. But what do you think? There isn't and has not been any growth between these 2 in so long and the disrespect is horrendous. what do you think? Do you think it's worth it to not divorce and stick it out for financial reasons?
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How you doing . Crank was big in the Californian central valley in the early 90s its crystals little less pure brother. We used to snort or smoke it the se on it was so good. I never cheated in the way your family member did I never threw it in my wife's face or talked about it. That is the biggest disrespect my good mate would do it like that. In the end, that way ends in tears its no respect to his wife. When I did cheat I justified it by thinking that that was just dirty sex something I respect my wife too much to do to her. The reason there has been no growth in your family member's marriage is because the way he does it how can his wife respect him he doesn't respect her. In the end cheating, whatever way in the face or discreetly cannot let a relationship grow because of trust a fundamental part of a union between two people. I think about cheating all the time still but don't act now. During my recovery when I was in a bad way and I was in the UK alone I thought my wife may have been cheating she was not but my mind was fucked. The thought of her with another man drove me crazy. I now know how my wife must have felt its the worst feeling in the world and for the first time, it hit me what I must have put her through. There is no justifying cheating it hurts the person you love the most and the marriage is not going to be strong as it should be. I would rather go back on the gear then cheat on my wife again she deserves more. We only get one life so its not worth staying together for financial reasons love and respect is the biggest thing in a relationship and your family members or my discreet way is not showing any respect to a person who is your life partner trust is everything
 
yubacity said:
How you doing . Crank was big in the Californian central valley in the early 90s its crystals little less pure brother. We used to snort or smoke it the se on it was so good. I never cheated in the way your family member did I never threw it in my wife's face or talked about it. That is the biggest disrespect my good mate would do it like that. In the end, that way ends in tears its no respect to his wife. When I did cheat I justified it by thinking that that was just dirty sex something I respect my wife too much to do to her. The reason there has been no growth in your family member's marriage is because the way he does it how can his wife respect him he doesn't respect her. In the end cheating, whatever way in the face or discreetly cannot let a relationship grow because of trust a fundamental part of a union between two people. I think about cheating all the time still but don't act now. During my recovery when I was in a bad way and I was in the UK alone I thought my wife may have been cheating she was not but my mind was fucked. The thought of her with another man drove me crazy. I now know how my wife must have felt its the worst feeling in the world and for the first time, it hit me what I must have put her through. There is no justifying cheating it hurts the person you love the most and the marriage is not going to be strong as it should be. I would rather go back on the gear then cheat on my wife again she deserves more. We only get one life so its not worth staying together for financial reasons love and respect is the biggest thing in a relationship and your family members or my discreet way is not showing any respect to a person who is your life partner trust is everything
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Hey.. thanks for the reply. I'm good besides the fact that tomorrow is a holiday and i dont like holidays much anymore. I find that they are hard for me yeah, I don't like them much. All the people that made holidays special are dead, so it's hard not having them. Tomorrow will come and go and then there's Christmas that I love to celebrate because of Christ and what Christmas stands for, but the other part of it is sad for me.
How are you?
and to add to what you wrote, the foundation of their relationship started bad. There's certain situations that you need to walk away from because you don't want to have any part in the direction that relationship goes in. You say goodbye and if he breaks it off and divorces anyway, he can't blame/resent and hate you later in life. Also, everything we put out will come back to us. I believe that we reap what we sow. splitting a marriage that has a baby on the way. Like, that's how low this woman went and she puts all the blame on him. So, yeah if someone is married, I wouldn't touch that. If they are married with children or a child on the way, NO. just plain no. I think from the guilt that he has from leaving his wife and cheating and all that, it's made him unable to face himself to forgive himself and ask God for forgiveness. I know that the affairs continue and i have no idea why she stays. She is a tortured soul if you ask me. Her words were "he crushes my soul". They are both vile and deserve each other
 
I hate holidays now since been clean. Holidays to me were times to do drugs get into the party spirit. Now it's time to stay home watch Netflix because there too many temptations outside the home. I never messed with married women its a low move to mess a family up. That's the reason I won't try it with my wife's good friend in the uk. Your family member's marriage is in name only she resents him he does not respect her it will most probably end first way out she finds acceptable. My wife and me we do have a deep love. We have been together since we were 15 and I not cheated in 14 years but the thought back now im of the gear.
 
yubacity said:
I hate holidays now since been clean. Holidays to me were times to do drugs get into the party spirit. Now it's time to stay home watch Netflix because there too many temptations outside the home. I never messed with married women its a low move to mess a family up. That's the reason I won't try it with my wife's good friend in the uk. Your family member's marriage is in name only she resents him he does not respect her it will most probably end first way out she finds acceptable. My wife and me we do have a deep love. We have been together since we were 15 and I not cheated in 14 years but the thought back now im of the gear.
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Yes... I hear thatabout the temptations. I used to have to drink like 2 nice full glasses of wine just to be around certain family members. It was the only thing that made it tolerable.
And no, she'll never... never ever leave him.
 
Lizzy1Fair said:
right. Tbat's your chemistry, not mine. I use opiates daily for about 2 years now and have a raging sex drive. t wasn't always like this. For a short time I am remembering that I didn't have a sex drive. short period of time. I had a testosterone level of 2! It's the hormone replacement.. most definitely my testosterone level which is stilll not what it should be, but it's not below 10 now.
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Pff 2 years ? What are you new?
 
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