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quitting masturbation is harder than drugs

atara said:
Lol you’re supposed to have a sex drive. You’re not supposed to want drugs. It’s normal and healthy to stop wanting drugs. It’s not normal or (usually) healthy to stop wanting sexual stimulation. Of course when you’re addicted to drugs the desire to get high might be stronger than the desire to masturbate. But one of those is a normal desire which you can ignore if you want and one of them is an abnormal desire that you shouldn’t have. Drug addiction is supposed to go away, sexuality isn’t.
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Addiction is not supposed to go away. In fact, your body and brain come to believe you NEED that substance to survive and function (which is sometimes true) and will do everything it can to keep you using. Withdrawal is basically your body screaming at you to use again.
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
Addiction is not supposed to go away. In fact, your body and brain come to believe you NEED that substance to survive and function (which is sometimes true) and will do everything it can to keep you using. Withdrawal is basically your body screaming at you to use again.
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Cancer doesn't always go away either, but it isn't supposed to be there! Addiction -- or rather, the desire for a drug -- is an unnatural desire that your brain "should" not express. That desire can be nearly permanent and totally harmless -- like a dented car -- but it still isn't normal. The sex drive is normal. That's an important difference IMHO.
 
atara said:
Cancer doesn't always go away either, but it isn't supposed to be there! Addiction -- or rather, the desire for a drug -- is an unnatural desire that your brain "should" not express. That desire can be nearly permanent and totally harmless -- like a dented car -- but it still isn't normal. The sex drive is normal. That's an important difference IMHO.
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I never said a sex drive isn't normal...of course it is. In fact the whole point of my posting on this topic was on why it is a bad idea (for men, mostly) to stop masturbating.
 
I don't know why people guilt out about masturbation so much, do what you want, if you don't like what you are doing then change. This is normal for me.
I'm getting ready to go fuck my ass with bubba, my wifes big dildoe. She is in bed so its time to smoke pot, then a little butt play and porn. And in case your wondering I don't neglect her. I eat her pussy daily. She is 57 and I am 64 and we are both sex addicts with each other. I love retirement.

wallywogs said:
I love jerking off, I do it lots. I like it but if you dont like it then as others suggest cut back. But dont base that decision on what you think norms are. Sometimes one just needs to admit they are a wanker and dig it. #nowankguilt
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wallywogs said:
I don't know why people guilt out about masturbation so much, do what you want, if you don't like what you are doing then change. This is normal for me.
I'm getting ready to go fuck my ass with bubba, my wifes big dildoe. She is in bed so its time to smoke pot, then a little butt play and porn. And in case your wondering I don't neglect her. I eat her pussy daily. She is 57 and I am 64 and we are both sex addicts with each other. I love retirement.
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A funny old thread to resurrect but I guess it’s important for everyone to be reminded that masturbation is healthy and natural and that ejaculations are vital to prostate health.

Also that old people eat pussy just like everybody else.
 
My addiction has historically been drug fueled sex.

It's hard to quit drugs when we are so used to.. Extremely pleasurable experiences.

Very hard.

IDGAF about masturbation alone, though.
 
madness00 said:
Huh?

Dude i masturbate a lot i don't really seek out sex. Yet i range from 0-4 times a day. Very mood dependant.
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Just sayin’ - for lots of people masturbation is their only hope for or source of sexual pleasure. It’s a positive and healthy thing.

You are pretty lucky in the sex department (I get the same numbers when on a roll but I bet yours cost a lot less 😂). But was masturbation a bigger factor for you when you were mething?
 
w01fg4ng said:
Do you really think the average Gen Z'er could find the clitoris?
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My generation didn’t need to know because most women growing up in the 80s gave you navigation directions which you followed if you wanted to get your end away.

For 8 years my now ex-wife flat out refused me entry not just until I’d given the clitoris a going over but brought on the fireworks as well. No quickies to help daddy’s stress levels in that house I can tell you.
 
Atelier3 said:
Just sayin’ - for lots of people masturbation is their only hope for or source of sexual pleasure. It’s a positive and healthy thing.

You are pretty lucky in the sex department (I get the same numbers when on a roll but I bet yours cost a lot less 😂). But was masturbation a bigger factor for you when you were mething?
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Right - i agree - just didn't know what you were saying.

Yeah man the only time i didn't get off on meth was when shooting up in public.

Coke.. Even weed.. Love to jerk.
 
Atelier3 said:
No quickies to help daddy’s stress levels in that house I can tell you.
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Jerking off, like sex, doesn't have to be a quickie.

Some guys like to do this thing called "edging." It's something you can do either alone or while having sex. To edge, all you have to do is come close to cumming, but don't actually cum. I don't like doing it a lot because I find it frustrating, but I'll sometimes only edge once or twice, because I do like the build up to the release it creates. The orgasm is noticeably better just from a single "edge". Doing it more than a couple times is just annoying in my opinion.
 
w01fg4ng said:
Jerking off, like sex, doesn't have to be a quickie.

Some guys like to do this thing called "edging." It's something you can do either alone or while having sex. To edge, all you have to do is come close to cumming, but don't actually cum. I don't like doing it a lot because I find it frustrating, but I'll sometimes only edge once or twice, because I do like the build up to the release it creates. The orgasm is noticeably better just from a single "edge". Doing it more than a couple times is just annoying in my opinion.
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I don’t like to discuss my sexual practices in public but I confess I am very familiar with edging. It is almost unavoidable for sexualised meth users who can get themselves right up to the finish line but never all the way over it for hours on end without it becoming boring or tedious. I recently had the unfortunate experience of being only able to edge without ever finishing for 4 days straight even with no drugs after a big party. That was very frustrating but the explosion at end of day 4 was memorable.
 
Yes I'm familiar with the stims and jerking popularity but I never got into it myself.

Quitting jerking off is easy when in a relationship but it's not like I stop jerking it. In my younger days I once jerked off 18 times in about 30 minutes but if I'm being honest it was only to see if I could do it. I didn't get any enjoyment out of it past the 3rd orgasm or so (diminishing returns). Only on weed no stims.

I only do it once a week or so now. I don't really care that much about people's masturbation habits and I've never had a problem with the my own frequency of use.
 
Edging produces more "impressive" results I guess but doing it too long is quite underwhelming ime. The actual release doesn't feel as intense.
 
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