Psycho Girlfriend Behaviors

[User Name Here]

that doesn't exist, its not a mutual decision...

Okay, I say the following based on very little information but usually if you're with someone who won't "let" you break up with them, chances are that person is pretty damn crazy. With that being said, this isn't necessarily advice for you but for anyone involved with a sick person.

Restraining orders are your friend. They're hard to get because you have to have a lot of legitimate evidence that the person is a physical or mental threat and the judge will want solid proof, but they're worth it. I had to get one against my ex because he wouldn't "let" me break up with him. Even though I called it quits he would show up everywhere I was and act as if he was my boyfriend still. He would even show up at my house in the middle of the night, break in, and stand over me before waking me up. Once I got enough witnesses and evidence I was able to take out a three year long restraining order. He was admitted into a mental hospital shortly thereafter for breaking it and it was either that or jail (he was clearly off in the head, normally they would just arrest the person).

Seriously though. Don't let someone else control your life. That's stupid. I know it's hard when people are psychotic and controlling, but you need to do everything you can to end this because it's not fair to you and it can get really dangerous with people like that.

As far as my ex goes, our story ended well. We didn't have any contact for many years and during that time I moved far, far away so he had no choice but to move on. He found someone else and now he's married and seems happy. The restraining order lapsed several years ago and he wrote me a long letter apologizing. In it he told me that he was extremely sick but even then there was no excuse for his behavior. He apologized for affecting my life in such a negative way and explained how badly he still felt for everything he put me through. It was a beautiful letter. We're obviously not friends or anything, but I would say we're on good terms now.

This can't always happen but sometimes it does. If you truly care about yourself and this girl, you will do both yourselves a favor and nix that relationship immediately. Obviously she can't handle any contact with you so don't have anything to do with her for several years. Chances are she'll move on and maybe you two can be friends again one day if you still care about her enough to want a friendship. It's for the best, really.

 

[RJW46]

I'm not sure I'm posting on the correct thread..I met a doctor in California on Christian mingle..I was in Texas n we seem to hit it off perfectly & we both described our faith & what we were & were not capable of..we met Jan 2014 online on CM..we had agreed we wud not ruin our beginning by sex..

I flew to San Diego & fought her off the first nite then I had a couple drinks and was completely at her mercy...I cud of kept saying no but she wud drop to her knees & pull me out & milk every last drop from me..she was perfectly satisfied with this only..I am 57 & never had a woman of this assertiveness & skills..She went on to feed on me & claimed to fall deeply in love & that I was everything she was looking for..When I wud feel we needed to back off n get back into our faith she wud complain saying look if this is how our sex Life is gonna b once we get married then she wud hav to rethink it..When this woman gets turned on u cud call in the fire dept & she wud drop to her knees and svc every one of them..she lied about having children I get to her house & she has 35/26 yr old men she has emasculated to point al they do is play video games & smoke dope & contribute zero to household..

I was raised al diff that everyone had to play part of the team work..they hate ground I walk on because I told her they at least need to b doing ther laundry & dishes..she is so manipulated they wud tel her mom were not doing it because we know rick came up withthis unususl rule..between both of them they weigh 750 lbs..This woman has a ferocious appitite for sex..I asked her to marry me to try to make it right wat we were doing.We both were supposedly madly in love..

Wel the wedding got cancelled because of the boyzz n I were fighting so much..we went on to San Diego anyway since we had rooms at the historic hotel on Coronado beach..she had too many marguritas and passed out after giving her al I cud plus the extra prothethic we bot together at hustlers porn store the size of my forearm but she was strong & healthy..I had to go back to Texas 6 months after our engagement and at this time I had jus returned a month or so..I had been suspicious her carrying her phone everywhere so to protect my heart I figured out her passcode n read her emails that nite all nite of her & the guys she wud go on hikes with and the details of her sexual sexcapade on mother natures trail & then calling me within minutes of swallowing his cum..& praying with me..I cried all nite leaning of this sexual psychopath I was in love with..I some how stayed n Gods grace n had decent wk end but waited TIL The Tuesday after memorial wk end to start asking her if something was goin on..she has history of screwing married men because she didn't hav to hav the relationship of the care of these men..

Bottom line is she cheated on me the first 6 mo of our engagement n lied to me 38x and it took 21 days for her to come clean..I shud hav known she even took me on hike with one of the guys and his oblivious wife for the guy to b rude to me..them I'm sure laughing inside probably I'm same place they wud hav sex at..when this woman wud give head she took great pride in building this monument & if u didn't get off she wud cry??? Then the situation got worse with her sons and I and they left to say they weren't coming home until I was gone..I said omg sugar u got the best opportunity to cal ther blufff right now n they wud come crawling bac giving me the family meeting I had wanted since we had gotten together..the oldest wud get jealous seeing us kiss..He had to hav his big mouth kisses at nite r he didn't sleep well and got good morning kisses also..Wen I thot she wud hav my bac since I pulled me 5W 25 hrs from Texas jus for it to b a sex den to satisfy her ferocious appitite..instead of calling ther bluff she told them to meet her at the bank n she wud get them money for food & get me to leave asap..even tho I had fixed everything around her house she said I had to get off property??

She flippingly dropped me like hot rock..I've never known a woman with the ferocious appitite for her own pleasures.i was beginning to find out I was preyed upon on CM by an actual sexual psychopath..I suspect incest because no woman wud put up with them tellin her if she pushed them any harder to get out that they never wanted to see her face again..she wud believe them..Of course I wud say cal ther fat A__ bluffs.we r no longer engaged but everytime I make up my mind to move on she can't stand it..she reels me back in..

I honestly wasn't aware of theses predators at all but she doesn't hav the emotional capacity to b in true love..she preys on married men r men she can use up chew up & spit out with no emotional hurt..I really need mental therapy to get over this monster but trying to meet someone else to at least rebound from her n move on..do I hav her pegged or wats ur opinion..I do forgive her but can't forget her praying with me with stomach full..most DISPICTABLE situation I hav ever been in..

I even thot about taking my life because I had told her up front that if ther was something to never do and that was to cheat..she did it anyway..she keeps trying to reel me bac n but I don't think I can ever trust this woman or any woman especially being 1409 miles apart..can I get some suggestions I love her but am at my wits end and her sons rule the household..I spent 30k of my own $ for everything to go backward n she claims she wud tell me..I DONT THINK SO AND I THINK SHE ONLY SORRY SHE WAS COT..

 

[Tranced]

^I genuinely can't read that without paragraphs.

 

[RJW46]

I'm sorry tranced I tried breaking it to paragraphs..I guess I was venting I am pushin 60 and wasn't aware of how they do it on west coast..ALL IN THER MEANS 20%

 

[BrickTop0_o]

Most of the above.
In hind sight, I realize that each one of these is a deal breaker. But I learn the hard way. Oh well.
And:
She screams "RAPE!" at the top of her lungs in a department store when you won't buy her the $400 sweater she HAS to have.
She says her ex-boyfriends raped her.
She kicks your dog.
Runs over your pet rat.
Then rams you with her car.
Tries to run over elderly neighbor with car.
Pees on your chair.
Accuses your friend of drugging her and raping her. As you can imagine, this causes problems for the friend.
Soon after this, laughs at the news that your friend (his name was Dusty) killed himself. Then makes a joke: "Dusty's taking a dirt nap. HAHAHAH," she shrieks hysterically.
Then she says:" And when I get through with you, you'll be taking a dirt nap with Dusty." "HAAHAHAHa!" she cackles gleefully at that thought.
Cooks you stew, and after eating about half a bowl, you find a tampon in it.
Puts Nair in your shampoo bottle.
Sticks a wine bottle up her butt.
Then, breaks wine bottle over your head. I've still got a divot-like scar in the side of my head.
Then beats her mom with a lamp when mom tries to intervene.
Then hides in her dealer's apartment across the street because by now, the neighbors have called the cops.
Once in jail, calls you and says you have to get her out or you'll "get what's coming to you."
Still in jail, threatens suicide and goes to psych ward.
Cuts holes in your underwear.
Drugs and kidnaps you.
Won't let you break up with her. Ever.
Claims she just gave birth to your baby and shows you a tupperware bowl that she keeps in her refrigerator. The bowl has a bloody mess in it.
Follows you around town and figures out who you're now seeing and then threatens them.
Keys your new girl friends car.
Spray paints your new girlfriends front door.
Poops in your new girlfriends front yard.
Calls your boss, co-workers, relatives, ex-girlfriends, ex-girlfriends' mothers, etc. and tells them she's a battered woman.
Gets you fired.
There's more. I'm writing a blog about it. It's titled "Misogyny."

OMFG

I am so sorry on behalf of all women.

 

[sargam]

She threatens to kill herself.

These are the worst