Frankthetank41
Greenlighter
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- May 15, 2013
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Maybe she wants you to be more aggressive (some girls find that sexy). Like, she starts it~ teases you and just kind of waits for you to take control and go after her! I would say try being more aggressive (obviously there is a fine line but knowing that you guys have been together for 2 years I know that you will know her limits). Or maybe before you can ask her, do you want me to be more aggressive and go after you? (then tackle her!) Hehe. :3. But make sure when you do this there's no one home and going to be home anytime soon so there's no other excuses. Also, maybe a glass of wine or a cocktail before might help her loosen up? Maybe she feels uncomfortable and wants to do it during the night? Maybe she wants a little romance? So many variables! Try, try, try them all!
(P.S. I do think that she still finds you attractive because you said she always initiates sexual acts and teases you.)
Thing is, when i try to take control, its like she doesnt like want too. Like she almost doesnt like it even though she asks me too. Like you said, I know her limits, and its basically there from the get go. Thats what blows my mind and why Ive stopped trying to get intimate anymore. As Phliper stated, you cant expect someone that likes sex to stay in a relationship with someone that doesn't . Id like to think shes not joshing me when she said Im really good at it, but it almost doesnt make sense. Id think if that were the case, than she would enjoy having it you know? And that she would want too. Even something spontaneous like the shower, or the car or something. Maybe a weekend getaway with some wine like you said could do the trick. Or when nobody is home. I should be able to find some time hopefully to get something going.