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My husband is addicted

snmfmy said:
You cannot stay in the relationship. If you're a US citizen, you can go to the US embassy in any country and ask for protection. Sometimes they'll even put you on a flight back to the states.

If you're not a u.s citizen. Other countries often do the same thing for theirs. You need to contact the consulate or the embassy of your nation.

If he's looking for chicks to have sex with in front of you, he's either already had sex outside your marriage or he's getting ready to which exposes you to sexually transmitted diseases.

No way that you can reason with people in the midst of full-blown addiction.
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Hey ! I’m in very bad situation! I’m from Russia! I was run away from my country! Because I’m political blogger and lgbt activist!
 
Christina0007 said:
Hey ! I’m in very bad situation! I’m from Russia! I was run away from my country! Because I’m political blogger and lgbt activist!
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Where your from is of lesser importance then where you are now.

In the Netherland's they would def help you, Denmark probably too, they are the happiest people on the world.

You have no other contact over there then the abuser? I feel a bit sick as I had the same experience but not under those cicumstances. And I have a thick scull. Though she has my kid's.

Much of love. Please keep venting and finding the way out..Seek help al be it anonymous.
 
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You gotta get safe, find a church if you have to, if you tell your story, you will find someone that will help you. Dont stay, if you love him, you can go back later after he gets himself straight. if you stay, you may get hurt then you will never want to see him again. Im hoping for you.... stay strong. What country are you in now?
 
Christina0007 said:
Hello! I really need your advice! My husband is addicted to drugs (ice) and alcohol. It's very hard for me. I'm afraid to say the wrong thing every time because he has anger issues and we often fight. Overall, he's a very nice guy, he loves me, but sometimes I don't recognize him. He wants to stop drugs and alcohol for me, but every time we go back to where we started. One day, a week ago, he hurt my heart very much, he started looking for girls on a dating app in front of me and was even going to go to one of them to have sex. To the question of why, "I just want it that way." Before that, there was a case in the car, he accelerated very much. I wanted to call his father, but he said if I did he would kill us. I was very scared, he was drunk. I love him, but I'm afraid it will never end. What should I do? Run away? Or support him to the end? God, I have so many thoughts and questions. I do not know where to go, I am very dependent on him right now. I'm in a foreign country, alone. I have nowhere to live. I'm so scared sometimes.
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I honestly wouldn't care if he looks at porn and girls when he's on the gear with you.

If he loves you, thats all it is. It doesn't mean anything. Its just doing extreme shit. You are his girl.

Ill be worried if he was talking to other girls when hes sober behind your back.

When im fucked up I do the same with my girlfriend next to me. I would never do shit behind her back, not interested
 
rufojones said:
You gotta get safe, find a church if you have to, if you tell your story, you will find someone that will help you. Dont stay, if you love him, you can go back later after he gets himself straight. if you stay, you may get hurt then you will never want to see him again. Im hoping for you.... stay strong. What country are you in now?
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México 🇲🇽
 
garygroundwork said:
I honestly wouldn't care if he looks at porn and girls when he's on the gear with you.

If he loves you, thats all it is. It doesn't mean anything. Its just doing extreme shit. You are his girl.

Ill be worried if he was talking to other girls when hes sober behind your back.

When im fucked up I do the same with my girlfriend next to me. I would never do shit behind her back, not interested
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U doing like him ? I mean u want go and fuck another girls ? Or sexsting with them ?
 
Love isn't enough to make a relationship work. It is just one component of a healthy relationship. If somebody loves you but still hurts you and disregards your boundaries, you need to leave.

When somebody acts to control your behavior, they do it out of fear. Controlling actions don't permanently soothe the fear, so the controlling behavior escalates to violence and sometimes even murder if the cycle of abuse grows for too long.
 
Christina0007 said:
U doing like him ? I mean u want go and fuck another girls ? Or sexsting with them ?
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yeah when im on meth ill look at porn with her there.

I don't want to fuck any other girls. Never have once cheated and have 0 interest in cheating but doing crazy shit when high with her. yes all for it.

Sexting I would but thats where it would end.
 
emkee_reinvented said:
Where your from is of lesser importance then where you are now.

In the Netherland's they would def help you, Denmark probably too, they are the happiest people on the world.

You have no other contact over there then the abuser? I feel a bit sick as I had the same experience but not under those cicumstances. And I have a thick scull. Though she has my kid's.

Much of love. Please keep venting and finding the way out..Seek help al be it anonymous.
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Yeah and he knows this. POS manipulating her, but then again it’s hard to say what exactly is going on. People are so complex.stool strokes me as a POS.
garygroundwork said:
yeah when im on meth ill look at porn with her there.

I don't want to fuck any other girls. Never have once cheated and have 0 interest in cheating but doing crazy shit when high with her. yes all for it.

Sexting I would but thats where it would end.
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Sexting? PPL still do that? You can see how long I been out the dating pool lol
 
Christina0007 said:
Hello! I really need your advice! My husband is addicted to drugs (ice) and alcohol. It's very hard for me. I'm afraid to say the wrong thing every time because he has anger issues and we often fight. Overall, he's a very nice guy, he loves me, but sometimes I don't recognize him. He wants to stop drugs and alcohol for me, but every time we go back to where we started. One day, a week ago, he hurt my heart very much, he started looking for girls on a dating app in front of me and was even going to go to one of them to have sex. To the question of why, "I just want it that way." Before that, there was a case in the car, he accelerated very much. I wanted to call his father, but he said if I did he would kill us. I was very scared, he was drunk. I love him, but I'm afraid it will never end. What should I do? Run away? Or support him to the end? God, I have so many thoughts and questions. I do not know where to go, I am very dependent on him right now. I'm in a foreign country, alone. I have nowhere to live. I'm so scared sometimes.
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Well, my personal advice is ice & alcohol are both very dangerous abusive drugs. It would be good if you could find shelter anywhere. Go to the Us Consulate if you come from here and leave ASAP.
Trust me, the situation will only get WORSE. I grew up around these kind of environment's you have to leave this guy he's NO good for your Mental well being and or health. Do whatever you can do to leave ASAP. It's not going to get better trust me it's only going to get worse. If worse comes to worse save up some money and bolt ASAP. MY Sister was in a relationship just like this and it did not end well. PLEASE LEAVE when he's out of the house & NEVER LOOK BACK.
 
garygroundwork said:
I honestly wouldn't care if he looks at porn and girls when he's on the gear with you.

If he loves you, thats all it is. It doesn't mean anything. Its just doing extreme shit. You are his girl.

Ill be worried if he was talking to other girls when hes sober behind your back.

When im fucked up I do the same with my girlfriend next to me. I would never do shit behind her back, not interested
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Probably missed some part as I thought it was he was solely using and stopping and Christinna 0007 was 0.0/ clean/ sober. Actually I am not even sure he was only abussive on drugs or alway's. Was that mentioned?
Meth and porn is a well known fact, but not a crime. Abuse is. Does Meth make people do that?
Let's assume its not a feature of Meth. Then its a Passive Agressive Disorder at least, and escape your option. Otherwise it will probaly continue.

Someone imo on any stim, besides Cocaine, ever became abusive or agressive afaik. Meth is for me non existant, could be like Coke.
 
Juicewrldfan said:
Yeah and he knows this. POS manipulating her, but then again it’s hard to say what exactly is going on. People are so complex.stool strokes me as a POS.

Sexting? PPL still do that? You can see how long I been out the dating pool lol
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yeah mate I got no idea about sexting to be honest. just know meth makes people do shit they don't normally do.

whatever crazy fetishes meth makes you do or you like to do just do it with your partner not behind each others backs.

thats my motto
 
garygroundwork said:
yeah mate I got no idea about sexting to be honest. just know meth makes people do shit they don't normally do.

whatever crazy fetishes meth makes you do or you like to do just do it with your partner not behind each others backs.

thats my motto
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Yeah I am
Cool on stims now. I don’t mess with anymore well
Since two weeks ago haha…but seriously.
 
Not everyone that does meth and alcohol is violent or makes threats so it’s not just the drugs.
Not the right guy imo
 
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