Kl519
Bluelight Crew
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- Jul 17, 2014
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I think self help is much more useful than an informed stranger who wants to help you for money, even though the latter has its place. Maybe I'm in the minority, since it worked out decently for me. But if a person doesn't accept help, or even try to do something different and help him/herself and wants to stay as they are, the situation becomes impossible to change (duh). I'm not saying that's you, but make sure that's not you if you really want to help yourself.
I don't think you need methods in the physical world, but inside your inner world. You have to have the right attitude, and that starts with controlling your own thinking. In so many ways, your thoughts are tied to your mental state. Being pessimistic too often can also facilitate mental issues as well.
It's weird though. You cited your own lack of progress even with a huge amount of attempted assistance. As well as with that much amount of time...but you seem to know what's stopping you, and you even mention opening up, which is in itself an intangible/non-physical change.
Something is amiss, because if all of the above is true then all you need is to take a page out of Nike.
I don't think you need methods in the physical world, but inside your inner world. You have to have the right attitude, and that starts with controlling your own thinking. In so many ways, your thoughts are tied to your mental state. Being pessimistic too often can also facilitate mental issues as well.
It's weird though. You cited your own lack of progress even with a huge amount of attempted assistance. As well as with that much amount of time...but you seem to know what's stopping you, and you even mention opening up, which is in itself an intangible/non-physical change.
Something is amiss, because if all of the above is true then all you need is to take a page out of Nike.