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masturbation is gay (is jerking off a clone gay?)

Everyone is most familiar with their own body. Naturally, this makes most people better at homosexual sex than heterosexual sex.
 
@w01fg4ng

Yeah when you give someone a handjob for the very first time, you're most likely already a professional. It's also enjoyable to pleasure a dick (even if it's not your own) because of associations in your brain from masturbation. This - I think - is why "straight guys" like to watch clips of other dudes cumming on women's faces / tits / etc.

Women from my experience almost always tend to be at least open minded to the idea of experimenting with the same sex... and a lot of "straight women" watch lesbian porn. When I've asked about this, they have all linked it to masturbation. This may be a cover though.

I feel like everyone is repressing their curiosity. Life is short. Why not experiment with sex and drugs. I think most people would enjoy gay sex.
 
Nobody is discussing clone sex?
I’m cracking up! This philosophical conundrum crossed my mind many years ago. Is clone sex morally acceptable? Because it’s yourself, right? However, when you consider identical twins, absolutely not. They share considerable DNA, but not clone status. The answer I ultimately decided was most likely regarding myself, is that I have a propensity toward wild behavior when the stars are aligned. I’m certain I would get wasted and fuck the shit out of myself. Hahaha! ✌️❤️
 
I'm not sure why bisexual porn exists. Straight porn is bisexual porn.
Nope it isn't. If you're a straight guy watching straight porn, you're putting YOURSELF in the position of the guy in the scene. You're imagining it's you fucking the girl or getting your dick sucked. Hence also the POV shots. You're not getting turned on by the guy, you imagine being the guy. For bi porn you wanna watch 2 girls / 1 guy or the reverse.
What's the difference between another man's dick and your own dick?
Er, your own dick is your OWN damn body part and attached to YOU. You're not fancying some other man.
Maybe some people are self-gay?
What does that even mean. If your own body is the only male body you find attractive, then you're merely a massive narcissist.
 
I've seen countless posts on Reddit about some girlfriend who posts about their stinky ass boyfriend who refuses to wash their asshole in the shower because they think touching their own butt is "gay"....

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In the past when I used to get particularly "tweaky and kinky" I would stick stuff up my ass to stimulate my prostate. Never thought it was gay at all, just fun. I suggest all straight guys try it before knocking it or having some existential "am I gay?" crisis.

I wouldn't mind being pegged, tbh, if the woman was into it, and I consider myself very vanilla hetero.
That’s awesome, dude! Open-mindedness as per sex is an amazing thing and more people should try it…

As per OPs question, I’m bisexual but I don’t look at myself. In fact, I tend to close my eyes when I masturbate. It helps me focus on the sensations and fantasize, usually about the person I’m with. Occasionally I’ll watch porn, but it’s rare. More often I’ll read sexy stories on Reddit (Reddit has GREAT porn btw, and no fucking ads, unlike porn sites.) I prefer to use my imagination because otherwise part of my brain is occupied with critiquing the porn. Maybe I think the woman looks too fake, or that lil voice in my head is talking about how unrealistic the scenario is, or how difficult those positions must be to get into and maintain for that length of time…etc. it doesn’t really work for me. To silence my inner critic, I imagine what I want, and the sexy stories just give me ideas. So, in this same vein, when I’m looking at myself I just end up being self-critical, like “omg my boobs are so saggy, I have no ass, I need to lose weight” etc and that’s not sexy at all.

I only recently started opening my eyes during sex with my partner for more than a peep or two, because in the past I would get embarrassed and self-conscious and it would be hard to focus on what we’re doing. I finally got to the point where I feel comfortable in my own skin around him, and omg keeping your eyes open during sex is fucking INTENSE, I had no idea! I seriously never did it before because of this inner self-critical voice. But looking at your partner straight in the eye while you orgasm is the most thrilling, satisfying and intense thing EVER. How did I go this long and not give it a try?! 🤯
 
Yeah, I get that...



It's at least a little gay to have a dick in your mouth IMO, even if it's your own dick.



So, sucking your own dick isn't even slightly gay and jerking off to yourself in the mirror isn't even slightly gay? That doesn't make sense to me.



I suspect people are subconsciously enjoying male bodies.

Straight porn is kind of gay, too. When "straight" guys jerk off (unless it's lesbian porn or solo women) they're wanking a dick while watching another dick get sucked/fucked/whatever.

I'm not sure why bisexual porn exists. Straight porn is bisexual porn.



What's the difference between another man's dick and your own dick?

Maybe some people are self-gay?

@TheUltimateFixx
I think you just WANT everyone to be gay because it’ll open up the dating pool enough for someone to lower their standards enough to have sex with you
 
I would just like to take a moment here to reassure all hot str8 guys reading this thread that, yes, indeed they are 100% gay if they have ever masturbated, and the best way forward now would probably be to PM me with recent pics so we can arrange to meet up and confirm this truth together.

Yours,
CFC.
 
@xtcgrrrl , the eyes-open thing might be sexy for some but for me that doesn't work. My eyes automatically shut in the moment, I can't help that.
... Also knowing someone's looking at my cumface would totally put me off. XD

PS and no I'm blissfully unaware of what that looks like but I doubt it's sexy. Most people pull faces like they just stepped barefoot on bits of lego.
 
Lol probably. I do still close my eyes a lot, I can’t help it, I get overwhelmed by sensation and my eyes just…roll back in my head, lol. But honestly, watching someone you love cum is super hot. I mean, I’m sure that OBJECTIVELY, we look absolutely hilarious, but in the moment when you’re chock-full of hormones, it’s sexy. Plus there’s the added factor of being in love, which renders EVERYTHING about your partner a total turn-on.

Love is a drug for sure. The best one ever :)
 
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