DwayneHoover
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If it's a way of bonding with your friends and creating some kind of scenario in which a deep level of trust is established and proven, that's cool... kind of like what they say S&M sex is really all about, which this bears alot of similarities to, IMO.
But in general, in most cases, I think all this "mind game" shit is really just a big ego-trip for the "top" who is fucking with the head of the unfortunate victim. It CAN lead to psychological/emotional damage and is just a retarded, juvenile way to behave and prove ones "top dog" dominance over others... it stems from the suppressed insecurities of the one doing the messing-with and his pathetic need to act-out some kind of idiotic "superiority" to make his own injured hidden inner child feel better about itself, when really some sort of psychotherapy is in order.
Let your trips be about YOUR OWN relationship with yourself and the Cosmos, not about how big or powerful you are in your silly little social cluster-fuck realm and how much you can mess up someone else up. Sit peacefully, close your eyes, meditate, listen to music, visualize, go inside and contact your own inner truth. etc. Playing dumb games & messing with others' personalities is ultimately stupid, empty, and utterly unrewarding for everyone, as "personality" is really just an evaporating illusion generated by a set of defensive mental subroutines. Sadly wasted time and energy. Grow up.
But in general, in most cases, I think all this "mind game" shit is really just a big ego-trip for the "top" who is fucking with the head of the unfortunate victim. It CAN lead to psychological/emotional damage and is just a retarded, juvenile way to behave and prove ones "top dog" dominance over others... it stems from the suppressed insecurities of the one doing the messing-with and his pathetic need to act-out some kind of idiotic "superiority" to make his own injured hidden inner child feel better about itself, when really some sort of psychotherapy is in order.
Let your trips be about YOUR OWN relationship with yourself and the Cosmos, not about how big or powerful you are in your silly little social cluster-fuck realm and how much you can mess up someone else up. Sit peacefully, close your eyes, meditate, listen to music, visualize, go inside and contact your own inner truth. etc. Playing dumb games & messing with others' personalities is ultimately stupid, empty, and utterly unrewarding for everyone, as "personality" is really just an evaporating illusion generated by a set of defensive mental subroutines. Sadly wasted time and energy. Grow up.
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