poledriver
Good stuff man. All the best!
DrugfuckedNZ
Thanks man
Charles Bronson
"No partner.
He uses drugs (mainly alcohol to "escape his head" (his quote)...his thoughts as he has a mental illness and is a chronic Hypochondriac.
He doesn't mix well socially especially sober, an he can be quite intense and does not pickup on subtle nuisances and says inappropriate things, is socially awkward when sober, he mainly talks 'word salad' and quotes people and facts.
He is incapable of employment and has never worked and has an attention span of about 5-30mins depending on his state of mind and interest in subject.
No he doesn't give blood, you don't get paid to in New Zealand, except for a cup of tea and a bickie (kiwi for biscuit)
That isn't a nice way to talk about your son man!"
DrugfuckedNZ
All the above you quoted is true, honest but sad and true, he tells me every-time he sees me. If you can't handle the truth then that's your problem bud. I see you left out the positive things I mentioned...
"He is a handsome 27 year old with a pure heart of gold"
"My son is very intelligent and is studying by correspondence at University and is passing. His intelligence is also commented on by my family, friends and flatmates and no one can beat him at chess. He is an absolute pro on the electric guitar playing all the greats like Hendrix perfectly. He enjoys his recreational drugs. He is also a book-worm and loves reading and learning facts and quoting famous or great people (which drives me crazy). He idolises Aleister Crowley, loves the occult and studying and trying out different religions."
"He can discuss anything with me which I really love (including his porn collection lol)."
"He is my favourite child out of four, mainly because I know my other kids will be fine and do not have a hard road ahead of them compared to my only boy."
Anyway thanks for the feedback Charles Bronson and take care too
Jakeperson
"I am sure he loves his son and was just trying to be honest to give us perspective.
Goodluck drugfuckedNZ, hope everything goes well for you. "
DrugfuckedNZ
Right on the money brother, cheers
Divine Moments
"Regardless of your decision, respect for having the balls to come on here and open up about the problem to complete strangers and weirdos on the internet. Even knowing you were going to get it. Posting this thread doesn't make you a shitty parent. It's easy for us to cast our opinions and criticism without having any real, personal understanding of your situation. Best of luck."
DrugfuckedNZ
Thank you
I knew I would get some flack for posting this thread, but I was sincere and honest about it and had no where else to turn to for advice, big ups to Bluelight! Anyway it wasn't about me it was about my son.
I was going to take my boy away for New Years to my Brothers club in Auckland, but he pulled out because of the reasons Charles Bronson mentioned, saying "I wouldn't fit in" and he wouldn't of.
He is doing well and brought me one tomato plant for Christmas potted in a pot-plant holder and a breakfast plate to catch the water lol, gotta love it that's my boy