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Is it ok to shoot up your son with IV drugs if he asks you to?

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Lets try and keep this discussion on the topic at hand, the OP and his conundrum.

I think nobodyspecial and Jakeperson both have valid points of view, and the different opinions don't have to be at odds with each other. I for one, as someone who has never I'ved, am finding the various viewpoints on IVing really interesting, both Jakeperson's experience with it not being a huge deal and nobodyspecial saying it was a big step in his life. I think with an issue like IVing there's no 'right' way that it effects your life, so it's good to hear about a variety of experiences.
 
i'm curious to know what the OP makes of all of this.
i mean...has a decision been reached, one way or the other?
 
It seemed like he was going to do it in his latest post but I don't think he was 100%
 
Hi fellow BlueLighters,

I would like to thank you all for taking the time in helping me make a decision on this very controversial topic and thread.

You gave your precious time and put a lot of thought and effort to post your honest and straight-up answers, opinions, intelligent advice, arguments, varying view-points, encouragement, discouragement, support, abhorrence and sickened loathing etc on the thought of a father introducing his mentally ill son to intravenous drugs and actually doing the administering of the shot. Even though he is a 27 year old man.
And for that I am truly grateful and most appreciative. I did not even consult my IV using mates as I wanted a totally independent and unbiased response.
(I just updated my original post to try to give you a little more insight).

I thought I would reply as requested as it would of been rude and disrespectful of me not to, part of me wanted to hide under a rock and disappear off the face of the earth and never return to this website after reading some of the posts.
Pangs of guilt hit me hard and my conscience pricked me for being a shitty parent for even posting such a thread.
A couple of years ago when I held a high position in a religious organisation, if someone asked the same question as my original post, I would have smashed them in their fucking face.
It just proves that what used to be clear-cut black and white has changed to shades of grey.

I guess that's the addict mind and I'm more messed up than I thought...

Thank you all once again :)

regards DFNZ
 
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No partner.
He uses drugs (mainly alcohol to "escape his head" (his quote)...his thoughts as he has a mental illness and is a chronic Hypochondriac.
He doesn't mix well socially especially sober, an he can be quite intense and does not pickup on subtle nuisances and says inappropriate things, is socially awkward when sober, he mainly talks 'word salad' and quotes people and facts.
He is incapable of employment and has never worked and has an attention span of about 5-30mins depending on his state of mind and interest in subject.
No he doesn't give blood, you don't get paid to in New Zealand, except for a cup of tea and a bickie (kiwi for biscuit)


That isn't a nice way to talk about your son man!
 
Haha, he cops so much shit and says so and you follow up with that, can't help but laugh.

I am sure he loves his son and was just trying to be honest to give us perspective.

Goodluck drugfuckedNZ, hope everything goes well for you. :)
 
Regardless of your decision, respect for having the balls to come on here and open up about the problem to complete strangers and weirdos on the internet. Even knowing you were going to get it. Posting this thread doesn't make you a shitty parent. It's easy for us to cast our opinions and criticism without having any real, personal understanding of your situation. Best of luck :)
 
poledriver
Good stuff man. All the best! :)
DrugfuckedNZ
Thanks man :)

Charles Bronson
"No partner.
He uses drugs (mainly alcohol to "escape his head" (his quote)...his thoughts as he has a mental illness and is a chronic Hypochondriac.
He doesn't mix well socially especially sober, an he can be quite intense and does not pickup on subtle nuisances and says inappropriate things, is socially awkward when sober, he mainly talks 'word salad' and quotes people and facts.
He is incapable of employment and has never worked and has an attention span of about 5-30mins depending on his state of mind and interest in subject.
No he doesn't give blood, you don't get paid to in New Zealand, except for a cup of tea and a bickie (kiwi for biscuit)

That isn't a nice way to talk about your son man!"
DrugfuckedNZ
All the above you quoted is true, honest but sad and true, he tells me every-time he sees me. If you can't handle the truth then that's your problem bud. I see you left out the positive things I mentioned...

"He is a handsome 27 year old with a pure heart of gold"

"My son is very intelligent and is studying by correspondence at University and is passing. His intelligence is also commented on by my family, friends and flatmates and no one can beat him at chess. He is an absolute pro on the electric guitar playing all the greats like Hendrix perfectly. He enjoys his recreational drugs. He is also a book-worm and loves reading and learning facts and quoting famous or great people (which drives me crazy). He idolises Aleister Crowley, loves the occult and studying and trying out different religions."

"He can discuss anything with me which I really love (including his porn collection lol)."

"He is my favourite child out of four, mainly because I know my other kids will be fine and do not have a hard road ahead of them compared to my only boy."

Anyway thanks for the feedback Charles Bronson and take care too :)

Jakeperson
"I am sure he loves his son and was just trying to be honest to give us perspective.
Goodluck drugfuckedNZ, hope everything goes well for you.:) "
DrugfuckedNZ
Right on the money brother, cheers :)

Divine Moments
"Regardless of your decision, respect for having the balls to come on here and open up about the problem to complete strangers and weirdos on the internet. Even knowing you were going to get it. Posting this thread doesn't make you a shitty parent. It's easy for us to cast our opinions and criticism without having any real, personal understanding of your situation. Best of luck."
DrugfuckedNZ
Thank you :) I knew I would get some flack for posting this thread, but I was sincere and honest about it and had no where else to turn to for advice, big ups to Bluelight! Anyway it wasn't about me it was about my son.
I was going to take my boy away for New Years to my Brothers club in Auckland, but he pulled out because of the reasons Charles Bronson mentioned, saying "I wouldn't fit in" and he wouldn't of.
He is doing well and brought me one tomato plant for Christmas potted in a pot-plant holder and a breakfast plate to catch the water lol, gotta love it that's my boy ;)
 
If you're truly not a troll and your son really does suffer from that wide spectrum of mental disorders then you should be doing everything in your power to stop your son from using ANY drugs. As an Asperger sufferer myself, undiagnosed until the age of 30, I can tell you that drugs are the LAST thing you son needs in life.

If you want to help your son you should get the fuck out of his life or stop using drugs and lead by example :X
 
bit-pattern
Troll LMFAO bit-pattern...
That might be the case for you, but my son does like to drink and his mental health case workers (Doctor/Psychiatrist) know this and allow for it by reducing his medication. Are you a Doctor or Psychiatrist?

He has been using since 10, and to be honest he is happiest when he is drunk or on drugs occasionally, you don't know him or see him like I do so you don't know shit about him so get off your high horse! What works for you doesn't work for others.
Learn to read bit-pattern he doesn't suffer all those mental disorders!

My choice to use drugs/booze is my own freedom of choice and not yours, the same goes for my son, I love drugs and always will, but I don't use around my boy anymore. If my son does go overboard I do give him advice to drink/use in moderation and he listens to me. Drug taking is only one aspect of me and my son's relationship so you don't know the positives that I do.
 
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No more abusive posts please.

Divine Moments said:
Regardless of your decision, respect for having the balls to come on here and open up about the problem to complete strangers and weirdos on the internet. Even knowing you were going to get it. Posting this thread doesn't make you a shitty parent. It's easy for us to cast our opinions and criticism without having any real, personal understanding of your situation. Best of luck
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Well this thread completely degenerated. Pity some people are unable to simply express their opinions without resorting to childish abuse. We removed many abusive posts (and those referring to them). Closed.
 
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