Steinanwine: Thanks for the very candid message you sent my way. I've never had intense therapy with a psychiatrist. There is no doubt I need a professional to delve inside my cranium to discover why I do the things I do. At this time my finances are quite tight and would have a difficult time affording multiple sessions.
StarEkstasis: I agree with what you said. I just wish I could stop worrying about things that are simply beyond my control.
EnYaY: Thanks for the kind offer, I might just take you up on it sometime. Maybe some of the laid back L.A. lifestyle is just what I need.
Things do move awfully quickly here on the East Coast. It's upsetting to hear that you're dealing with such awful depression also. To comment on your statement about a million people caring for you but nobody giving a fuck. It stems a lot of the time from people feeling empathy but not wanting to dig below the surface to add your particular issue onto the weight they already carry themselves. For this reason I stopped confiding in people in my daily life long ago.
Care: I do need to do a 180 on my view of life, but it's been so long since i've been happy I can't remember what it's like.
I took a few days away from the computer to try and put the advice i've received here into Action. Like everyone who looks in the mirror I see a lot that needs to be fixed and fine tuned. Internally I'm a very angry and depressed person. Both emotions stemming from not having acheived much for a person in my age bracket. It's a vicious cycle of feeling down and self-medicating to compensate. I've stopped going to meetings for the time being as I'm not living up to my end of the deal. I'm drinking and smoking weed two to three times a week by myself to unwind. This isn't behavior that I'm proud of but the stress of daily life is getting to me and I need a momentary break from all of the trigger points. The only thing I'm sticking to on my goal list are the five day a week weightlifting sessions. They're a true gift and friend pushing that hoplessness temporarily down to my toenails where it belongs.
Janelle and I are hanging out sparingly. Almost feels like a dentist appointment that I've made that's too late to back out of. We are from two different worlds. She's a privileged woman from a very wealthy family. I can tell she's been very much insulated from life and it's pressures. In contrast I come from a working class family. Even though I look like a fucked up Ken Doll my idea of a good time isn't hanging out at the country club. I don't know where it's headed and I'm not sure I care.
I was thinking last night about artistic things such as movies,books,music. Below are some of my favorites that stoke the fires to feel. Would be great to find out what type of things you guys are into also. Well here are some of my current favs.
Music
Nine Inch Nails: Every Day Is Exactly The Same, Ruiner, Hurt, Head Like A Hole, Hand that Feeds, The Day The World Went Away, Something I Can Never Have.
Marilyn Manson: The Nobodies, The Beautiful People.
Mazzy Starr: Fade Into You, Into Dust.
City and Color: The Sleeping Sickness, I'm Comin Home
Clint Mansell: Dead Reckoning, Shell Shock, Requiem for a dream.
Stone Sour: Bother
Staind: It's been awhile
Henry Rollins: Disconnect
Devlins: Waiting
Craig Armstrong: Lets Go Out Tonight.
Movies
Requiem for a dream, American Beauty, He was a Quiet Man.
Jay