Calm down. Placebo effect is a thing and if you're putting all your energy into the procedure fucking up then you're going to sabotage yourself.
From 2019
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6839670/:
"Generally, these surgeries do not encounter difficulties but at times can result in complications; a complication rate of 4.6–30.9% following the extraction of third molars is reported in the literature."
They define complications as those during surgery, and those after. So the statistic gets further divided. This means you have roughly a 2/3 chance that nothing will go wrong. Even
if something happens post-op, they will deal with it!
FYI, dry socket is more likely to occur in people with blood clotting problems. The clot in the socket doesn't hold and it falls out, exposing the raw surgery site (nerves, bone root, etc). If you don't have a clotting problem, then your chances are low that dry socket will happen. Nobody I've ever known who got wisdom teeth removed got dry socket, and I work in medical. If you go to Reddit you're going to always find the 1 in 500 person who had a problem. On the internet, you're almost never going to hear from people who had NO PROBLEMS. So you're engaging in selection bias by even reading those stories.
And finally, my personal story. When I was 16 I had all 4 wisdom teeth removed at once when two became impacted and formed abscesses under my gums. The abscesses had to be drained, leaving large open pockets beneath my gums. I got dry socket. My chin was numb on the left side for 6 months because of nerve exposure. I had to irrigate the pockets with saline every time I ate because food would fill them up. I was also in pain, but after about 1 month there was no more pain, I just had annoying sockets. The sockets got smaller and smaller and after 3 months they were gone. The chin numbness also went away. Yes it was a nuisance and yes it was gross, but you deal with it and then move on with your life. The wisdom teeth abscesses were way more painful than the dry socket, I couldn't even close my teeth together without feeling hot pain in my jaw.
Don't fuck with wisdom teeth. Get them removed if they're a problem and be thankful that you have access to the means to do so. You'll heal, life for your mouth will be better, and then you can move on.
