IAMWHY
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 3, 2010
- Messages
- 59
The person I'm in a relationship with is hiding the fact that he is sexually attracted to men to the point where that's the only kind of porn he will watch.
I have tried watching gay porn with him as that is something I have been into and have enjoyed but when I watch it with him all I can feel are his thoughts replacing my hand with the guys ass he's watching... wishing it was a dude's ball sac slapping against his ball sac instead of the edge of my palm.
I even knew he was gay just intuitively when I was just friends with him, but when I asked him, he said he wasn't.
Now instead of being pleasurebly turned on when I watch gay porn, I get this knot in my stomach and I just watch thinking, I don't have a cock... where'd my cock go?
I can't possibly explain how bad it fucks with my head that I feel like I have a phantom limb cock if that makes sense.... and I don't know if I will ever be able to feel complete because honestly I'm not too much of a fan of the fact that I'm a woman cause I just don't feel like one most of the time.
I know I'm an attractive person not to be vain but when the person you want to be able to love doesn't open themselves up to you because you don't have a dick, and you already feel like you have one or more accurately should, it's like... if a dude was castrated almost. That might seem impossible to compare, but it feels real to me and I don't know how to get past this. I can't change his preferences for gay sex, and I can't do this whole poker facing game anymore. I wish I could just find a way to be ok with it and be able to enjoy my gay prawns again.
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I have tried watching gay porn with him as that is something I have been into and have enjoyed but when I watch it with him all I can feel are his thoughts replacing my hand with the guys ass he's watching... wishing it was a dude's ball sac slapping against his ball sac instead of the edge of my palm.
I even knew he was gay just intuitively when I was just friends with him, but when I asked him, he said he wasn't.
Now instead of being pleasurebly turned on when I watch gay porn, I get this knot in my stomach and I just watch thinking, I don't have a cock... where'd my cock go?
I can't possibly explain how bad it fucks with my head that I feel like I have a phantom limb cock if that makes sense.... and I don't know if I will ever be able to feel complete because honestly I'm not too much of a fan of the fact that I'm a woman cause I just don't feel like one most of the time.
I know I'm an attractive person not to be vain but when the person you want to be able to love doesn't open themselves up to you because you don't have a dick, and you already feel like you have one or more accurately should, it's like... if a dude was castrated almost. That might seem impossible to compare, but it feels real to me and I don't know how to get past this. I can't change his preferences for gay sex, and I can't do this whole poker facing game anymore. I wish I could just find a way to be ok with it and be able to enjoy my gay prawns again.
D;