By the way, I feel like a bit of an idiot for letting him go...he was ideal boyfriend material and I'll probably never meet anyone like that again whilst still of marrying age...and if I were to get married and start a family he'd make a great choice. In fact, seeing little kids of mixed Nordic/Muslim race puts a little lump in my chest as I know it's something I could have had, and would have made me very happy in many ways.
And you only need to take a look at him to see he's obviously a good and noble sort of guy, which is quite rare these days.
...still, there are some out there...
I've always liked the Indian type look as well. They're like a darker version of Northern Europens, in some cases even more like "us" than Southern Europeans, as they have the same facial structures. So his race didn't even cross my mind any of the time (not that it would have been an issue either way - but I forget Northern Europeans have no right to feel proud of our race unlike other races)
Especially when he was so well integrated and could already speak two European languages fluently after just a few years here, and it wasn't like I ever had to explain anything to him, but I guess it's true that Asians are smart. At least we were on the same level and had a lot of common aswell, so there weren't any conflicts, apart from my unwillingness to commit, which caused some tension.
Oh well, I wish him all the best, and hope he'll get his blonde-haired blue-eyes princess/angel that will be really his. And there are those who are much worse off than him - he doesn't exactly lack opportunuties. He just used to say "Other guys want a new girl every night but I just want the want the one" (Come on - that would be hard to resist for any girl).
He also drives taxi at night and you should hear some of the stories I hear. Practically every night some drunk slut, older woman, or prostitute throws themselves at him and propositions him right there in the cab - "But driver, you're so handsome" - "Can I suck you in the car?", etc. (I guess the prostitutes sees him as an easy client) but he'd always just shooo them away and tell them off (Trust a Muslim to keep a woman sexually in check).
It's still commandable he has the strength to resist it, though, but I guess if it's on offer every night it starts to lose value. Besides, only few of them has "really blue eyes and blond hair" - which of course is what the Earth's axis tilts on (In his internal world anyway). Then he'd come home to me and I wouldn't give a fuck (no, it wasn't as bad as that, but it didn't mean to me what it should have).
Well, he is Muslim, and they're not exactly known for their appreciation of the sexually liberated female, so it also helped I'm of the more demure type. While the 72 virgins waiting for him in heaven I suppose is an eeeentirely different matter - no way sex could make a man dirty, right. Funny world we live in as well.
Though I'm disappointed he can't see through that these attitutes are fostered on them to excuse seeing women as male possessions and motivate them to go to war (but I guess the brainwashing just starts too early and goes too deep). Apart from that he's a really sane/sound guy and doesn't really stand out from the average Westerner.
So that's that "lovestory", I guess. Unless someone has some observations they would like to add. I guess you could point out a thing or two. As long as I can be the innocent part at long last.
