One needs to love oneself before one can truly love another, and be loved.
Have you been burnt ina big way before? By parents or so-called friends or lovers? This can cause us to close our hearts, so we don't die from energy overload. It takes a while to integrate things and then techniques to actually open it back up.
Totally agree. Know what you are stacking that paper up for though, otherwise that chase becomes cold.
You will find love, once you accept yourself as who you are. Dark and light. Male and female. sexual instinctive animal homo sapien and conscious and righteous divine person.
pretty much. It's when you stop searching, it's when you go with the flow, that things start clicking into place. It's when you stop desperately looking for someone to cuddle up to that you realize you just met or already know someone amazing you would liketo spend a LOT of time with.
Another thing - I would err with caution on using particular phrases - "I can't fall in love" - therefore you cannot. You are literally programming yourself to never find love if you say things like that. Cause feeds effect feeds cause...vicious circle.
Look up kundalini yoga(if you're open to various ways of helping oneself) - try and find "opening heart", "banishing fear", "overcoming past wounds" exercises(kriya) - practicing these along with self affirmations will help, if not cure your condition. You also need to recognize that these things take time, so when you notice you love yourself more, keep affirming yourself, otherwise bit by bit your old patterns will creep back. It takes years to reprogramme oneself. Maybe just as many years as it took to have these poor habits. I don't know yet. What I do know is you have love, you just don't recognize what it is yet.
